FabSwingers.com forum: I never wanted to be owned

By *lwaysHorny1000 OP Woman
over a year ago

Gosport

I joined this site in July, I was getting quite a few messages then his 1 message popped up.

We exchanged a few messages through the site then exchanged numbers and started chatting on WhatsApp.

Everything was normal to start then he started talking about making me his sub, he showed me pictures of what he wanted to do to me, normal stuff, on my knees, mouth fucking, tied up.

Then he says he wants to write on me with bright red lipstick, wft I thought, turns out this is quite normal for a master.

As the weeks went on he started talking about peeing on me and me doing it to him, sorry sir I’m not into watersports, you will be after I pee on you, you dirty cum slut he replied.

Want to know more ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!

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By *andysteveMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes

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By *dinDom300Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Most definitely want to hear more.

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By *orgotten22Woman
over a year ago

out in the sticks in the north east england

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By *nyx99Man
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

Keep going

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By *lwaysHorny1000 OP Woman
over a year ago

Gosport

Just so you know this is a true story.

We’ve been chatting since October and I still haven’t met him yet.

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

If you trust him Just go with it I’m sure you’ll love the adventure and excitement

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By *ardleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Wow keep going

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By *onle81Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Yes please do tell more

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Interesting - do tell us more !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Do tell more

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

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By *lwaysHorny1000 OP Woman
over a year ago

Gosport

Every morning I will text him, Good morning Sir, good morning you filthy little fuck slut, I hope your cunt is wet for me this morning, yes sir always is.

He’d carry on all day calling me a filthy slut, HIS filthy slut, sending me pictures of females tied up in different positions, with ropes, chains, always in heels and stockings.

This is how I want you dressed he’d say, 6 inch heels (he’s only 5ft 9, I’m 5ft 8 with no shoes on)

Doesn’t matter how tall you are, your be on your knees slut, with your collar and lead on.

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

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By *lwaysHorny1000 OP Woman
over a year ago

Gosport

The weeks pasted and we’d been texting daily, sometimes upto 40 texts a day, so I got brave and asked if we could FaceTime, sure later he said.

I waited and waited, it got to midnight and nothing, not even as text since 17.00hrs so I went to bed.

He’d told me in previous texts that I could masturbate that night as long as I video it for him, well oh dear I forgot to press the record button

Opps naughty me.

The next morning I’d send my Good Morning Sir text to be told, do you know why I didn’t call you last night?

No Sir.

Becos you don’t got to demand calls you filthy slut, I’ll call you when I want to.

Even if he said he’d call me i got the same response to following morning.

Then one afternoon I was sat in the staff room at work on my break we were texting and he calls me, video call, omg shock horror, he’s real.

Yes I was beginning to think he wasn’t who he said he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andysteveMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is sounding very promising,cant wait to read more ,wouldn't mind chatting to you myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

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By *irtyslag1000Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *ceman619Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

Nice

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By *igkidexyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

please carry on

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate

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over a year ago

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By *lwaysHorny1000 OP Woman
over a year ago

Gosport

We chatted on facetime for a few minutes, my heart was racing, this is my master, this is the man I will learn to obey and this is the first time I’ve really seen his face, I’d seen 1 full body pic but his face was covered by the phone taking the shot in a mirror.

We carried on texting after the call, him telling me what a dirty cum slut I was, me say yes sir your dirty cum slut tho.

He even said I could play when I get home, but don’t forget to video it for me slut, I didn’t let him down, 1 very slutty video was sent.

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By *wan90Man
over a year ago

Northumberland

"Just so you know this is a true story.

We’ve been chatting since October and I still haven’t met him yet."

Great start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ixen 2020Couple
over a year ago

daventry

Been there, would love to know how it’s turning out for you xx

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By *igkidexyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By *nyx99Man
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving this, more please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good more please

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lank CanvasCouple
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Loving it

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By *lwaysHorny1000 OP Woman
over a year ago

Gosport

Not much more to tell really, I still haven’t meet him in the flesh, he did phone me last night and omg what a dirty kinky fucker he is (mmmmmmm)we have facetimed a few times now.

Oh and he let me masturbate yesterday, of course with a video for him, well 3 videos, 1 in the bathroom and 2 in my bedroom, I was so horny last night.

IF we ever do meet I will update this thread.

Keep your fingers crossed for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoying your journey x

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By *cubasexMan
over a year ago

dudley

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate

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By *lwaysHorny1000 OP Woman
over a year ago

Gosport

THE FINAL INSTALMENT

After master ignoring me for a few days, even though I’d sent him a “good morning sir” text ever morning, which he had read and ignored I decided to send him a voice message.

Before I tell you what I said, master knew I was having my covid jab yesterday, he also knew I was petrified of needles and that the jab can had side effects, I also sent him the video of the chocolate eclair, all of which he ignored. So I sent him this.

“I thought as my master your job was to protect me and look after me, you’ve not even asked how I’m feeling after my jab, or am I just a hole for you to fuck”

The answer came back an hour later “your just a fuck hole”

Sorry not anymore I’m not......bye.

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I’m a human being not a piece of meat, I deserve to be treated with respect and he had none for me, so he’s history.

As the title of this story says “I never wanted to be owned, it just happened”

Well that’s the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear it didn't work out

So many don't understand a sub Dom relationship is a complex balence of trust and pleasure through an exchange of power, needing to be both rewarded and punished but always wanting more.

Better luck next time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a shame, hopefully the next one turns out better for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was not a true master hopefully you will have better luck and find a good master or Mistress

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By *ixen 2020Couple
over a year ago

daventry

I am so sorry this hasn’t worked out for you, being a sub purely on the end of a phone is a very tough place to be and no matter what twists and turns a Dom/sub relationship takes you should always have His respect and care. You are worth more than His treatment of you and you will find it. Well done on having the courage to pull the plug. Good luck lady xx

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By *lwaysHorny1000 OP Woman
over a year ago

Gosport

"I am so sorry this hasn’t worked out for you, being a sub purely on the end of a phone is a very tough place to be and no matter what twists and turns a Dom/sub relationship takes you should always have His respect and care. You are worth more than His treatment of you and you will find it. Well done on having the courage to pull the plug. Good luck lady xx"

Thankyou xx

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By *eeker of pleasureMan
over a year ago

manchester

All the best for the future

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

If I'm 100% honest (and this only comes from experience and a lot of understanding of bdsm {including understanding that there isn't a 'true' way to BDSM, but there are certainly healthier ways})... But his messages were triggering lots of warning flags about how he was talking to you and treating you and his expectations.

If you're interested in this kind of relationship please remember the following:

1. BDSM is about an exchange of power and roles... Exchanges work both ways and should be fully discussed and negotiated.

2. Communication is key. You should be free and able to communicate your needs and desires (refer back to rule1).

3. You always have agency over your own body. Consent is key. Vocalising your ongoing consent (and removal of consent if needed) is your right and does not make you less of a sub (refer back to rule2 and rule1).

4. Limits are a thing, you have every right to have limits of play and things you don't want to do. Always. (refer back to rule 3, rule2 and rule1).

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Also. I know how hard it is when you're mentally feeling submissive to someone to have that strength and will power to establish the respect for yourself.

Well done. I know it was hard. You rocked.

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

Fuck him it was probably Boris no clue there is a line you are a human it takes courage there will be a better Dom out there x

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

It is hard at the moment to get a real handle on this sort of exchange of power.

Online and phone and texts are good, but for me the first meeting is the important one, and normally i would insist on that, whether i was meeting a sub or a domme (i am a switch) before much kink happened online etc, but at the moment this is impossible and so dynamics are weird.

however this seems to be a situation that perhaps you are better out of, and i hope you find what you seek (if that is anything) in the future.

as many will tell you when it is right it is fucking fantastic !

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

It will be his loss not yours OP

Your submission is always yours to give someone not the right of others to take.

I went through a few experiences which ended up were not right before I found a Mistress who showed me what a true Domme/Sub relationship should be like.

If you ever wish explore your submissive side again use this experience and some of the advice here from others to find a Master or Mistress that will give you such a wonderful experience.

Thank you for sharing xx

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

From what I’ve read ... the Dom/sub owned/owner situations are all about respect ....

I completely agree with you

He’s a plonker if he’s let you slip from his grasp you have a great body

love the red heels .

Take care

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