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By *urga2076 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Hello all

I’m just finishing my book. Need to get the cover done. If anyone can face it please could you read this blurb I intend to put on the front and let me m is if it would entice you in? What would you change? Thanks! Xx

[XTitle tbx xx] is a candid memoir of living in a sexually frustrated marriage. It is the intimate journey of an ordinary housewife and mum whose bedroom is the loneliest place.

When a partner loves her spouse and children, should she keep the marriage together for their sake or walk away from her dead-bedroom marriage?

After years of feeling desperate to be seen and loved by her husband, one woman discovers that perhaps the answer begins with loving herself unconditionally first.

Themes covered include:

1-Marriages where one partner wants more sex than their spouse (due to mismatched sex drives or Asexuality)

2-A woman’s insight into living with her partner’s Erectile Dysfunction, performance anxiety and use of Viagra or Cialis

3- How mental health impacts a marriage- including post-partum depression and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

4- Communication mistakes between couples- including navigating coercion and lack of boundary setting

5- Readers raised in conservative, religious or ethnic backgrounds, where the discussion of sexual needs was either not permitted, celebrated or too shameful

6- Learning to be proud of being a sexual woman- how to communicate and get what you need to satisfy yourself

[xxX] is a companion read to assure those living with Erectile Dysfunction and Mismatched Libido partnerships that they are not alone in their frustration.

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By *urga2076 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good, it would be nice to read the finished books. Well done you!

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By *urga2076 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks! I’m about five pages away from my final edit. Can’t believe I’ve done it. Just need to figure out whether I can afford a professional edit (probably not), who can design the cover I have in mind and how on earth to use kindle technology to publish. That will probably set me back a while lol! Will let you know when it’s out. I would love it to go free to fab users for a while as this place really helped me on my journey. May keep posting bits of it in this area of the forums to test sections out xxx

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By *eester GreyMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

Well done. I'd love to read your work when it's done. Please post where I can buy it. Mismatch of libidos is something I know all too well

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By *urga2076 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Well done. I'd love to read your work when it's done. Please post where I can buy it. Mismatch of libidos is something I know all too well"

Thanks! Really appreciate the encouragement. I will start a list of wonderful fabbers who get it for free when it launches.

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By *eester GreyMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

Thanks very much but Im more than happy to pay x

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Wonderful range of topics covered, can identify with much of it. Be really nice to outline my situation if you're interested...

I do have a few suggestions and questions about the wording, some of it doesn't quite sit right for me. Give me a shout in pm if you'd like to hear my thoughts x

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Congratulations on getting your book this far. Maybe find a kindle expert, someone who's done that journey. I'd love to read the finished version. I think the book description is good,... perhaps hint at some of your attempts to find sex and intimacy.. So as to draw in the reader.

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

It sounds intriguing and will, I’m sure, get a lot of interest from many people. Good luck and I hope it’s the start of something new and exciting for you. I’d be more than happy to read it when it’s completed.

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By *urga2076 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Wow thank you gentlemen! I’m taking on board all your feedback. I really want this to be supportive to women enjoying their sex life in all its glory but not at the expense of the men they love x

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By *edRocket14Woman
over a year ago

The East Coast, Suffolk

Hi

Sounds like an interesting and enlightening read. Don't underestimate your worth by giving away your work! We will pay you for your hard work...you are worth it! Xx

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By *uriousFun6069Couple
over a year ago

Caister-on-sea,great Yarmouth

Sounds like my life in my previous 18 year marriage!! Well done you! Sounds awesome x

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By *urga2076 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Thank you ladies. I’ve been getting a good talking to about knowing my worth lately! I think good things will come somehow but that was not my driver writing it. It just had to be written!

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