FabSwingers.com forum: My first time with another guy…at 40!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, yeah…finally at the start of my forties I decided to go for it. This happed recently, I was away for work staying in a hotel and had Grindr going, so things didn’t take long to align. Initially I was hesitant, but a bolt of ‘Fuck it!’ hit me and so after getting the guy’s room number I headed up from the bar.

As soon as we were together and pleasantries were exchanged we got close and started rubbing each other all over, then tops were lifted and nipples sucked. Moving to the bed we both got naked, from what I can remember he pushed me down on my back and started wanking me. I did the same, but noticing he was cut asked him to get some lube. Either he was below-average size wise or what I was doing with my hand wasn’t working for him (first time on someone else’s dick!) but it didn’t feel like he was super hard. He asked me if I kissed and before getting a response was pushing his tongue between my lips. I reciprocated.

He moved further down and tried sucking my dick, but thinking ‘no STDs on my first time please’ I asked him to just continue with his hand. He still kept his tongue close enough to be able to ‘taste my precum’ apparently, so he didn’t quite listen to me! I could just remember thinking when he said it that I didn’t feel too close to cumming…and then I realised he’d put a finger inside me. At this point things got a bit overwhelming, so I pushed him off politely, got dressed and left.

Confusing first time, still not sure what to think about it. It turned me on writing this, so there was something there, just maybe need to be a built pickier next time. So yeah, first time done…didn’t cum, got a bit weirded out, but still…first time done.