Due to lockdown this is going to be a long post, probably written over a couple/few days. We are not going anywhere any time soon hence this long thread. If this thread is not to your particular tastes or preference I’d appreciate it if you didn’t criticise. However, if you feel the need to then go ahead. We won’t take offence. It is each to their own.
See, told you it was going to be long...haven’t even mentioned the sex yet. I (hubby) have posted this in the section titled ‘stories & fantasies’ because the length of this thread means it could be classed as a story. The content could be classed as a fantasy. Apologies in advance if anybody doesn’t like the words ‘lend’, ‘use’ etc.
So, you can see from the title of this post that this is about a couple playing with the wife of another couple with her husbands consent but him not present. However, in our take on this we wouldn’t want the husband to simply drop wifey off (for the other couple to use) and then drive away. We would like some brief interaction with hubby before he leaves his wife with us. I guess this is for the reasons below.
Reason 1. We have chatted ourselves about doing this ourselves (Jayne playing with another couple without me present). We like the terms ‘lending her’ to the other couple for them to ‘use her’. However, we (and I’m certain a lot of other couples think the same) need to ensure that the couple who would be using Jayne are clean, sane & safe. Therefore in our opinion alone it would be a great idea for hubby to hang around for a short while to get a feel for the couple. Maybe have a beer with us before he leaves. Have a look
around the house. Maybe tell us what he would like to happen in his absence.
Reason 2. When we play with a single lady We enjoy sending pics and videos back to her husband to tease him. We think that if hubby had already had a look around the place before he left his wife with us it would help him get more of a feel for what he was seeing.
So, I should point out that we prefer to meet in Airbnb’s where we have the full house/cottage to ourselves as opposed to hotel rooms. We have done hotel meets loads of times over the years but we find it is better where the accommodation has a bathroom that is not connected to the bedroom for many reasons especially personal reasons. For example, our guest may have wind. Need to freshen up. Need to burp. Feel sick. Need to chat personally to the kids. Need to speak personally to or text hubby. These and many other reasons are better than using the bathroom with the couple literally a couple of feet away behind the bathroom door.
Everything we do is all about mutual respect. We want the lady to be as relaxed as possible so then it goes without saying that we will have have more fun if wifey is very relaxed. Therefore, our suggestion would be for our guest to have an arrangement to text her partner every 30 minutes etc. She could set a reminder to text hubby to let him know she is fine and relaxed. I appreciate that it’s not the sexiest thing in the world with an alarm going off every 30 minutes but surely this slight inconvenience would be better for all concerned, especially hubby sat at home. So, in our case we would have a simple ‘trigger’ word. So, if wife texts ‘All ok babe. No worries etc’ then I would know she was fine. However, if she texted our trigger word (COOL) such as ‘Hi babe. I’m COOL’. I would know to call her or arrange to collect her.
As I said, mutual respect is essential so we would love it better if hubby was involved lots by texting specific requests. Maybe he wants us to say a certain thing to his wife. Do a certain thing to her. Write something on her body etc.
Whilst a lot of people don’t drink we would prefer a lady who didn’t mind a drink because we personally like a drink or two and we think it would be nicer for us all to loosen up a little.
All in all these are our preferences and probably not the same as any body else’s. These are how we would ‘play it’ if we were to lend Jayne to a sexy couple for them to ‘use her’.
Well, that’s it for now. Apologies in advance if we’ve upset anyone.
Stay safe all and happy pseudo swinging.
PS, If anybody has any experience of this scenario it would be great to know how you ‘played it’. Great to hear your hints, tips, advice etc on what made your meets better and more relaxed or any other suggestions. |
love doing exactly this..... 
