FabSwingers.com forum: Spanish Residents

By *_girl_has_no_name OP Woman
over a year ago

SPAIN

I suppose there’s a bunch of fabbers currently living in Spain... and I was wondering how the hell do they manage to find each other as there’s no option to set up ones profile location to Spain.

I just recently moved back and finding it difficult to find fellow fabbers in my area (north Spain) through this site.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

There are quite a few that live permanently in Spain and lots of others (like us) who have a property but pop backwards and forwards.

On the mainland the two biggest concentrations are on the Costa del Sol and Costa Blanca.

"North Spain" could be a bit thin though. You may find one or two if you are around the Barcelona area, but if your bit of north Spain is Bilbao/Santander then I think you will struggle.

Other than using the Spain forum it's almost impossible to meet other fabbers (or even find out who is around)

Maybe open a thread for your area and see who answers.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

I would just add that your age range doesn't help. The vast majority of Fabbers in Spain tend to be 50+

For younger ones maybe better to explore the Spanish scene.

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By *_girl_has_no_name OP Woman
over a year ago

SPAIN

Thanks for the tip.

You confirmed my suspicions: there are no fab life in the north

I’ll have to find my ways I guess

Thanks!

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By *ralpleaseMan
over a year ago

El Campello, Alicante

You can always try tapping who is near you on your phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always hard to find single women here in Tenerife on fab too

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By *os1Man
over a year ago

maspalomas

hello everyone. that is true and a lot of fab in the canary islands but they cannot contact each other. you have to look at the daily ferries and most of them are on holiday in hotels

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

We managed to contact lots of people without too much trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in the process of signing up to another platform that's popular in Spain apparently. Can send you an invitation once we're in if you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please I am interested

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"You can always try tapping who is near you on your phone"

No. Who's near isn't fit for purpose.

It regularly puts us all over the place.

Best one was when it put us in Jamaica when we were actually in Singapore.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"We're in the process of signing up to another platform that's popular in Spain apparently. Can send you an invitation once we're in if you like."

If it's the one I'm thinking of ("ON") then your Spanish will have to be really up to speed.

We tried it for a year and even though my Spanish isn't too bad, it wasn't that good.

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By *_girl_has_no_name OP Woman
over a year ago

SPAIN

"We're in the process of signing up to another platform that's popular in Spain apparently. Can send you an invitation once we're in if you like."

Yes please

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

i never had any problem with who is near i met a few holidaymakers through it.

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

"We're in the process of signing up to another platform that's popular in Spain apparently. Can send you an invitation once we're in if you like.

If it's the one I'm thinking of ("ON") then your Spanish will have to be really up to speed.

We tried it for a year and even though my Spanish isn't too bad, it wasn't that good."
Found that site good too especially the club invites it gave you a good idea who was going too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're in the process of signing up to another platform that's popular in Spain apparently. Can send you an invitation once we're in if you like.

If it's the one I'm thinking of ("ON") then your Spanish will have to be really up to speed.

We tried it for a year and even though my Spanish isn't too bad, it wasn't that good."

Thankfully the better half of us is fluent, so we won't have any problems there. It's not that one though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're in the process of signing up to another platform that's popular in Spain apparently. Can send you an invitation once we're in if you like.

Yes please"

Send us a message please. We can't see your profile.

We'll reply with the invite link once we're in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have place north of Barcelona, out regularly and fair sprinkling of Fabbers seem to pass by.

Yes please to invite.

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

I would be interested please, i split my time between Uk. Southern Spain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use who's near works pretty well on the Costa Blanca

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We don't actually use who's near but, going off the messages we get from people who do, it's hit and miss to say the least.

It regularly puts us on the Algarve and Tenerife seems to be another favourite. We've not been to either for years.

And as I posted earlier, it once put us in Jamaica when we were in Singapore. We even got a message from a guy that seemed to think we were close to him in Bermuda.

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

"We use who's near works pretty well on the Costa Blanca

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If i remember rightly we used it when we met up with jo when you were down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use who's near works pretty well on the Costa Blanca

If i remember rightly we used it when we met up with jo when you were down.

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yes we did when we were down near Nerja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works ok around Costa Brava, even showing fab folk at Cap d'adge in who's near

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By *ockandpussyCouple
over a year ago

Dolores Alicante region

Forget who's near get yourselves down to besos club Saturday night 7th if your in the area of Costa Blanca.

Unlimited Drinks for Couples.

www.besosclub.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on your phone see who is near to you its surprising how many there are where in Spain are you

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By *exoParaTodosMan
over a year ago

Alicante province

Depends where you are in the north. It's fairly busy in the Barcelona area, but if you are in Aragon region or Cantabria, etc, then you've got no chance with Fab

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By *ays696969Man
over a year ago

mallorca

Hi there love to chat with u many thanks Jay xx

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By *ramerMan
over a year ago

Benidorm spain

Hi living here just outside Benidorm

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

We're hoping to go the other way very soon. Spain has lost its appeal for us.

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

I must admit I find it slim pickings here in Spain. Back in Scotland there was no shortage of single men so it came as a bit of a shock. I also think the “who’s near” is a bit screwed up here to as I get messages from people in the canaries, Balearics, Portugal and a few days ago the Czech republic, saying I’m showing only a few miles away

Also, when I holidayed in Benidorm, there were always lots around but for some reason, not so many now.

I do have a lot of filters on, although when I search who’s near, even before I go to search those who match my filters, there aren’t that many nearby.

I am in one of the largest ex pat areas in Spain too so I find it surprising how few seem to be online

I will say, it is an older demographic here though, but I was told that when I moved and started a thread asking what to do in the area

Besos is a lovely club run by a really nice couple. On the odd occasion I’ve made it over, it was kind of quiet, but I visited just after the Gita fria in September and that was horrific for so many in the area and roads had been closed.

I would definitely recommend a visit though. Clean, welcoming and lots to do there. Certainly one of the nicest clubs I’ve been in, and I always visit as a single female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes please check us out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For anyone looking at Spanish sites these are the two we were told about.

S D C dot com.

Ofidelio

We've only just signed up so not sure if they are any good yet

Good luck!

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"I must admit I find it slim pickings here in Spain. Back in Scotland there was no shortage of single men so it came as a bit of a shock. I also think the “who’s near” is a bit screwed up here to as I get messages from people in the canaries, Balearics, Portugal and a few days ago the Czech republic, saying I’m showing only a few miles away

Also, when I holidayed in Benidorm, there were always lots around but for some reason, not so many now.

I do have a lot of filters on, although when I search who’s near, even before I go to search those who match my filters, there aren’t that many nearby.

I am in one of the largest ex pat areas in Spain too so I find it surprising how few seem to be online

I will say, it is an older demographic here though, but I was told that when I moved and started a thread asking what to do in the area

I would definitely recommend a visit though. Clean, welcoming and lots to do there. Certainly one of the nicest clubs I’ve been in, and I always visit as a single female"

Pretty much agree with all of that.

Like yourself the who's near puts us all over the place.

By its very nature (lots of retired expats) the greater Torrevieja area is an older demographic among the expats (us included) but the Spanish scene has a much wider age range and there are quite a few younger Spanish guys who are more than willing and able.

As for the Gota Fria. We were actually in the club on the day it hit (Thursday 12th). Needless to say very few others ventured out so it was just us and 5 single guys. Mrs had a great time though.

When we left, my run to the car would have given Usain Bolt a race and the drive back to Playa Flamenca was the drive from hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm backwards and forwards to Spain so always in a different area on a regular basis. Definitely agree about the north though, next to no users.

As for the south, I'm there on Thursday for just over a week and wouldn't mind doing a bit of exploring, not just the touristy bits but some of the hidden gems and quiet places.

Will be looking to attend a club at least once while over there as well.

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By *pain_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Spain

We live near Barcelona and find it very difficult to find people to meet since we moved here unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On swingers is a spanish site although I believe you need an invite.. (we did) but no longer use it to send o e out..

https://es.onswingers.com/

We use SDC.. lots of people in Spain on there, locals and ex pats.

https://www.sdc.com/

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We always import couples from the Uk promise free accommodation and as much wine as you can drink works for us lol x

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By *exoParaTodosMan
over a year ago

Alicante province

"We always import couples from the Uk promise free accommodation and as much wine as you can drink works for us lol x

You could lobby Boris and complain that Brexit will affect your sex life

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By *anolo78301Man
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol

Ive had the same thing, come back from the UK and it feels really hard to find users based here.

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

"On swingers is a spanish site although I believe you need an invite.. (we did) but no longer use it to send o e out..

https://es.onswingers.com/

We use SDC.. lots of people in Spain on there, locals and ex pats.

https://www.sdc.com/"
You need an invite from a member who has met you to join on swingers, which they stick to for the reason they only want genuine people and not just money like a lot of other sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always import couples from the Uk promise free accommodation and as much wine as you can drink works for us lol x

I'm sure it does!!!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Might have to give them food as well this year lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might have to give them food as well this year lol x

I'm sure there's enough eating going on. Just make sure they're well watered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would appreciate the info if available

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Would appreciate the info if available"
Am surprised that you don't do as _eah baby and invite people over , the money they save they can spend on wine for there hosts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mailed the site owners years ago about being able to have a search Spain option but sadly to no avail.

Id like to see the ratio of Spanish members to Australia , American members

I bet we are greater in numbers

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

" I mailed the site owners years ago about being able to have a search Spain option but sadly to no avail.

Id like to see the ratio of Spanish members to Australia , American members

I bet we are greater in numbers"

I would guess that Spain has more members on here than USA. Australia, Canada, and New Zealand added together.

And that is before we start with the visitors.

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

I know so many of us who live here are also site supporters. Can’t be “too” hard to add it?

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By *iscreantsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *iscreantsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I suppose there’s a bunch of fabbers currently living in Spain... and I was wondering how the hell do they manage to find each other as there’s no option to set up ones profile location to Spain.

I just recently moved back and finding it difficult to find fellow fabbers in my area (north Spain) through this site.

Thanks"

Where in Northern Spain are you? We have just started a thread asking about clubs in Northern Spain.

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By *ralpleaseMan
over a year ago

El Campello, Alicante

" I mailed the site owners years ago about being able to have a search Spain option but sadly to no avail.

Id like to see the ratio of Spanish members to Australia , American members

I bet we are greater in numbers"

I tried to get a Spanish chat room also a few years ago. Got lot of support from other users but nothing back from admin. I instigated the Spanish forum way back when.

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By *iddevoncoupleCouple
over a year ago

Malaga SA

I am sure there are many people who would join in, we would for sure, stay safe everyone, be nice to hear from anybody even just for social chat.

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By *inda and TerryCouple
over a year ago

london/Spain

we would be interest as well, we do meet lots of holiday makers but it would be nice to have a register for locals and regular party nights away from the club seen.

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

Always in Spain

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By *exy BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Bergerac, France

I've started a thread here...

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/994654

... in an effort to get a section opened for those who live in France and Spain, two of the biggest countries where Fabbers probably live, outside the UK.

Obviously Admin are pretty busy at the moment with virus stuff taking priority, but if anyone cares to add their support and leave a comment on there, it might help.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Benidorm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Málaga resident here

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Javea, between Alicante and Valencia

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Near Alicante

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerja but travel malaga have club party nights in torremolinos

Love going Papua or eden

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By *xplayhardxxMan
over a year ago

MÁLAGA

Costa del Sol resident here so let me know if you live around or came around for some fun once all of this is gone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love to met you at pdi!

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By *ralpleaseMan
over a year ago

El Campello, Alicante

Busot, just north of Alicante

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By *hag4u2Man
over a year ago

Guisborough

On the Mediterranean around the Costa Brava and in general north of Barcelona towards French border there does not seem to be British forum.

French,German,Dutch,Belgians local Catalan and Spanish people are friendly and open to fun with few hang ups about meeting new people.

My house is discrete and near the AP7 close to Figueres so I have been able to meet driving down to southern Costas. There are free sites to make youself known but you can plagued by fools there too.

With good will it is easier to have a succesful encounter with people speaking a foreign language than you migjt think.

Good luck and happy swinging

Colin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tenerife here

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By *pple16Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Almunecar here

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

Carihuela here.

When I'm in Spain I just use the whose local function.

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By *ich_and_LizCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

We went back to the UK just before all the virus stuff happened and used the who is near feature and forgot how many there were on there when at home...very few on here around Nerja

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