The Five Stages of Teasing
I will be the first to admit that I am a total martyr for being teased. I also love to tease too. I am not on about the making fun kind of teasing or the kind that doesn't lead anywhere. Those are the mean kinds of teasing and I don't like them unless it's obviously in jest between friends. I am referring to the kind of teasing that counts as foreplay, where you know you're going to get what you want eventually or "give in" and let them have what they are craving or maybe drive them to wrestle control away from you and take what they want for themselves.
Teasing is a fine art, a balancing act, hinting at and giving just enough stimulation to keep their interest, keeping them on the edge of the event horizon before plunging past the point of no return for as long as possible. The longer the build up, the greater the return. Not everyone can do it and not everyone can stand it, but those who are good at doing it and those who enjoy being victim to it will understand the fundamental elements to making it work. They know patience is key. They know their partner's triggers, which buttons to push. How to take it to the next level, from a bit of exciting fun to turning someone into a gibbering puddle of frenzied desire and sheer *need* for something that was once just a casual inclination.
It is ultimately about manipulation of the teasee's desire and their level of pleasure and the sense of power that the teaser can feel being in control of that is immense and the mutual satisfaction when it reaches crescendo can be amazing and rewarding for both parties.
I am not sure how the idea popped into my head to compare the stages of ultimate teasing to the stages of grief and loss, but a random brain connection happened as they often do and my imagination just went with it.
1. Denial
(This is the crux of it and sometimes involves literally dangling the thing that your partner wants right in front of their eyes, just out of reach. It's about planting a seed of desire for something that they like or want to discover and then communicating "not yet!". It cannot just be simple denial to be teasing though, there has to be hinting along with it, giving a taste, a sample, or explaining what may be to come if they earn it. Perhaps when you start the tease the circumstances may also be contributing to the denial such as being separated by geography or being at work or in a public space together, or where it would be inappropriate to act on your desires.)
**I sit, naked, astride his stomach. The head of his erect cock twitching and straining towards me, but barely brushing against my carefully positioned arse cheeks. His hands pinned either side of his head by mine, using my body weight to keep him from moving more than I chose. I look straight into his wild eyes and whisper "I knew you wanted to play with my breasts from the moment I caught you staring at my cleavage during dinner. Why do you think I casually leant forward and reached across the table for the salt right in front of you, giving you an eyeful? I wonder if anyone else noticed how much your pupils dilated just like they are now? Would you have dived straight in if we'd not had company?" He nods firmly and I lean downwards slightly, my bare breasts now just an inch from his face, my nipples hardening as I twist myself slightly so one is tauntingly dangled right over his now open mouth. His tongue darts out eagerly to try and reach it, but I pull back just slightly, predicting his move. Staying just out of reach as his brow furrows with frustration.**
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