FabSwingers.com forum: Sexless marriage wanking

By *iny123 OP Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

My marriage is all but sexless so my main release is wanking. I still love my wife and love to watch her when she's in the garden. When she's bending over her large tits and big bum get me hard and I get my cock out and wank while I watch her move about. I get a kick out of cumming while she works. Anyone else do this?

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By *littylicker69Man
over a year ago

abergavenny

Hi I’m in a long term partnership but she went off sex many years ago & I just love wanking & wank as often as I can but have to wait until she is out as she doesn’t know I’m on this site. I do like to watch some guys wanking & cum a load as due to medication I only squirt a couple of little blobs nowadays

Used to meet a lovely couple where I wanked for them & I wanked him too but was there to fuck the lady originally but wanking him was a pleasure too.

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By *iny123 OP Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm in the same boat, years of being told no, I just love wanking now, do it as often as possible and also meet guys for mutual wank and oral. Very hard to meet women on here.

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By *pswich_guy1Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Mrs not really interested any more, wanking is a good release for me, learning to edge and force some cum out to clean up before the big reveal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the thread I want to be part of.

My mrs is hot, everything I could ask if paying for it. Problem is she doesn’t put out and hasn’t for the last 4 years, so I pay for it and couldn’t give a shit.

Only here for the kids.

But yes I want off to her big tits and ass and hairy cunt hole

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By *untime512Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Wanking whilst my wife sleeps now still have often sex but not as much as I love often wank over her friends too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat

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By *eppers50Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Have a great sex life but not enough, wanking, porn is my get out clause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% same here.

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By *tr4455Man
over a year ago

nr wigan

I love to wank and....

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

One of my wife's kinks is teasing and helping guys who are in this position. She finds it exciting and they always seem to cum harder.

She also knows I wank regular sharing her material.

Feel free to use her as required.

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

Hi lads. Try reading the book Hard On Us: Memoir of a sexless marriage. I think you might enjoy seeing it from her perspective. It’s an eye opener to the opposite sex x

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By *lan4FFUUNNMan
over a year ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

In a sexless partnership too, I love to wank and do so whenever I can, love to wank over porn and whilst chatting online, I also visit a local working lady who knows all my secrets and how I like guys too x

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By *ardcorehank69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I'll be honest I get sex from mine whenever I want and I still love wanking anyway

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Tis hell wanking is a poor substitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my wife's kinks is teasing and helping guys who are in this position. She finds it exciting and they always seem to cum harder.

She also knows I wank regular sharing her material.

Feel free to use her as required. "

wow what a kink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have !

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By *oodgreen25Man
over a year ago

Wexford

Will definitely be having a wank over her pics and that vid

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By *uga40Man
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Hi wife went off sex years ago so could only wank did meet a chinese women of another site also been wanked and sucked by guy s of sister site to this get horny when i go round to neighbors to do odd jobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my wife's kinks is teasing and helping guys who are in this position. She finds it exciting and they always seem to cum harder.

She also knows I wank regular sharing her material.

Feel free to use her as required. "

Form an orderly queue guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In same boat i watch lots of porn love to meet a couple for anything goes fun games any age size Race x

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By *atingirlCouple
over a year ago

norwich

Yes I do that too. But one Sunday afternoon your wife caught me. Lol

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By *llwayswilling1966Man
over a year ago

Hereford

Wanking now while partner is sleeping as no Interest in sex at all!

Shall I cum on her face??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel exactly the same. My wife is hot, and I’m sure most men would love to fuck her. When we first started dating 5 years ago she loved being tied up, spanked and dominated. Now, I can’t even get her to brush past my cock. I’m not asking for every night but more than 3 times a year would be nice. We’re only in our early 30s. Surely that isn’t it already?

I enjoy coming on here and chatting to others as I feel I get the thrill and attention I lack from her. I’d love to meet with someone and follow through but I’d just feel guilty as it isn’t a bad relationship.

Thanks for letting me vent and get it off my chest. Actually made me feel better knowing there’s so many others in a similar situation.

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By *till HandyMan
over a year ago

Redruth

I’m in this club too.

She used to be such a horny bitch but that’s all in the past ….

Thank god for Fabswingers !

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By *orny-57Man
over a year ago

Uxbridge

All the time

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By *portbilly1976Man
over a year ago

manchester

"One of my wife's kinks is teasing and helping guys who are in this position. She finds it exciting and they always seem to cum harder.

She also knows I wank regular sharing her material.

Feel free to use her as required. "

Great photos and I do love an attached woman who enjoys public teasing and paying!

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By *aunchy692021Man
over a year ago

Downham Market Norfolk

My wife went off sex after a hysterectomy many years ago. We still have sex but it’s very infrequent and I have to make all the moves! Never get sucked.

Luckily I am Bi and have been since young and I have a few local Bi guy friends I meet when I can.

It’s so lovely having someone wanting to wank and suck me and enjoy the same back .

I have been lucky to have met some nice ladies and als Bi couples too.

Any ladies/Bi couples who would like to get in touch please message me xx I still adore licking pussy as well as sucking a nice cock xx

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By *ittleJohn5Man
over a year ago

Wickham Market

Wife doesn’t want sex anymore

So I love to fantasise about my wife and she stars in every dream I have about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be honest I get sex from mine whenever I want and I still love wanking anyway"

Me too

Especially love wanking while cupping her tits, telling her how I’d love to watch her being fucked

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By *slefunMan
over a year ago

Newport

We haven't had sex for about 6 years. Feelings that build up for that long need an outlet!

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Same here. Used to love cock, but no sex now for years really.

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By *exyfred76Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

My wife went off sex just on 8 years ago so it's just wanking for me

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By *ragsterMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

Still have an amazing sexlife with my 60 year old wife...unfortunately, she's not into sharing, involving others etc but I also masturbate as often as I can...that will never change.

I don't get much alone time at home so my masturbating is done with my wank buddies at their houses...I love it..

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By *attboy107Man
over a year ago

Near Bedford

Not sexless, but certainly struggling to hit double figures in a year, use to think it was work/home life stress, as used to be a lot more frequent on holiday, even that has stopped now. Love here to bits, tried talking and just get shut down. The frustration is turning to resentment, so wanking is the only release. Thank you OP for starting the thread, and thanks to all the sexy people for sharing your stories and pics.

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By *itginger101Man
over a year ago

Termonfeckin

Same here, don't get much action with my wife so plenty of online wanks with guys for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs menopausal. Not getting any sex from her. She is so hot. Gym 5 days per week. Great body pert tits. Football stud erect nipples. Love her too bits. Pity she wasn’t more of a shagger. She had a low sex drive before menopause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too , wank as often as i can, been years since i had sex at home, hence why on here

Love checking her damp knix

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

Similar boat been just over 4 years. Its a good marriage and relationship but due to multiple health issues there's no sex. So wanking to porn occasionally but more over stories and fantasies on here.

I'd love to meet fems or preferably couples for actual sex but as I'm married considered "cheating" and over 50 I accept my chances are excessively slim

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

Edit to above I can only do daytime meets weekdays. My chances are slim to non lol

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By *am SmithMan
over a year ago

Around and about

I'm pretty much in the same situation.

My wife has gone off sex due to medical reasons. Before which she was very active.

I'm hoping her drive will return after she has an operation.

She's a beautiful mature woman and I'm desperate to start having sex with her again. In the meantime.... I wank a lot !!

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By *xx_leatherMan
over a year ago

scunthorpe

I was stuck with my right hand for many a year. Tried to meet women or couples on here but it’s like a private club and can’t meet anyone to get feedback.

Anyway that’s all behind me now got a lovely new girlfriend and the ex wife can watch the soaps all she wants lol

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By *oward777Man
over a year ago

Truro

i am exactly the same my wife is not interested in sex she is 5ft 2ins small tits good legs size 10 dress blonde hair down to her neck, a tight cunt as it not been fuck for 10 years she is 57 years old. She looks 10 years younger than she is she needs to be to be com a sex nympho would love to watch her get fucked, by other man

But she’s become straitlaced, boring prim and proper. 10 years ago, she loved, sucking cock being fucked in all sorts of positions, But now she not interested,

, so I’ve become a CD love it as I get to fuck CDs now and I get fucked as well. nice fucking a nice tight arse

wife never been fucked in the arse so she is really tight

i love being a CD and dressing up, looking like a slut

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By *pentoall555Man
over a year ago

benfleet

My relationship exactly the same but I never wank looking at my wife. Porn babyoil and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems a lot of men on here and me included seem to talk and wank with other guys even though they’re straight and have wives.

I can only assume it’s because we all know how each other feels and in the same boat so we give each other the attention and the dirty talk and imagines it’s a women begging to suck our cocks because that’s what we all want isn’t it. Someone to actually want to do those things to us and make us feel sexy.

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By *iny123 OP Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

After a slow start my post took off very well. Thanks all for posting and sharing your little kinks etc in messages, keep em coming!

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By *nly1meMan
over a year ago

here there n everywhere

Same ... sexless marriage so on here and find more men to chat wirh than women .. think im turning bi .. no pressure and hassle

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By *anyaTgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

Dont mind sexless prefer cock anyway xx

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By *orthernhornyMan
over a year ago

DL5

I've loved wanking two or three times a day since very young.

My GF goes through stages where she is very sexual or totally switches off. At the moment she loves sex and in particular hee pussy eaten by me. I have pushed the boundaries and vocally talked of her taking other mens cocks and she has responded well and enjoyed the fantasy. I would absolutely love to see you all use her pussy, arse, mouth and tits, maybe i could pluck up the courage to show her this thread...

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By *ragsterMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

I'd love to see my wife take on other men , we chat about it during sex but she is always quick to remind me never to confuse fantasy with reality...

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By *ipper truckMan
over a year ago

near by

Over 11 years now with no sex,she won’t talk about it if I bring the conversation up,so it’s wanking in the shower or paying for it,I would be happy with once a week

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By *attboy107Man
over a year ago

Near Bedford

I do think some women forget that men need to feel wanted and desired too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fine but doesn’t put it from the high libido man’s perspective when the wife doesn’t want to know

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By *arry CMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I am in same boat with my wife ever since she had the menopause 15 yrs ago and a prolapse.

It's either a wank or have fun with a guy either wanking the guy off or being wanked off or even being fucked.

No women on Fabswingers want you because your cheating your wife and go on the moral high ground.

As soon as they ask does your wife know your on here and you say no they don't want to know you and give you abuse.

Women on here only want to swing but don't want to have sex with a married man who isn't getting sex from his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well sad Harry

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By *am SmithMan
over a year ago

Around and about

I second that. Well said Harry.

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By *ragsterMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

I think i would go stir crazy if i thought I would never ever have sex with my wife again..and that was it until I curl my toes up....

I really do feel for you guys.

I have mates in their 50s who I know don't get any from their wives..

They tell me their wives would rather make a cup of tea and read a book..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still have an amazing sexlife with my 60 year old wife...unfortunately, she's not into sharing, involving others etc but I also masturbate as often as I can...that will never change.

I don't get much alone time at home so my masturbating is done with my wank buddies at their houses...I love it..

Sounds like you've got the best of both worlds then! ????

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

I have regular sex with my wife but she knows I need more. She doesn’t have a problem with me wanking whenever I want to, usually when we’re in bed together and I’m watching porn. Sometimes she joins in, sometimes she just goes to sleep.

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By *idcot58Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

My mrs stopped fucking 5 years ago so wanking for me and porn and guys such a shame as we did swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t have sex that often with my wife so wank quite a bit.

I love wanking thinking of my wife fucking other guys and also love it when guys wank over a pic of her.

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By *slover1169Man
over a year ago

congresbury

My message completely offset has been for years not even bothered about giving a blow job or handjob love looking at her in the garden when she spent over how nice tits hanging in a loose top or when she's putting the washing out first thing in the morning with a little summer dress on and no panties bent over picking out the washing out of the basket with a pussy all on show gets me hard every time

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By *iggers51Man
over a year ago

tamworth

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By *lDoradoGentMan
over a year ago

South West

Some very familiar situations here. I also love to wank - I find it exhilarating and have always done so.

When girlfriends have asked about kinks, I’ve always said handjobs. Love em.

And love to share with other guys aswell. I find it incredibly horny to stroke my cock and moan and cum with another guy, although only ever done online so far.

Pm me if you feel inclined…

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Eventually it dawns on you that you are highly unlikely to have the pleasure of a woman for the rest of your life, but we live in hope and regret the opportunities that we should have been brave enough to take in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with the wife tuesday morning, she had 5 orgasms. At 62 she tells me she is slowing down now and her sexual desire is waning. However last night that fell into question.

We went to bed as normal,lay reading our mobiles for a bit, then off went the light and we started to head off to sleep. She was fidgeting and clearly couldnt get to sleep. I decided to maintain i was asleep. After about 40 minutes she was still awake, and I sensed what I thought was a rhythmic movement from her side of the bed.

My God, is she having a wank next to me in bed ? I still wasn't sure, so started letting out a few small moans as if I was having sex, few snatched breaths etc. The fidgeting continued for a few more minutes, and I must admit I still wasn't sure what she was doing.

I sensed the moving again, and started to think I was right. A few more minutes passed, and she really carefully rolled the duvet off herself and carefully stood up, she stood next to the bed, outlined by the light from the street around the curtains. Rather than walk to the loo like I expected her to do, she clearly had got out of bed to finish herself off, she leant forward, and started pulling hard on her fanny clear as day. Her breathing was raised, big efforts to stifle it. She stood for what seemed an age, maybe 30-40 seconds, then orgasmed. A slight exhale was all I heard. She paused briefly and then went to the loo, and then into our spare room.

I listened a bit longer thinking she might start again, but nothing. Rather than waste the moment, I found her worn undies on the floor next to the bed, and had a quiet wank sniffing on them, thinking about what I had just witnessed.

As for me I wank 3-4 times a week and have sex with her at least once, as much as she protests she is getting older, she clearly still enjoys a quiet wank.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

i was in a sexless marrage for 13 years met some one off here and still with her today left the wife, why people say well put it this way a nice person and sex w=every day me and her do what we want the only wanking now is her doing it to me

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By *ragsterMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

I had sex with the wife tuesday morning, she had 5 orgasms. At 62 she tells me she is slowing down now and her sexual desire is waning. However last night that fell into question.

As for me I wank 3-4 times a week and have sex with her at least once, as much as she protests she is getting older, she clearly still enjoys a quiet wank.

I've experienced this with my wife...I've fallen asleep in bed only to reawake to a gently movement from my wife.

I don't let on that I am awake as I find the whole scenario so so horny...it can last anything from 5-20 mins long...

She still has no idea I have witnessed this happening on a handful of occasions over the years...

Love it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great reply Dragster

If she had stayed in bed I really wouldn't of known, so discrete. But she clearly had to rub a bit harder to finish herself off, so got up.

I snore quite often, so she often heads off to the spare room, always take advantage of that as well, as she sleeps naked her worn panties are always down the side of the bed. Still wet and sweet, so have a wank with them.

Makes you wonder how often they do it when we arent about. She was a prolific masturbator in her younger years, and clearly still enjoys a solo one.

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By *uicybbwWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

One of my fantasies is to get to know a nice friendly group of guys in sexless marriages and say once a week we meet up and I’m just used but not in an overly filthy gang bang way but just treated with love and respect for being their outlet and everyone is tested and safe so it’s all bareback and bloody amazing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my fantasies is to get to know a nice friendly group of guys in sexless marriages and say once a week we meet up and I’m just used but not in an overly filthy gang bang way but just treated with love and respect for being their outlet and everyone is tested and safe so it’s all bareback and bloody amazing!! "

Well I’m in

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By *uicybbwWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Question to you men

You say your wives don’t want sex maybe due to hormones etc after menopause and yeah dryness happens but there’s lube etc but even if they didn’t want a traditional fuck etc would you be happy and not look elsewhere if they say wanked you or helped you wank and made it a mutual thing.

Is it the lack of cock in pussy that makes you look or the lack of understanding and laziness in not even trying to be intimate in other ways?

There’s times over the years I haven’t wanted penetration etc due to pregnancy or time if the month etc but I’d cuddle up and wank him or suck him or talk through fantasies or watch porn so it was an us this and I still gave him sexual attention etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for us it’s a matter of privacy.

We have three teenagers in the house and one of their be_rooms is next to ours.

We never seem to get time alone and they are up late so we don’t get much privacy.

It’s only if we go away for a night or a weekend that we manage to have a bit of time to ourselves.

Unfortunately that’s not that often at the moment.

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By *igharryMan
over a year ago

Manchester

A lot of men here who have wifes with medical issues etc. think its only right to say well done for sticking with them throughout sickness and health!

Regarding cheating its one of them where if you see it from the wife's perspective its extremely hurtful to happen, even if they arent putting out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines all tongue in cheek, I’d never cheat on my wife for real :o)

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By *igharryMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Iv got a link for a story im writing on my profile. Feel free to check it out. Hope it helps!

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By *iny123 OP Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Hi juicy, I think that's a great idea and may I be one of the first volunteers to help you on this quest! Message me xx

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By *igharryMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Well for us it’s a matter of privacy.

We have three teenagers in the house and one of their be_rooms is next to ours.

We never seem to get time alone and they are up late so we don’t get much privacy.

It’s only if we go away for a night or a weekend that we manage to have a bit of time to ourselves.

Unfortunately that’s not that often at the moment. "

You may be surprised to hear how normal it is for kids to hear their parents have sex. I grew up with it and most of my childhood/school friends did too.

Parents are parents. Theyre in love and at the end of the day it was doing that which made the kids in the first place lol

Now i obviously dont mean scream the house down but don’t let the fact that your kids might hear a little something stop you. Honestly most kids dont care and are completely unbothered

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By *igharryMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Question to you men

Is it the lack of cock in pussy that makes you look or the lack of understanding and laziness in not even trying to be intimate in other ways?

Bumping this to see more responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine has a similar view helping guy's wank but not much interested in Wakefield

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By *uicybbwWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"Well for us it’s a matter of privacy.

We have three teenagers in the house and one of their be_rooms is next to ours.

We never seem to get time alone and they are up late so we don’t get much privacy.

It’s only if we go away for a night or a weekend that we manage to have a bit of time to ourselves.

Unfortunately that’s not that often at the moment. "

You can still do quieter things and be intimate though. Sometimes keeping it quiet and slow etc can be quite a turn on…hand over mouth and trying to stifle it etc

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By *uicybbwWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"A lot of men here who have wifes with medical issues etc. think its only right to say well done for sticking with them throughout sickness and health!

Regarding cheating its one of them where if you see it from the wife's perspective its extremely hurtful to happen, even if they arent putting out.

I understand Medical reasons but realistically there’s very few women who can’t be there mentally for a man

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By *atingirlCouple
10 weeks ago

norwich

Yes then your wife turned around and caught me lol

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By *oroRick1027Man
10 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I was with my wife for 38 yrs, the last 8 of which were sexless. Eventually we separated. We are now divorced. I have slept with approximately 30 different women since joining fab 6 yrs ago. Still getting plenty at 68 yrs old. Mostly in their 30's and 40's

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I have the same situation, so know exactly how you feel, unfortunately some here do not understand our situation, we are only human and have needs, we are not just here to cheat, but out of desperation.

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By *omerset_naughtyMan
10 weeks ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey

I was in a sexless marriages for over 10 years before my I'll wife past away I was by her side 24/7 caring for her but having a very high sex drive I always had to either go out and have a wank or wait till she was asleep to relieve myself. I met a wonderful older lady 2 yrs after she past away and now we are married and I adore everything about her but since covid she had had long covid and has totally changed her sexual inclinations and sex is very very far apart. She loves me to wank to get satisfaction but isn't enough as love licking pussy and fucking so much. Any ladies or couples who come to Marmaris or icelemer Turkey, please message me as would love to meet up.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
10 weeks ago

nearby

I’m single for a long time which is the same as being in a sexless marriage, so all I have is wanking and admittedly I love that since discovering it as a young teenager, it just seems something personal to me

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By *exhillboyMan
10 weeks ago

Vilamoura Portugal

I have a slightly different perspective to this discussion. I would like you to draw the analogy of going to the Cinema together.

When you are young you go to the cinema together often, the film is different every time, its exciting and interesting and they both loved it.

After a while the husband seemed to settle into the film he liked the best and want to go to that same film every week. It started to get boring as his partner knew exactly what was coming next. There was no thrill, no surprise and no fun.

The wife started avoiding trips to the cinema and the husband wondered why.

I dont believe that the human race are naturally monogamous as we prefer the excitement of a new partner who does little unexpected things, so if you want to engage in sex with the same partner for life you have to put in a little effort and try to vary the program, dont expect your partner to go to the same boring movie for the rest of her life like groundhog day

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By *iny123 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Lincoln

Good to see this topic raised again

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By *oastal_GentlemanMan
10 weeks ago

Great Yarmouth

I have fucked a LOT of wives who's husband's claim that their wives have gone off sex

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By *exhillboyMan
10 weeks ago

Vilamoura Portugal

"I have fucked a LOT of wives who's husband's claim that their wives have gone off sex "

Exactly my point, most women dont go off sex. They go off the same boring sex they have had day in and day out. They crave exciting sex, many just dream about it but the adventurous ones go out and find it.

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By *umshootistMan
10 weeks ago

Sapcote

I enjoy a couple watching me wank

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By *iny123 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Lincoln

Nice.

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By *ill HillMan
10 weeks ago

Deal

Feels not like a therapy group! I'm in!

It's great to know it's a wider issue than I thought. I sympathise with everyone going through the same as me... It's like being a kid in a candy store, but can't touch anything.

Wanking nearly every day helps, but doesn't quite scratch that itch... Hoping to soon find someone that does! ☺️

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By *ecret-64Couple
10 weeks ago

Wrexham

My wife is sub massive exhibitionist. She is always willing to tease and be appreciated. Chats and posses with a few regular guys who are in this position.

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
10 weeks ago

Midlothian

"I am in same boat with my wife ever since she had the menopause 15 yrs ago and a prolapse.

It's either a wank or have fun with a guy either wanking the guy off or being wanked off or even being fucked.

No women on Fabswingers want you because your cheating your wife and go on the moral high ground.

As soon as they ask does your wife know your on here and you say no they don't want to know you and give you abuse.

Women on here only want to swing but don't want to have sex with a married man who isn't getting sex from his wife."

Not all! We all have our reasons for doing what we do. We met married guys in your position so don’t presume so.

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By *exymarvelMan
10 weeks ago

cardiff

"My wife is sub massive exhibitionist. She is always willing to tease and be appreciated. Chats and posses with a few regular guys who are in this position. "

Oh wow, yes please

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By *iffo271Man
10 weeks ago

oldham

card carrying member of this club ,have an amazing sexy wife love her to bits but alas after menopause she completely went off sex.

must admit to wanking most days love edging sometimes for days.

also got into watching and wanking others

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By *idcot58Man
10 weeks ago

Chepstow

Mine going through change just gone off sex she was a swinger so just wank meet guys love to meet couples but hard on here

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By *rooMan
10 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Change has all but stopped me n gf, i always came here to read perv n wank, find am doing it more n more, but do enjoy it

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By *heekyCharmMan
10 weeks ago

Colne

What a sad thread... We need to do something about all this! What's going wrong??

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By *idlandsdaveMan
10 weeks ago

Midlands

Same here .now wank so much to porn and must admit love it

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By *enelope2UWoman
10 weeks ago

Fife

Guess I'm the only woman on here...left my sexless marriage because I married for realness not a toy not a machine but his flesh my flesh..

I knew if I stayed I'd have strayed..I refuse to ever be begging and going without affection or sex ever again. Toys enhance, compliment, collaborate, they will never replace.

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