FabSwingers.com forum: Sub or dom

By *ettpair OP Couple
2 days ago

Kettering

Genuinely interested in who is Dom and who is sub ? Is it something that comes naturally or maybe you've had an experience in the past that has brought out your stronger side...ps for the record we're both sub

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By *reampie Cleaner 69Man
2 days ago

Barnsley

I love to be sub to couples. Using me for their oral pleasure and clean up duties

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By *ightinchguyMan
2 days ago

bobb bobbing around

Dom guy here...

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By *eepthinker300Man
2 days ago

southwest

Sometimes we really like to confine others into absolute definition s …. Sub or Dom is one such example where really the boundaries are set in the interaction or relationship , one can like things that may seem a contradict to what they portray they are

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By *eterpan2025Man
2 days ago

Nottingham

Dom can go from pleasure dom to extreme

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By *ettpair OP Couple
2 days ago

Kettering

Did something bring this on or is it just part of your natural personality

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By *ornycouple44Couple
2 days ago

St austell

Sub here

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By *issJo555Woman
1 day ago

Surrey

Dominant Mistress here, Inwould say for me it's personality I like being in control and find it hard to give it up.

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By *orklassWoman
1 day ago

Cork

Always been Dominant since my teens, lived a vinilla life (partner and kids) but I felt it always there beneath the surface... now I am letting the real me free and being the true Domme I always was

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By *estiswestMan
1 day ago

glasgow

Sub in most respects

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
1 day ago

south coast IOW

Can be Dominant in day to day life but in the bedroom I’m very submissive and that’s exactly what I love to be. I am putty in the hands of an alpha type male or even an alpha couple. I’ve yet to submit to a female but will do so when I’m back out partying.

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By *azzler2Man
1 day ago

halifax

Dom

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By *unwanted1Man
1 day ago

Chesterfield

Dom guy here little experience with it still exploring

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By *alnutwhipsWoman
1 day ago

hull

Naturly dom.. comes naturally although ide love someone to overpower me so I become sub!! Gonna take some doing tho cos I'm a naturally over powering person in some ways n can't help it 🙄🫣

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By *ettpair OP Couple
1 day ago

Kettering

Loving the answers guys thank you all

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By *ony2269Man
1 day ago

Radcliffe

I’ve always been Dom.

Tracing it back I think it’s a combination of playing ‘pirates’ with a couple of girls when I was about 9 and pretending to tie them up against the school fences.

Then years of rope work as a boy scout.

It never been about pain. Just controlling the levels of pleasure. Being in charge also feels good and comes naturally at work and in play.

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By *eterpan2025Man
1 day ago

Nottingham

I wasn't always, I used to be very passive but the past 5 years I've really found its part of my sexual personality

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By *icki222TV/TS
1 day ago

Lincoln

I guess I’m more sub but not into the pain scene.

In fact I’m allergic to it lol! I do love being on my knees though

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By *mfao88Man
1 day ago

north yorkshire

I'm most definitely sub

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By *ot lover123Man
1 day ago

Salford

Sub bi here my dream to meet a couple in life

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By *uliette500Woman
1 day ago

Hull

Not really submissive in everyday life but I always have been in the bedroom.

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By *ottsguy74Man
24 hours ago

Nottingham

Sub.

Though have tried being dom but it just didn't come naturally.

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By *emdomCouple2024Couple
24 hours ago

dudley

We are both switches but preferred dynamic is mrs(domme) and mr(sub) xx

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
23 hours ago

Nowhere

Very sub

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By *igbbackagainMan
23 hours ago

Tallaght

Sub for sure

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By *issy Gemma CreweTV/TS
23 hours ago

Crewe

Definitely Sub!!!

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By *elshhorseMan
23 hours ago

ogmore valley

Dom, ex army 15years service, ex Dog handler, Horse man, so always been in control so to speak.

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By *abba44Man
22 hours ago

Broadstairs

End of last summer l met an extreme Dom man a couple of times and during chats over a cuppa it turned out he was a sub to his wife,a security guard for the Home office.

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By *endy321TV/TS
22 hours ago

gateshead

always been sub luv it

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By *ecker30Man
20 hours ago

Ilkley

Generally dominant in every day life but dream of being someone's sub!

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By *udgyMan
20 hours ago

Liverpool

I'm 100% sissy sub

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By *uckold wannabe 76Man
16 hours ago

Sittingbourne

I'm 100% submissive

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By *parks2020Man
16 hours ago

East Kilbride

Very submissive sissy sissy looking for doms

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