FabSwingers.com forum: Sub or dom

By *ettpair OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Kettering

Genuinely interested in who is Dom and who is sub ? Is it something that comes naturally or maybe you've had an experience in the past that has brought out your stronger side...ps for the record we're both sub

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By *reampie Cleaner 69Man
20 weeks ago

Barnsley

I love to be sub to couples. Using me for their oral pleasure and clean up duties

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By *ightinchguyMan
20 weeks ago

home

Dom guy here...

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By *eepthinker300Man
20 weeks ago

southwest

Sometimes we really like to confine others into absolute definition s …. Sub or Dom is one such example where really the boundaries are set in the interaction or relationship , one can like things that may seem a contradict to what they portray they are

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Dom can go from pleasure dom to extreme

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By *ettpair OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Kettering

Did something bring this on or is it just part of your natural personality

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By *ornycouple44Couple
20 weeks ago

St austell

Sub here

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By *issJo555Woman
20 weeks ago

Surrey

Dominant Mistress here, Inwould say for me it's personality I like being in control and find it hard to give it up.

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By *orklassWoman
20 weeks ago

Cork

Always been Dominant since my teens, lived a vinilla life (partner and kids) but I felt it always there beneath the surface... now I am letting the real me free and being the true Domme I always was

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By *estiswestMan
20 weeks ago

glasgow

Sub in most respects

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
20 weeks ago

south coast IOW

Can be Dominant in day to day life but in the bedroom I’m very submissive and that’s exactly what I love to be. I am putty in the hands of an alpha type male or even an alpha couple. I’ve yet to submit to a female but will do so when I’m back out partying.

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By *azzler2Man
20 weeks ago

halifax

Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Dom guy here little experience with it still exploring

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By *alnutwhipsWoman
20 weeks ago

hull

Naturly dom.. comes naturally although ide love someone to overpower me so I become sub!! Gonna take some doing tho cos I'm a naturally over powering person in some ways n can't help it 🙄🫣

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By *ettpair OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Kettering

Loving the answers guys thank you all

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By *ony2269Man
20 weeks ago

Radcliffe

I’ve always been Dom.

Tracing it back I think it’s a combination of playing ‘pirates’ with a couple of girls when I was about 9 and pretending to tie them up against the school fences.

Then years of rope work as a boy scout.

It never been about pain. Just controlling the levels of pleasure. Being in charge also feels good and comes naturally at work and in play.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I wasn't always, I used to be very passive but the past 5 years I've really found its part of my sexual personality

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By *icki222TV/TS
20 weeks ago

Lincoln

I guess I’m more sub but not into the pain scene.

In fact I’m allergic to it lol! I do love being on my knees though

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By *mfao88Man
20 weeks ago

north yorkshire

I'm most definitely sub

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Sub bi here my dream to meet a couple in life

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By *uliette500Woman
20 weeks ago

Hull

Not really submissive in everyday life but I always have been in the bedroom.

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By *ottsguy74Man
20 weeks ago

Nottingham

Sub.

Though have tried being dom but it just didn't come naturally.

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By *emdomCouple2024Couple
20 weeks ago

dudley

We are both switches but preferred dynamic is mrs(domme) and mr(sub) xx

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Nowhere

Very sub

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Sub for sure

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By *issy Gemma CreweTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Crewe

Definitely Sub!!!

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By *elshhorseMan
20 weeks ago

ogmore valley

Dom, ex army 15years service, ex Dog handler, Horse man, so always been in control so to speak.

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By *abba44Man
20 weeks ago

Broadstairs

End of last summer l met an extreme Dom man a couple of times and during chats over a cuppa it turned out he was a sub to his wife,a security guard for the Home office.

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By *endy321TV/TS
20 weeks ago

gateshead

always been sub luv it

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By *ecker30Man
20 weeks ago

Northwich

Generally dominant in every day life but dream of being someone's sub!

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By *udgyMan
20 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'm 100% sissy sub

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By *uckold wannabe 76Man
20 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

I'm 100% submissive

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By *parks2020Man
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

Very submissive sissy sissy looking for doms

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

100% sub love to pleasure a woman

Also love playing online if any women introduce message me. Xx

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By *b9012Man
19 weeks ago

launceston

Submissive but have switched in the past. First experience thirty years ago

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By *uncouple666999Couple
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

Make here - love being submissive to Alpha males!

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Northumberland

I'm a dominant TV, so I guess that's rare

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By *eeman1200Man
19 weeks ago

Paulton Nr Bristol

i love a sub couple or woman to play with

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By *ast_jjMan
19 weeks ago

Dublin

My sexual desire is dom. I've always had it but I think it has intensified since joining fab. I love the mental connection with a sub.

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By *fuckdollWoman
19 weeks ago

Blackpool

I love to switch x

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

In day to day I have two high stress high responsibility jobs and have to be in control but when in the bed room there is nothing better then submitting to others for there pleasure and love being used

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By *ionrampant500Man
19 weeks ago

West Midlands

Alpha male

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I've been a Dom for years and love, especially impact play

Though recently I've been curious to switch and go full sub

There is unfortunately a dire shortage of dommes

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By *amsubMan
19 weeks ago

hyde

Always been sub

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By *omingo77Man
19 weeks ago

chorley

I’m the dominant 1

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By *omingo77Man
19 weeks ago

chorley

I’m the dominant 1

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By *athytvsubTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Bulwell, Nottingham

submissive here, have on occasion switched for gf but prefer to be submissive and restrained xx

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Can you be both?

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By *ellsuitedMan
19 weeks ago

Elstree

I am a very experienced Dominant guy and enjoy lots of different types of play so long as it is safe, sane and consensual.

I have switched on occasion and I think this makes me a better Dominant as I know how it feels “from the other side “.

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By *evonspankMan
19 weeks ago

Tiverton

Dom to women.

Sub to men.

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By *outhboyMan
19 weeks ago

derry

Dom all round

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By *uzy750TV/TS
19 weeks ago

Luton

"Genuinely interested in who is Dom and who is sub ? Is it something that comes naturally or maybe you've had an experience in the past that has brought out your stronger side...ps for the record we're both sub "

Naturally sub. I aim to please.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

D is a sub and P is a Dom. We met on line and talked a bit about our preferences before we met. Once we got together we both explored them further.

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By *omRachCouple
19 weeks ago

Wirral

Both Rach & i have a sub streak in front of other men.

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By *empted23Couple
19 weeks ago

countryside

We have been a D/s couple much longer than we have been experimenting in this life style

J - D ..E --s

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By *ellsuitedMan
19 weeks ago

Elstree

Interesting….

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By *lusherCouple
19 weeks ago

bodmin

I am dom (male half here) simply because a lot of women like it and I aim to please. Miss K (female half) is switch but a better dom because A. She looks better in the gear than me B. She intuitively know what the sub role person wants as the session dynamics change.

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By *ingeriecdABCTV/TS
19 weeks ago

catterick

Completely sub bottom only always dress appropriately for Dom males to take me for there pleasure

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By *vieMayeMan
19 weeks ago

leeds

Vers bt perfer bein sub xx

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Switch depends on the partner

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By *eb51Man
19 weeks ago

kings lynn

Completely sub, would like to serve a couple

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
19 weeks ago

Leicestershire

We've been a D/s couple for, we'll seems like forever now as we've been together 30 years.

I've always had a Dominant personality and when we were kids I now realise I picked my sub and married her.

We have explored a lot and in that time D has discovered she is switch with other ladies and loves the Domme in her.

I think you are born with the personality traits but to be 'a Dom' is definitely a learnt skill or combination of many skills.

Many miss the fact that it is an awful lot more than purely physical.

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By *amsubMan
19 weeks ago

hyde

Always been sub from early teens when a pal took my cherry and love being sub.

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By *moothandslimMan
19 weeks ago

North Walsham

Sub to both female and male.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Sub, have always been that way. Just seems to be the way I am, don't know what started it.

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By *atexbound_scotMan
19 weeks ago

Livingston

Sub, but can switch and Dom females from time to time

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