FabSwingers.com forum: Origin Story - Sammy where’d you go???

By *igharry OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

This is the story of how i discovered this website and the lifestyle. I feel it’s probably a unique story but if anyone has anything similar, leave a reply!

The story goes back to 2015 when i was 22 years old. I had just spent a year travelling asia and the middle east and returned back to england. Unfortunately i didnt have much work experience at this time and jobs were scarce so i really struggled with finding work. After a while i finally managed to land a job. A terrible job, but it would bring in money nonetheless. The job was for a vaping company. It was a retail job selling eliquids and pens.

I arrived on my first day to the store which was local to me. I was explained that i’d be working in another store and was introduced to my manager who was a jamaican rasta in his 50’s. We’ll call him Will in this story.

i did my training and was given the address of the store I’d be working in and left. The next day i went over to central london and in to the store for my first day. I greeted the manager id met before and he introduced me to the team.

There were 2 other members of the team. A young and nerdy guy in his early 20’s who we’ll call James and a Pakistani girl. She was shorter than me, around 5’4 and was maybe a size 12-14. She had big enticing boobs, a very curvy waistline and a nice and plump round ass. I won’t reveal her real name but she went by the name Sam.

Shortly after my arrival James left and Colin explained he was just part time and i’d only ever seen him when im leaving or arriving. He told me id mostly be working with him or Sam…. Nice!

A few days later was our first shift alone together. I was flirtatious right from the start. She was exactly my type with a nice curvy body and had a very pretty face and beautiful chest length curly hair.

After spending the day complimenting her i left by telling her “Any man would be lucky to be your boyfriend”. The next day i was alone with Will and he was very keen on asking me how my day with Sam went. You know the kind of keen where someones trying to get gossip?

I realised something was going on which i dont know about and im a very straight forward and to the point kind of guy so i wrote my pone number down on a receipt and asked Will to pass it to Sam the next day and tell her i want to take her out. He called me a “Badman!” and gave me a fist bump as i left the store for the day.

The next day was spent anxiously waiting for a text to appear from a random number but i knew she’d be at work all day so i patiently waited for the evening. Around 8pm by phone notified me that i had a new text.

Sam: hey

Me: Who’s this?

I replied trying to keep my cool.

Sam: Sam lol. Who else were you expecting

Me: Oh lol i didnt know if you’d text. Did Will tell you i wanted to take you out?

Sam: Yeah

Me: When are you free?

Sam: were both off on Saturday. I can do then.

Me: Sounds good. What kind of food do you like?

Sam: anything really. Wouldnt mind a turkish restaurant.

Me: i know a place

The following Saturday we met up at Hyde Park and went to edgeware road for a kebab. After the meal we headed to hyde park. During the date and at work Sam was always very shy around me but in Hyde Park she changed into a different woman! We laid in the grass for a while and as it approached the evening sunset i leaned in for a kiss. This very quickly progressed to passionately making out and i climbed in between her legs and felt her body and waistline. My cock was rock hard and bulging on my pants so i rubbed it on her pussy and she let out very sexy and quiet moans into my ear.

After a while she told me we should go so i dropped her off at the tube station.

This very quickly progressed and as we spent a lot of time together at work we grew very close very quickly. She however told me she was a virgin waiting for marriage so i said id respect her and only kiss her. I can’t lie it was a very big struggle but i somehow pulled through the whole relationship (around 3 months) without cheating.

As it was so long ago i dont remember it all exactly clearly but there were certain conversations that were had which i clearly remember.

We were at work having a random conversation and she suddenly asked.

Sam: Do you know what swingers are?

Me: like whats in the park?

Sam: haha no as in the relationship some couples have

Me: what?

Sam: basically theres couples out there who have sex with other people

Me: as in cheating?

Sam: no they do it with permission. Sometimes together sometimes in seperate room sometimes they’ll have a party and everyone will just fuck everyone.

Me: that sounds crazy

My cock started to get stiff at the thought of this. Id seen it in porn but had no idea people do it in real life!

Sam: Do you think you could do it?

Me: i dont know. I mean if its just sex and you dont have to worry about your partner falling in love then its cool but at the same time it feels wrong to think about my wife fucking another man. What about you?

Sam: i dont ever want to see another woman touch tou.

Me: fair enough

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

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By *evonFbsCouple
over a year ago

SIDMOUTH

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By *j and c 2Couple
over a year ago

mullingar

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By *penmyeyes11Man
over a year ago

south east

Nice start

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By *onnyrottenMan
over a year ago

cotswolds

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By *ADSPARKY200Man
over a year ago

Watford

Great start

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By *igharry OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

After our first date i’d gone in to work and Will was very excited to hear about the date. I told him it went really well and he told me that she thinks im very handsome and he feels like this could develop into a beautiful relationship.

I told Sam about this and she informed me that before my first day Will had warned her that he isnt gay but the new guy is extremely handsome and he mentioned that if she liked me he wouldnt mind if we dated.

What a cool guy!

On another day we had gone on a date to a sheesha bar. Id ordered a sheesha pipe but her lips and tongue were on my lips a lot more than the sheesha was! After a while she took a little break from constantly making out to ask me something.

Sam: Do you watch Porn?

Me: ermmm… well yeah. I am a man arent i haha what about you? I know some girls do too

Sam: yeah i like watching porn

Me: damn go on girl, do you!… literally haha

Me: so what kind of porn do you like?

Sam: a mix. Sometimes hardcore, sometimes threesomes but mostly i like lesbian porn.

Me: so as in no guys? You just like to see the girls?

Sam: yeah. Im bisexual.

Me: oh mad! Have you ever kissed a girl?

Sam: yeah i sometimes meet girls online and we talk dirty and swap pics but i once made a friend who used to come to my house. Because we were both girls my parents didnt ever realise but we’d be up in my bedroom having very quiet sex whenever she’d come over

Me: wow thats so hot! What kind of girls do you like?

Sam: i like thick girls and im not too picky but my absolute favourite is black women. They’re so hot and its so sexy how they move their butts and stuff.

Me: have you ever been with a black woman?

Sam: no but i talked to one once. Never ended up meeting up though…

in this conversation she didnt mention fab or swingers sites. She just said a website… i later suspected it was fab she was talking about

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By *igharry OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

A few weeks later we were on another date and she told me a story.

Sam: my mum caught my dad cheating once

Me: no way! Did she forgive him?

Sam: yeah. My dad likes to go on swingers sites and my mum found it on his laptop. She made herself an account and started talking to him then arranged to meet up. My dad went to the hotel room but when he knocked on the door it was my mum that opened it. They had a really big fight and then she forgave him and he swore he wouldnt do it again.

Me: damn, that sounds crazy! Good to see they were strong enough to get through it though.

She again didnt mention fabswingers but she’d mentioned these swingers sites enough times to peak my curiosity. I went on google and search swingers which very quickly led me to fabswingers.

I joined up and had a browse. Man was this shit incredible! Loads of horny people posting pics and writing naughty statuses and then i came across the forums and read all sorts about bdsm, sub/dom, mmfs, mfmfs etc etc. up until this point id only ever watched porn and had no idea a world like this could exist!

I started browsing local profiles and one in particular caught my eye. They profile name contained the name “Sammy”. She had a few very discrete photos which looked very similar to Sam. And her profile talked about her kinks. She’s bisexual, loves threesomes and parties, and had a special kink where she liked to meet up with men in a hotel room and have them knock on the door blindfolded. She would then take them into the room and do whatever she wishes with them. Damn that sounded hot! And i was so confident this girl might actually be my girlfriend Sam!…

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By *eeker of pleasureMan
over a year ago

manchester

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

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By *igharry OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

As i now suspected she wasn’t actually a virgin i decided i wanted some pussy. At this point id been dating the girl 2 months and not even received a hand job! So i invited her over to my flat.

When she arrived she was wearing a dolly dress with a button up chest and some tights. I let her into the flat and we settled in the living room. Were both gamers so we put on the xbox and cuddled up to play. After a while we got bored and put the game on pause to start making out. I was feeling her body under her clothes and was concentrating on her boobs whilst grinding my cock against her pussy. i asked “can i get these out” as i reached for the top button. She thought about it for a second and said “yeah”. I unbuttoned her dress and pulled her bra down to let her boobs out. They were huge! Im not an expert but id say at least an E cup! My cock would definitely be swallowed up by them. And she had big dark nipples which were obviously erect. I went straight for the nipples and started to lick and suck them whilst periodically licking the rest of her huge boobs.

My cock was pulsing and harder than ever so i started to move my hands down her waist, to her stomach and towards her pubic area. I asked “can i touch you down there” and after taking a few seconds to think she responded “no. Im so sorry. I want to wait”. Damn! I knew if i continued id be dying to fuck her so we stopped making out and went to get some food instead.

A week after this date she informed me that she had decided to quit her job as her father didnt want her to work.

After quitting she would keep telling me she was busy when i asked to meet up.

At this point i was starting to become desperate thanks to the major blue balls she’d given me so i started browsing fab. Admittedly i was constantly checking back on the Sammy profile i’d found but apart from the odd dirty status update there wasn’t much going on.

After another week went by of not seeing my girlfriend i decided to ask her about the profile. I told her “Our conversations got me curious and i found a website called fabswingers which i joined. On that site i found a profile of a girl called Sammy who's based in your area and from her pics she has the same complexion and body shape as you. Is that you? If it is thats cool i actually think it’s really hot!”

Over the last couple of weeks her replies had started becoming a bit delayed but to this text she replied instantly with “No that’s not me”.

Following this our conversations became less and less frequent until i’d had enough and decided to break up with her. I tried to meet up to do it face to face but that was impossible. I tried to call but she was never free to answer. I had no choice but to resort to text and i have to say it was the easiest break up ever. I explained i hardly see you and clearly you dont want to talk so whats the point of me being loyal? I want to break up. She said okay cool and thats it. We never heard from each other again.

I went back to fab and sent the Sammy girl a message to see if she may be someone else and possibly want to blindfold me. I was instantly blocked on fab. On a d*unken night around the same time i sent her a text and found id also been blocked from there.

I have no idea what the hell happened but i heavily suspect it was a case of an asian girl trying to hide her kinky side and be conservative so she thought id make a really good future husband but i must have made her too horny which caused her to admit her kinky side and once she got caught she decided to do a runner.

What do you guys reckon? Could Sammy and Sam be different girls? Did this relationship fail because of my above theory or could it have been something else?

If it was Sam then its such a shame she did this. Iv since spent 8ish years on and off on fab as well as visited a number of clubs. Iv endulged in all sorts of kinks and even introduced a couple of my ex’s to fab. We could've made a great kinky swinging asian couple! But in all honestly this experience completely put me off asian women and im now married to a black woman… lol

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By *igharry OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Just remembered another moment from the relationship.

After a couple of hours of feeling each other up and making out at a sheesha bar we took a break for a chat. The conversation randomly went to bidets (i can’t remember how) when she revealed the story of how she discovered masturbating.

She told me her father had just installed a tapped bidet to her bathroom.

For those that haven't travelled to the east, these devices can be very powerful and shoots a narrow jet of water which you’re supposed to use to clean yourself after the bathroom.

Sam told me she was using the bidet once and accidentally missed and hit her pussy. The feeling she got from this was something new and completely different from anything she’d physically felt before. She continued aiming the bidet at her vagina and within a few minutes she found herself having her first ever orgasm.

She explained that at this point she had no idea what had actually happened but she really liked it. She said she was sure her family thought she was very strange as she was always really happy to need to use the toilet…. She was giving herself orgasms every time she went! Haha

Later on she had heard about fingering and rubbing her clit from a conversation with some slutty girl friends and this was how her addiction to masturbating started.

She told me she really loves that she discovered her hand can do it too because she finds herself randomly getting really horny and wet during the day and now she can quickly find some privacy to quickly masturbate and relieve herself of the hornyness.

She also told me that these horny moments happen very regularly and throughout the day. She said that just earlier that day she was shopping in harrow and needed to masturbate so she went to the public toilet and did it in the cubicle.

She said she does this alot!

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