FabSwingers.com forum: Footie mate wants to fuck me but with like gf acceptance ?

By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I would like my misses to be there maybe join in or approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions

Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it depends on what you want.

If you are happy fucking him discreetly then go for it (it's another hole to fuck!)

Or if you feel guilty about not telling gf then tell her, she might think it's hot

Whatever you do, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so does your missues know your on here? just sounds like you need to talk to her about it or accept it's not gonna happen.

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

No she doesn’t know about the offer or bi element ?????… so not sure what to do but just need to decide really

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By *rsandBooMan
over a year ago

Reading

Does she know you're bi and know youre even on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a few drinks with her one evening and just bring things into conversation. Does she know your friend is bi?

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Not sure I don’t think so

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By *exhillboyMan
over a year ago

Vilamoura Portugal

"Hi

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I would like my misses to be there maybe join in or approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions

Many thanks"

Seems to me you have got the cart before the horse here, your profile advertises that you are looking for men and couples but you say that your wife doesnt even know you are on here or that you are bi.

For me you have a very simple choice here.

Option 1 come clean with your wife, tell her you are bi, tell her your buddy wants you to fuck him, ask her to open a profile on here with you.

Option 2 continue keeping your life secret from your wife and hope she never finds out because the deception would drive her away.

Option 3 close your account on here, tell your mate no thank you and commit to your wife.

I can understand a man being on here without his wifes knowlege IF he has tried to involve her in the lifestyle and she wont have any part of it but to live your whole life as a lie without even trying to bring her on board is simply wrong.

Dont know if this opinion helps but you need to do something pretty soon.

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I gave in on Saturday and it was amazing wow

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By *icklowhornMan
over a year ago

Dublin Wicklow

"I gave in on Saturday and it was amazing wow "

Well tell us more

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I just went for it we had footie match on the afternoon and went for a few beers afterwards… then I said whilst a bit pissed .. are u still wanting this to happen

Upshot went for it whilst watching porn … first times weird and kinda fun but what to think afterwards

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By *eepfill999Man
over a year ago

South Cheshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since when did ‘Stories and fantasies’ turn into the advice page ….??

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Yes sorry wrong group should be introductions as needed advice

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Felt crazy but actually a lot of fun

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By *otryMan
over a year ago

On the road

So what about thr gf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think he wants to play with you both ?

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I didn’t tell her ?????

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Didn’t know what to do

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I have been debating now about mentioning it to her

Ideally it would be amazing if she would be happy for 3some with Jon mate - holy grail but maybe a bit of a push too far and duck it up ?????

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Round 2 last night

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

With gf?

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

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By *luttyritaCDTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Hi

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I would like my misses to be there maybe join in or approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions

Many thanks"

If you were my mate I would want you to fuck me too

lol

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Thanks

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