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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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They asked what we might like to try?
The Lincoln couple we are talking to have asked us to think what we might like to try. so we gave them some thoughts. we wrote these independently of each other and only saw each others after we had finished them. The parallels are great. My wife my best friend and the one on the page with me.
Phill's thinking.
A set of thoughts from me in no specific order (I may be greedy or a just have desire for experiences). Some are things I haven't done before some I know I like.
I would very much welcome to opportunity to play with you Roger I am not overly bi experienced but eager to learn.
Kind of coupled with this and its odd considering all we had talked about before.
Sunday night Rae was on her side and you behind her she couldn't reach to guide you into her and Sharon and I were greatly enjoying the exquisite show before us.
I was very tempted to lean over and guide you into my wife but had a moment of not sure if I should so enjoyed vouyering. (clearly I have some societal norms to work through).
Given the above to just sit back (think a good drink and armchair) and watch Rae with either or both of you. To just be the observer on the greatest porn I can imagine (cameras would lead to a fun editing job)
To bring you both some rope experience with us to explore how we all feel in that kind of scenario (a 4some trip to anatomie studio would be something else (it is perhaps the closest thing to a church for Rae and I)
the extension of this is other kinks tried and new experiences wax, ice, food and just the right sort of pain it is all about sensation.
A kink I defiantly have is cum and specifically licking a woman who has been filled.
Like Sunday but with no work to get to sleep as an option in that contented state to find someone waking others in some delicious way in the night.
A club trip for us all a 4 or 2 couples or even swopped couples.
D/s in just about any combinations we imagine and fit our assorted tendencies.
To take Jessica out 1on1, a date if you will, dinner a show that sort of thing and a nice hotel perhaps. clearly straying into the poly side hear.
Randomly straying off the sexual a photoshoot for you Jessica would be fun and maybe you would get some images of yourself that could pass a wall test.
This one I find interesting with the less sexual aspect and the implication (to me) of friendship that isn't all about the bedroom.
Nothing above has any kind of time scale on it and I will certainly not be complaining about more like Sunday I try not to jump to new things all the time but to savour the now. Anything above builds on the clear basic compatibility we have found in each other. It is all food for thought.
I seems to me now reading this back that this is an all over the place list sorry for that.
PS then there is the Dinner out scenario
Rae's Thinking.
Here is mine (again apologies for the length lol)
The desires and things I know I currently want to explore and enjoy with you lovely pair involve a selection of things. Initially, I really want to be able to learn and enjoy exploring each other, finding the little things we each enjoy, which buttons to press (as such). As we find the right buttons (although I think we found quite a few... ??)
I know I would love to enjoy focusing on one of us at a time, like you referenced previously. Bring in a little rope and control over each other (where it works or who it works for).
Finding new fantasies about each other. I can certainly say I want to enjoy the slow undressing of each other, removing an item of clothing at a time, tracing shapes on skin, taking our time. I would love to be the one to undress Jessica, and her me.
To be able to enjoy our bi sides more together. I know that my nerves and uncertainty of seeing Phill enjoy his bi side would slow this down for me, but I am certainly curious how I would respond to seeing him with someone, I've seen tiny moments of him sucking or kissing, but nothing more. I want to explore and test that boundary for me.
I definitely want to spend more time enjoying Roger, finding the little things he adores and enjoys, what turns him from 'mmmm' to 'oh my gods, get over here now I am about to explode with pleasure'
I think that finding little joys and new things together can be wonderfully exhilarating. The long, slow and sensual fun, taking our time together, pausing when we need, continuing as we desire and no rush is definitely something to explore more of, curling up together to enjoy the closeness.
I felt comfortable to just relax and curl up close, as Jessica did, I want to enjoy more of that, with less of a time concern to think of, the flexibility to sleep and leave when we want rather than practicality taking over. |
