FabSwingers.com forum: Is she about to cheat?

By *evilmademedoit OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

My wife and I have both been off and on fab for years, with both singles and couples profiles, but we took a break from playing years ago. The kids got older, worklife balance wasn’t the same, so didn’t have time anymore.

A few months ago I picked up her iPad and opened messenger, I wasn’t snooping, we have the same pin codes on our phones and iPads and they’re both the same colour. We have no secrets…or so I thought.

I was surprised to see a message from her to a guy saying, OMG, I just had to delete our conversation from last night in case heI saw it. With a reply of oh I know we really are dirty.

I never thought anything about it at the time other than she’s been on the wine and talking nonsense.

Fast forward to recently and I did the same thing….this time the conversation is still there and it looks like she is planning a meet with him, his girlfriend and a random other guy.

I’m not sure if it’s just another random sexting that she hasn’t deleted or if she is about to cheat.

If she tells me her plan and we both get back into playing then I’m ok with it….question is will she tell me… or will she go ahead with it without saying anything….

Would you confront her about it or wait and see if she brings up playing again? I’m excited at the thought of getting back into swinging, but obviously not happy at the thought of her cheating.