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Helen finds herself a boyfriend update + advice

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
39 weeks ago

fife

Following on from other stories a few months back I thought I’d share an update of how things are progressing in our thrupple dynamic and hopefully get some advice and views from others who have had similar experiences. A brief recap of we set up a date scenario where Helen was going to head out on a date with a stranger pretending she was single and would hopefully progress further and end up back home for a one night stand while I hid in the spare room and listened. Once Helen was suitably d*unk her mouth ran away with her and she revealed the plan which eventually ended up in pretty much full on cuckolding of myself while they went wild.

Fast forward 6-7 months it’s evolved into Helen meeting him on average twice during the week and most Friday or Saturday evenings for an overnight visit. I’ve been invited a few times to watch and join but mostly it’s her going to his alone. I’m always involved either phone calls where I just listen in or video calls and photos etc. it has definitely moved from just plain no strings sex to having lots of kissing / cuddles and sometimes they will head out to shops or for a day out. It’s definitely working for us all so far and we’re all happy with the situation. Previously he was single for over 10 years and just used internet hook ups so he’s made things crystal clear he’s never gonna be in the market for full on relationship. When they aren’t with each other there is very little contact and all the contact we do have is done via WhatsApp which is a 3 way group chat. This is ideal for us since everyone seems to be getting what they want and everyone is on the same page. They have now progressed to going bare sex as the cost was getting too much for protection and we have no worries of pregnancy.

He fully knows we are on fab but the fab side is becoming way less interesting to us and apart from last month it’s been ages since we met anyone for play and has become more social meets and for sharing photos. Has anyone ever found anything like this as it’s all new to us? We feel we are very much in control and almost 7 month in everything is just as much a buzz as the first time. Just looking for views and advice on anyone experienced.

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
38 weeks ago

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37 weeks ago

I’ve been following this as it’s something we have discussed to look into in the future, but we are a long way from even considering it. Although, definitely see the value in it and it sounds like so much fun.

My main concern would be out in public and being seen locally with another man, and may work better with a slightly longer distance relationship.

But having a “boyfriend” is definitely something I’d be open too if the Mr is 100% xx

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By *spotpleasurerMan
37 weeks ago

Norwich

All three of you are happy and secure and open with each other, long may it continue! It seems you've found the right person for your needs and in that case it's natural to be less interested in spending time on fab and meeting others.

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
37 weeks ago

fife


"I’ve been following this as it’s something we have discussed to look into in the future, but we are a long way from even considering it. Although, definitely see the value in it and it sounds like so much fun.

My main concern would be out in public and being seen locally with another man, and may work better with a slightly longer distance relationship.

But having a “boyfriend” is definitely something I’d be open too if the Mr is 100% xx "
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This was a concern of ours too in the beginning and we were definitely very paranoid. As time has gone by we have kind of adapted the who cares attitude and we will deal with any fallout if and when it happens. We are fairly lucky as both of us don’t have huge families to worry about and Helen isn’t from this area so it’s mostly just friends and work colleagues to worry about. So far it’s been a fair length of time and fingers crossed not had any issues as yet. Thi risk does add to the buzz though

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37 weeks ago


"I’ve been following this as it’s something we have discussed to look into in the future, but we are a long way from even considering it. Although, definitely see the value in it and it sounds like so much fun.

My main concern would be out in public and being seen locally with another man, and may work better with a slightly longer distance relationship.

But having a “boyfriend” is definitely something I’d be open too if the Mr is 100% xx .

This was a concern of ours too in the beginning and we were definitely very paranoid. As time has gone by we have kind of adapted the who cares attitude and we will deal with any fallout if and when it happens. We are fairly lucky as both of us don’t have huge families to worry about and Helen isn’t from this area so it’s mostly just friends and work colleagues to worry about. So far it’s been a fair length of time and fingers crossed not had any issues as yet. Thi risk does add to the buzz though "

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