FabSwingers.com forum: How we started

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife and I have been together 10 years. About 5 or 6 years ago we had a row. I had always thought about swinging with her but was to scared to say anything so I was talking to other women on chat rooms and stuff. That was where I could say what I wanted to do because I was too shy to tell my wife what I wanted. My wife found out about it and that's when we had a row and it came out. So we joined a site and cammed a few times it went like that for about 5 years on and off. Then last year she decided to make it real. Our first few meets were pretty crap but it made our own sex life great. Then it went off the boil for a while then out of the blue she wanted to try it again. We had a few laughs then we met our 1st couple and it was great and are still very good friends we have only met 2 couples and both have been great and count both as close friends. We have had such a good time and it's a very liberating feeling being so open with each other. So any blokes or women out there that are too shy to tell their other half what they really want my advice is tell them be open about it don't rush it. We took 5 years to go from fantasy to reality but that obviously means the time wasn't right for us and it was right when it did happen.

Please reply if you want my wife to write about some of the meets we have had

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we would like to hear about it.

I am also far too afraid to talk to my wife about my swinging desires. Good to know it can turn out right for some people.