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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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From 28 yr old male
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Going Anonymous for this because I am engaged.
So I am a 28 year old guy from India. Just like most of the guys here we have been deprived of sex and mostly used masturbation as our way to get some self pleasure.
But lately from last 2 years my luck changed. I have had few relationships in the past before but never had proper “intercourse” session, mostly because of my ex-Gfs' hesitation and my nature of not forcefully doing it without her consent.
So I didn't have sex with 2 of my ex-Gfs but we had lot of oral sessions. After the second break up, I had lost hope of falling in love again so after few months I joined Tinder to either get a temporary Gf or FWB. I started swiping and going on dates. First few girls I didn't like much, though they were interested in me, I didn't meet them after the first date.
But then with the 4th girl, I got along easily, we kissed on the first date and she had some recent experience, she told that she had just come out of a short term relationship with a guy she met on Tinder. On the second date itself, she invited me to her place for some wine. We made out while having wine. She didn't know that I was a virgin, she had assumed that since I had two past relationships I must have had some experience. But I was smart enough to understand what she wanted. I quickly removed her top, she removed my shirt and then she moved down on me. After removing my trouser and boxers, she gave me a nice head. After like 5 mins, I removed her rest of the clothes and we came in 69 position and gave each other pleasure. We relaxed a bit for a while and then she came on top of me and without any protection she penetrated. We tried a few positions she came twice before I came. We did have 2 more sessions that night.
I went on dates with other girls as well, followed the same pattern of kissing on the first date and hooking up on second. This followed for 3–4 more girls, but then I stopped meeting new girls as I was getting frequent sex with one of these girls almost alternative day. On weekends I would get sex atleast 2–3 times on each of Saturday & Sunday. The first girl I had sex with was more open (let's call her A) she had met other guys as well other than me. She even asked me if I wanted to try a threesome, but I denied as the guy was Bisexual and he wanted some fun with me, which I didn't like. So I was having sex with 4 girls almost every other day, but I got bored and met 1 more girl.
We both clicked like anything. She was not much experienced in sex, infact she had sex only once that too like 3 years back with her Bf in college. Now she was very open and wanted to have more sex. She had gone out with few guys on Tinder but didn't have sex with any of them because of some reasons. In our 1st date itself, I went to drop her home on my bike which got punctured very close to her place. So she asked me to stay back and we had got such good connection (also because we chatted for 4–5 days before meeting) that we ended up having sex. The sex was amazing. Next 2 days were weekend, I cancelled all my plans with other girls by saying that I am not well and we both just had sex all day & night. I am guessing we would have had sex for 7–8 times a day on that weekend.
I started to schedule my plans with other girls now. I would meet only 2 girls per week. And rest all days I will be with her (let's call her B). Almost 6 days a week I had sex. Only one day I would sleep peacefully in the night.
So one day B asked me to move in with her, she was clear that she just wanted some Fun for now, it wasn't a relationship. I had one condition that I would go to my place for 2 days for that relationship to be like that and have some space for each other. She even agreed to that and said she is ready to have an open FWB relationship. So next 4–5 months I had the time of my life. But almost at the end of the 4th month I got to know she was meeting another guy, which she told me that it was her ex-husband. I was shocked like hell. Immediately moved out of her place.
She hadn't divorced him completely yet, the process was still going on. It would take another 3–4 months to get divorce. I told her I will give her a call. I started fucking other girls more. They enjoyed more than I did because my mind wasn't into it. I felt betrayed. B even told me that she was having sex with her ex-husband and another guy while she was with me. She then told that she will stop all of it if I come back. Obviously I was not gonna go back, aa having sex with another guy was fine for me, but having a husband and fucking him every other day I wasn't at her place was a different ball game all together. Also, I got more concerned as we had mostly unprotected sex.
A suggested me for a threesome with 2 girls, she had a friend (let's call her C) who was desperate for sex. I agreed. I had a great time having sex with 2 girls. We started doing it more often. I even hooked up with second girl separately. She even let me do anal. She was elder than me but she was the best of all of them, because of her skills. I started staying at her place more, and got to have sex other 3 girls only once in a week. A would come over her place and we would have threesome every weekend. Then came that night which I can never forget. A and C had a small party, they introduced me to their friends as a new friend they met at a Pub. We all danced and had drinks. Later that night a couple was staying back at C's place. They went inside C's room and we're having sex. C & A started kissing each other, and started playing with me. In no time we also started having sex. I was not that d*unk but they even asked me to drink more. After a while, we went to the same room that couple was there. I had forgotten about them. That guy came onto me and started giving me a head. I thought it was a girl first. The other girls were enjoying. He then bent down and I started fucking him in his ass. After a while all the girls joined and we had group sex. I don't remember what happened that night. When I woke in the morning, I was with A & the girl in that couple on top of me, C was with the guy down on another mattress. I went out of the room, took shower and then left the place. Later I got a call from C to ask about my whereabouts. I went back to her place in the evening. She told me they gave me viagra and I had fucked 3 girls and 1 guy that night. They had taken pictures also which I saw later that night. It was like a porn film. I asked her to delete which she agreed after lot of persuading.
I left her place after few days stating that my parents were coming to visit me. Didn't meet any girl for few weeks but I used get messages everyday from all 6 girls (and the guy as well, but I never replied to him). I did have sex with all of them again for few months but not group sex or threesomes or live-in. Then I stopped meeting all of them suddenly. I didn't meet any of them and that's when I agreed to meet girls which my parents had arranged for marriage. I finally liked one and we decided to take our time. We got into a relationship, I fell in love with her and soon said Yes to her and we got engaged. We had sex a few times. I have told her most of my Tinder experience apart from the group sex and threesome.
She had also been in 2–3 relationships but she didn't have much sex in last couple of years. I am very happy to have found her. She doesn't mind my past and I am no one to mind her past as well. I am grateful that she has had some experience as I would have felt guilty.
If I get to the count,
I have had sex with 9 people (8 girls and 1 guy)
Going to get married with the one I had sex with last and will only do it with her in future |
the count is still ongoing, a meet is planned for tomorrow.
I really don't know how to count sex with women... surprisingly, both women I remember their names and faces, although, only first name. Can't remember last names.
People I was in love with when having sex: none.
People I had attachment issue with when having sex: 2... 3?
OK, I was a mess back then.
I might have given BJ to more people, but I don't remember any of those (and don't count those either).
Prob a mix of both. X
