FabSwingers.com forum: Think wife of 23 years is cheating……

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s no secret from my posts and profile that I don’t get anywhere near the wife’s pussy…..haven’t in at least 5 years, although I still find her incredibly sexy. We also sleep in separate rooms.

Best I get is some naked pics or vids from her and she thinks that satisfies me….but it doesn’t.

So why do we stay together? Kids, financial and that’s it.

As long as I’ve known my wife (over 30 years), she’s always been the plain Jane type, never showed cleavage or sexy legs and always had a hairy pussy. In all the years I’ve known her, she’s only ever shaved her pussy hair a couple of times.

But over the last couple of months, I noticed a change in hee appearance. She know wears power dresses, nude tights and heels to work, is always on her phone and takes it everywhere she goes, and is very ‘jumpy’ every time I’m around when she’s on her phone.

I do most of the washing in the house and have noticed she’s even wearing a range of nee knickers and bra to work, the kind a woman would only wear on a night out if you know what I mean. I’ve heard her a few times on her phone whispering and think she’s on to another man, perhaps at work.

I have absolutely no right to be jealous as I’ve met a few women from this site and had amazing sex since I don’t get it at home. We’re practically friends at home now and our vows have become meaningless.

We don’t talk anymore and should divorce. How do I get out of this situation without impacting the kids and our financial situation.

Welcome any advice…..and please don’t condescend or judge me…..I don’t have anyone to talk to about it.