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By *ly-Fox OP Man
over a year ago

mobile

Hi all.

Ok, so I don't want this to sou d like I'm being big headed or anything, but sometimes you just need to tell someone something, but have no one to tell, so I thought you guys might like.

I am 43. Married. 2 kids.

Have been seeing a younger girl (30) for a few years now on the side, but she has another gf too.

Recently, a young lady (25) I worked with confessed her feelings to me and now we have a regular thing too.

I new girl at work (23) has been sharing her sexual thoughts with me too.

I am being greedy? Am I pushing g my luck?

I don't know, but it sure is great to be me right now.

Let me know if you'd like a detailed story about my week so far. Today is day 3, girl 3.

Am I just being big headed?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

What does the wife think about it and I'll let you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This should be in stories section

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Oh dear…

I guess I’ll grab my popcorn and watch this unfold..

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By *alaciousCurvesWoman
over a year ago

Gainsborough

This is gonna go well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the lady on your pics your wife, girlfriend, your girlfriends girlfriend, the 25 year old or another? I don't think I could handle the stress and undoubted drama which will unfold

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

If everyone knows then great, but if you’re deceiving people, get in the bin.

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By *orks funMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think you should invite them all round, that way they could tidy your room before taking pics

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

You've got a lot of spare time on your hands

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

"I think you should invite them all round, that way they could tidy your room before taking pics"

You sir,

win the internet for today!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh mate I think you’re talking pish but that’s just my opinion.

The answer to your question however lies within the fact you are here looking for nsa encounters with, as your profile states, a ‘couple of girlfriends’.

The problem you have is actually with attachment, replacing the emotional support you need with extra marital sex with females regardless of age but that’s possible a little too deep for a fab forum

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

Im just gonna get myself comfy for this!

I'll bring snacks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im just gonna get myself comfy for this!

I'll bring snacks."

I have the snacks. Bring the wine

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

To answer one of your questions, I think we would like a detailed story of your week, so yes please.

What happened on day 1 and day 2?

Oh the suspense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a girl on monday

Took her for a drink on Tuesday

I'm sure we know the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just spill the beans so the cynical amongst us can rip it apart for inconsistent details or champion you as fab pimp of the day!

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

I don’t think the decision on whether to ‘block’ has ever been easier…

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I don’t think the decision on whether to ‘block’ has ever been easier…"

Shame the site won't let you today then

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By *ly-Fox OP Man
over a year ago

mobile

I agree with your comment about attachment. There is a lot more to the story but I don't think k the forum wants a 30 page essay.

Thanks for your input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met a girl on monday

Took her for a drink on Tuesday

I'm sure we know the rest"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool story bro!

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By *ly-Fox OP Man
over a year ago

mobile

Wow. Some very different responses there.

To answer some ?'s

Wife is aware but not with whom.

I have a joint profile with my gf (for want of another term). New girl is engaged to her schoolgirl sweet heart and never been with another guy before.

I know my Moral compass is pointing way off, but I thought this was a safe space to share things. If you want to be judgemental, please start your own thread or I will just delete mine.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

It reminds me, I did not my 5 a day, off to the fruit Ball

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

You Sir are a Player.....

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

I hope you wear condoms

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswold village

I guess if your wife is aware and okay then that side is okay.

My personal opinion if the 1 girl wants to cheat and explore a guy then that’s her choice and decision and not for you to decline. If she wants to try if it’s not you it’s someone else…

Others if genuine, have your cake and eat it… no idea where you work that they’re that open and honest with wanting casual hookups…

As long as your happy and they’re all happy for it to be casual then to earlier point enjoy and good luck keeping it up satisfying that many…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think the decision on whether to ‘block’ has ever been easier…

Shame the site won't let you today then

Yes, but this thread is a good bookmark for doing it later

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

These types of threads usually suffer from confirmation bias. You've already made up your mind and are posting to preen about the situation or expecting external validation while ignoring those who disapprove. All the best and we expect detailed updates.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I actually don't believe a word of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you updated your status asking for meets in a forest where you live with single ladies if you have been on this huge shaggathon?

Me smells abit of bully here....

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Why have you updated your status asking for meets in a forest where you live with single ladies if you have been on this huge shaggathon?

Me smells abit of bully here....

Tbf he has only got 4 women on the go and there is 7 days in a week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why have you updated your status asking for meets in a forest where you live with single ladies if you have been on this huge shaggathon?

Me smells abit of bully here....

Funny how he's not displaying any of the verifications he's had from single women

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By *ly-Fox OP Man
over a year ago

mobile

Ok I hear you. I will put more details into a story thread, but first things first, I've got family duties to attend to.

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By *ly-Fox OP Man
over a year ago

mobile

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By *ly-Fox OP Man
over a year ago

mobile

"Why have you updated your status asking for meets in a forest where you live with single ladies if you have been on this huge shaggathon?

Me smells abit of bully here....

Funny how he's not displaying any of the verifications he's had from single women"

I haven't met these women on here but one of them are on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your original question, yes, you are.

Still, you've got a Toolstation and a Screwfix near you if you need a new shovel to help you with the hole you're digging yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats your secret.... asking for a friend.

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By *ly-Fox OP Man
over a year ago

mobile

"In answer to your original question, yes, you are.

Still, you've got a Toolstation and a Screwfix near you if you need a new shovel to help you with the hole you're digging yourself"

Noted. Thanks.

I shouldn't push my luck any further, but wow, what a story I've got to tell.

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By *ly-Fox OP Man
over a year ago

mobile

"Whats your secret.... asking for a friend. "

Experience. Patience. Learn from mistakes. Be a gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats your secret.... asking for a friend.

Experience. Patience. Learn from mistakes. Be a gentleman."

Be a gentlemen? May need to look in the dictionary for that definition

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Another sofa surfer in the making.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

North West

"This should be in stories section "

I believe it is, because I believe it is.

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