FabSwingers.com forum: Our Journey into swinging and me becoming a BBC lover !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is the true story of how we got into swinging and why I now only play with Black Guys, unless part of a F/M couple.

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Probably 15 years ago, we used to talk and fantasise about different things while having sex.

The things that seemed to turn hubby on the most, was when we talked about other guys fucking me. I’ll be honest, at first it was a bit weird but also a turn on. We would talk through what they would do to me and and me to them.

We joined a few “websites” and eventually after a lot of talking arranged a meeting with a single guy, we booked a hotel that was halfway between the us all and arrangements made to meet in the pub next door.

We get to the hotel and I get ready, we have already agreed a “word” - so, if I don’t like the guy once we meet. I say the secret word and hubby will make our excuses and we will leave.

We are in the pub and sitting at a little corner table, we see the guy walk in and he comes over to us and introduces himself. He sits down next to me and hubby goes to get a round of drinks in, this was planned - just so I can check the guy out !

Anyway, hubby returns and we are all chatting away. After an hour or so, the guy gets up to get the drinks but hubby says - shall we just go to the room.

I nod yes and the guy agrees.

I’m nervous as hell now, we get to the room and hubby tells the guy that he can play with me, while hubby watches.

Well, it turned out to be a good night and after the initial nerves - I relaxed and enjoyed it, as did hubby. Once the guy left, me and hubby had great sex. We met the guy a few more times and then he sort of disappeared !

We started about going to a club and got talking to another couple on another site we was members off back then, they were regulars at a club called Abfab’s.

After a few weeks of messaging them and a lot of talking between me and hubby, we agreed to meet them there.

To say we were nervous, would be an understatement.

The night was here, I’d brought new sexy underwear and spent ages getting ready !

We was on the motorway, just turning off on to the A30. When we got a message to say the other couple were now not going tonight !!!

We pulled over and chatted for ages, do we turn round and go home / do we carry on and attend. We’d not really got a clue what would happen at this place, yes we had been told a few things but we were so unsure !!!

Well, we decided that as we are only about 10mins away from the place. We may as well go in, if we don’t like it - we can always leave !!!

So, nervous as hell. We pull up in the carpark and walk to the door, and book in.

We are given a tour of the place and then get a drink to try and relax, few people talk to us and we sort of relax a bit.

After about an hour, we get brave and go for a wander about.

It was certainly an eye opener!!!

We end up being regulars (monthly) and have a few experience’s with others while there.

I’d always refused to ever play with black guys, I couldn’t tell you why - I just felt that they wasn’t for me.

We’d played with a few members and there was this one black guy that was nearly always there when we was. He was a bit of a joker and liked a laugh and we used to just chat with him, he always greeted us with a smile.

Anyway, we was at Abfabs one night and it was a bit slow, the black guy was there and we sat and chatted for ages. He asked if I wanted to play and tbh - I couldn’t think of a reason why not too !!

We found a lockable room and that was my first ever black cock !!

We continued to go to Abfabs for a few years and played with a few different people, I played with the black guy a couple more times and actually found that I liked the contrast of black skin against my white body.

Hubby and I talked a lot about this next bit, before agreeing it was the path we took.

I was getting more interested in playing with black guys, I loved the attention they gave me and the way they treated me, plus most were also respectful of hubby.

We spoke a lot about stuff and came up with, that we are predominantly a “Stag and Vixen” couple. We have great sex but hubby also loves watching me being fucked, it really does turn him on big time and I love being fucked. We agree that I only want to play with black guys from now on, unless we play with another couple. (The the guy can be white)

Now we find out that there are parties aimed at white ladies / couples, that are looking for black guys.

BMFC at Hellfire being the one we picked to attend first. I can tell you, I was even more nervous attending our first BMFC party.

To be continued......

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By *oth0712Man
over a year ago

cambridge

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We attend our first BMFC party and greeted at the door by this little pocket of fun called Helen, she shows us round and we settle in ok.

Over the next few hours, the club fills up. There are obviously loads of black guys there and they are all talkative and taking an interest in us / me.

Most talk to us as a couple and we have a good night. We didn’t play that first visit but just got to know a few people, Helen kept checking we was ok.

So, we attended a fair few BMFC events at Hellfires and had some fantastic nights there

We then started to visit other BMFC venues, namely Arousals / Eurekas and made some great friends.

We also, started arranging private meets with black guys. Hotels or at their places, always with hubby in attendance and armed with his camera

To be continued..

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By *azpaulMan
over a year ago

kent /murcia spain

Looking forward to more xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have a few meets and through talking with hubby, we want to try a “greedy girl” meeting. It’s something I had thought about but didn’t know if hubby would be up for it.

That’s why, whatever you are into. You must ensure you talk stuff though with your partners, always always discuss stuff and set rules / boundaries.

So, cut a long story short. We arranged my first gang bang, 5 hung black guys !

It was a great night but bloody knackering

Anyway, over the next few years. More clubs / more private meets and a few more greedy girl nights chucked in for good measure.

We sort of drifted away from meeting couples, we did have two trips to Blackpool. Trip one was to meet a single girl, we arranged to meet in the pub and then went to our hotel room. Everyone had a great night, I had my first girl on girl experience and hubby fucked her a few times BUT she turned really weird after the meeting and we since found out she was married and was on holiday with her hubby and he didn’t know she was meeting anyone !!

Our other trip to Blackpool, was a weekend away arranged by Helen. BMFC had taken over a couple of hotels for the weekend, so we went back up there for that. It was a great weekend and we meet some lovely people

To be continued...

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By *untooMan
over a year ago

manchester

Good story

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, fast forward a few years and a few meets...

We also start attending parties held by a group of black guys. Some of these guys, I’d go on to have private meets with.

As we predominantly only meet black guys now, after a chat one night. It was decided that I would have my own single profile on here.

Hubby goes away the odd weekend, we agreed I could have a few “special” friends to call on if I wanted to play alone when he’s away.

So, the account was put together and a few special friends added.

I’ve had a few “alone” meets without hubby being there, some for just a few hours and some overnighters and it certainly does add something to the meets

Now days, we try to attend as many parties as we can.

The question I get asked most, mainly from single white guys that message my special account is....

Why black guys only !

Well, as I’ve said already. I love the black on white colour contrast when playing, it really does turn me on. I find that black guys are mostly very polite and do also talk to us as a couple, not just me and ignore hubby. Plus, yes cock size is a bonus but that’s not the be all and end all of why I play with them BUT mostly, it’s because it’s what I want

That said, we are now also leaning to wanting to play with more couples (obviously after COVID)

Probably more soft swap at the moment but you never know what may happen on the night

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So, that’s a brief rundown of how we got started and where we are today

I will add, that if you are a couple and you are just starting your Journey into the world of swinging. The most important things to remember are to TALK everything though with your partner, set rules and don’t break them.

Don’t feel pressured to do anything you are not happy doing, not by your partner or the people you are meeting.

TRUST is important, if you haven’t got that, then this may not be the life so for you !!

Above all, it’s meant to be fun. If you’re not enjoying it, then don’t do it

Hope you all enjoyed it x

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By *attboy107Man
over a year ago

Near Bedford

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By *oeKelly2003TV/TS
over a year ago

City

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

All so true

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Great story and helpful info for lots of people.

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster

I was just going to say the same thing. It was good of you Mrs & Mr Just to share your experiences. The manner in which your journey, if I can use that word, was told above was most refreshing as it is from the female perspective and avoids all the "uh uh oooh", " oh fuck oh fuck" and "aaaaaaagggghhhhsss" (though I'm sure a very lucky fly on the wall - & Mr Just - would have heard plenty of those

) that I usually see in erotic stories, which are also enjoyable in their own right; the good ones.

In any relationship,as you have correctly stressed,trust is important and your experiences show that commuication is also a crucial part of it being successful and enjoyable for all involved.

I don't know about the other readers but I would be most interested to hear from either or both of you (assuming you're willing to share further) how Mrs Just's experiences with black guys materially differed from sessions with white blokes? For instance, when there was a significant size difference, intensity of orgasm or assertiveness/dominance?

Thank you again for your story, it was most enlghtening and enjoyable.

"Great story and helpful info for lots of people."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was just going to say the same thing. It was good of you Mrs & Mr Just to share your experiences. The manner in which your journey, if I can use that word, was told above was most refreshing as it is from the female perspective and avoids all the "uh uh oooh", " oh fuck oh fuck" and "aaaaaaagggghhhhsss" (though I'm sure a very lucky fly on the wall - & Mr Just - would have heard plenty of those

) that I usually see in erotic stories, which are also enjoyable in their own right; the good ones.

In any relationship,as you have correctly stressed,trust is important and your experiences show that commuication is also a crucial part of it being successful and enjoyable for all involved.

Thank you again for your story, it was most enlghtening and enjoyable.

Great story and helpful info for lots of people. "

Thank you for the feed back, it was a cut down view of how we got where we are today but the main points are in there.

It’s difficult to put in to writing, the difference I personally feel about White guys V Black guys.

I have been with some great white guys and some that I’d never want to play with again, the same can be said about black guys.

I love looking at black skin when it’s laying next to or on top of me, it really does turn me on.

I’ve had VWE white guys and black guys but I enjoy the naughtiness of playing with black guys

They both hit the same spots within me but I just enjoy Black guys more.

I have a white hubby and we have great sex, it could well be that playing with black guys subconsciously means going against the grain thus makes it a bit taboo and that’s what makes it exciting??

As I say, is difficult to explain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great story and helpful info for lots of people."

I’m glad you liked it and if it does help others, even better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We continue to evolve.

Started with single guys, moved on to couples / single females - then found my preference was to play with black guys and hubby gets his sexual gratification by just watching me play or from me telling him what I’ve been up to if it was a lone meeting.

Now, we are back to also looking for couples white or black. That we can both enjoy spending time with, predominately looking for soft swap but never ruling out anything - we do tend to just go with the flow and if things go further, then they go further

I will still maintain my single profile and will continue to meet some of my “special” friends when time allows.

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster

) that I usually see in erotic stories, which are also enjoyable in their own right; the good ones.

In any relationship,as you have correctly stressed,trust is important and your experiences show that commuication is also a crucial part of it being successful and enjoyable for all involved.

Thank you again for your story, it was most enlghtening and enjoyable.

Great story and helpful info for lots of people.

Thank you for the feed back, it was a cut down view of how we got where we are today but the main points are in there.

It’s difficult to put in to writing, the difference I personally feel about White guys V Black guys.

I have been with some great white guys and some that I’d never want to play with again, the same can be said about black guys.

I love looking at black skin when it’s laying next to or on top of me, it really does turn me on.

I’ve had VWE white guys and black guys but I enjoy the naughtiness of playing with black guys

They both hit the same spots within me but I just enjoy Black guys more.

I have a white hubby and we have great sex, it could well be that playing with black guys subconsciously means going against the grain thus makes it a bit taboo and that’s what makes it exciting??

As I say, is difficult to explain.

Many thanks for your reply Mrs Just. The points you made about the similarly endowed or equally unsatisfactory white/black lovers you've had, is well made.

I think I understand what you mean and it goes to show that the most erogenous zone in a woman's body, which has soo many, is the one between her ears.

We can't see inside the cranium, probably a good thing really

so I'll just continue to enjoy the visible outer parts of a woman's body coz us simple fellas are all about the visual. This might in some way explain why Mr Just really enjoys seeing you being satisfied... more than satisfied usually.. by your black lovers and why lots of guys (or so I'm told

) like seeing white ladies being looked after by black guys.

Note to self: better do some more.. ah.. research... yeah that's the word... better do some more of that one handed research on the Interweb & add your profiles to my Fab Hotlist in case some. hot pics or vids find there way into your public gallery.

Thanks again

Arnie xx

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By *wakers14Man
over a year ago

burgess hill

Great explanation.

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster

find their* way....

) that I usually see in erotic stories, which are also enjoyable in their own right; the good ones.

In any relationship,as you have correctly stressed,trust is important and your experiences show that commuication is also a crucial part of it being successful and enjoyable for all involved.

Thank you again for your story, it was most enlghtening and enjoyable.

Great story and helpful info for lots of people.

Thank you for the feed back, it was a cut down view of how we got where we are today but the main points are in there.

It’s difficult to put in to writing, the difference I personally feel about White guys V Black guys.

I have been with some great white guys and some that I’d never want to play with again, the same can be said about black guys.

I love looking at black skin when it’s laying next to or on top of me, it really does turn me on.

I’ve had VWE white guys and black guys but I enjoy the naughtiness of playing with black guys

They both hit the same spots within me but I just enjoy Black guys more.

I have a white hubby and we have great sex, it could well be that playing with black guys subconsciously means going against the grain thus makes it a bit taboo and that’s what makes it exciting??

As I say, is difficult to explain.

Many thanks for your reply Mrs Just. The points you made about the similarly endowed or equally unsatisfactory white/black lovers you've had, is well made.

I think I understand what you mean and it goes to show that the most erogenous zone in a woman's body, which has soo many, is the one between her ears.

We can't see inside the cranium, probably a good thing really

) like seeing white ladies being looked after by black guys.

Thanks again

Arnie xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great explanation.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found it, great read x

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By *edwayvoyeursCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Very helpful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Found it, great read x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very helpful

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By *andjcplCouple
over a year ago

stourbridge

Thanks for sharing guys, we have just started down the same path as you guys and are loving every minute. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing guys, we have just started down the same path as you guys and are loving every minute. Xx"

Enjoy

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

another great read x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

another great read x "

Thank you

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By *aidbackcpleCouple
over a year ago

nr stockton

Thanks very much for sharing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you try the pool Helens daughter is a fire cracker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you try the pool Helens daughter is a fire cracker

I assume you mean the pool at Abfabs ?

Yes, we used to spend a lot of time in there.

Met Helen’s daughter a few times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been asked to bump this, as the person couldn’t find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are often asked if we are a cuck couple and find ourselves explaining not, now realise we are also a Stag and Vixen couple x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are often asked if we are a cuck couple and find ourselves explaining not, now realise we are also a Stag and Vixen couple x "

Glad to have helped

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