FabSwingers.com forum: How to meet a couple

By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

Hi all.

I am here just for a while. I am struggling to find any couple for my first threesome. I am being polite while messaging, no rude pics even offering pay. Noone wants to meet, they are not even replying.

Is it possible to meet people in real or is it fake?

What am I doing wrong?

What should I do?

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By *aughty-couple1980Couple
8 weeks ago

hindley

For a start your profile shows nothink not even a paragraph about your self any kinks or any think not a good start really

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By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

Thanks. Will update now

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By *leep walkerMan
8 weeks ago

Caerphilly

Some more detail on your profile bio wouldn't go amiss.

And there's no quick fix sadly, single guys are a dime a dozen on here. It's a percentage game, the more messages you send out, the more chance of a reply. I was on here for 8 months before my 1st meet.

Going to a social to meet people and gain verifications can help your chances.

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By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

Thanks. Well I am just getting a bit disappointed. I didn't know that it's that difficult. Shame. However I am not gonna give up and keep trying

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By *aughty-couple1980Couple
8 weeks ago

hindley

Also your status now "any couples or females want fun tonight" many couples or single females will want a social meet before jumping into bed right away with a stranger

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By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

You are very helpful. Thank you. I appreciate that

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By *aughty-couple1980Couple
8 weeks ago

hindley

U need to change ur mind set on this site many people like ur self get dissapointed because u cant get meets what u have to think about is how many single blokes on here in same possition as u also its not a SEX site its a swingers site us for example we recive many messages off men as soon as we see any sort of penetration in message or cock pic in message its instint block because obvious the bloke has not read profile properly an hes expecting things we dont have to offer

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By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

I am reading profiles and always trying to follow theirs requirements. I know it's not just about sex. I am not here just to have sex, just want to explore new kinky things.

Or all of them considering myself as not handsome... Also possible unfortunately...

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By *aughty-couple1980Couple
8 weeks ago

hindley

U just have make sure ur profile good an detailes in what u do an dont like an be very honest about it many men on here say things they like but come to it an its not for them also u just have to do wat the other person said send out messages to people an hope for a reply but make sure the message u send has effort put into it just a hi or wanna fuck or wanna meet now or what u up to sort of messages is a big no thanks to many

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By *heelerMan
8 weeks ago

Northants

"Hi all.

Is it possible to meet people in real or is it fake?

What am I doing wrong?

What should I do?

Try a club 2 or 3 times get chatting don't just sit in the corner thinking they will drag you to a room be confident but not pushy biggest majority of club goers are friendly

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By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

Thank you very much. If anyone else wants go give some advice feel free to message me or post it here. Any advice welcome and appreciated.

Thanks

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By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

I am too shy for clubs I think. I prefer intimate meetings. Also I am afraid I could meet friends in the club and being laughed at. You know what I mean

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Coleraine

Looks like you have updated your profile based on the feedback.

Our advice

1. Be very very patient

2. Read a profile fully before sending a message

3. Send nice messages with some thought, show its individual to their profile

4. Don’t send follow up messages if no response

5. Focus on chatting and socials only. Don’t go straight into meets

6. Don’t send naked pictures until asked to do so

7. Think about what they want not what your horny cock wants!

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By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

Thanks!

I am up for every point!

Maybe some day I'll be lucky.

Sending hugs

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By *outhEastPaulMan
8 weeks ago

Thames Ditton surrey

"Looks like you have updated your profile based on the feedback.

Our advice

1. Be very very patient

2. Read a profile fully before sending a message

3. Send nice messages with some thought, show its individual to their profile

4. Don’t send follow up messages if no response

5. Focus on chatting and socials only. Don’t go straight into meets

6. Don’t send naked pictures until asked to do so

7. Think about what they want not what your horny cock wants! "

That's very good advice the only two things I would add are

1) Add an extra Very ...

2) Don't have any expectations

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By *ortboy89 OP Man
8 weeks ago

North west Cheshire

That's a problem. Actually I do have an expectations

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By *ORDERMANMan
8 weeks ago

wrexham(south)

Read the story for 'blind date' about carefully attracting couples..

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Dont offer to pay, its insulting. We've had many messages from men like you who are getting frustrated with the site and think that they can offer money and get some fun.

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By *aughty-couple1980Couple
8 weeks ago

hindley

Thats the problem with many men who dont get meets expectations are to high

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