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PDI next week - bars and clubs welcoming for newbies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago

Hi all we are at Gold, PDI next week. I’ve been a swinger many years and wife has no issue with it however last time we went there was a glint of a hope that she was up for visiting a bar or club. We went to the Tipsy Hammock but was just a nice bar. She isn’t going to initiate anything and I know this may be more hope on my side but are there any bars or clubs that would be ideal to take her to where we might make friends? We are not late people so a bar etc open from early would be better. All thoughts welcome. There from Saturday for a week. Thanks

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By *x2 4 funCouple
20 weeks ago

Southampton

The comeback bars opens around 9 pm and starts to get busy by 10 always plenty of people there give it a try

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By *ackflyingsoloMan
20 weeks ago

Carrickfergus

Hi,

Tipsy for a couple of drinks in the afternoon and see how it goes. See if she’s heading down that road. I arrive tomorrow, Thursday!

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By *ackflyingsoloMan
20 weeks ago

Carrickfergus

Perhaps pre arrange a little drink with someone and the banter can become a little flirty as the drink flows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago

Yes I met a couple at comeback but was pre arranged. Not sure how easy otherwise

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By *ilky69Couple
20 weeks ago

cardiff

As newbies we liked going to Eden on couples night.

There's a bar area to sit then a separate play area.

There's no pressure to play, music is quiet enough to talk and it's open from 9.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago

Thanks that’s really helpful

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By *I TwoCouple
20 weeks ago

near enough

We'd second Eden,it may be a bit daunting for her entering the club but its really chilled and friendly inside and no pressure to dress sexy or strip off unless you want to go to the play area. There's Also lockable rooms if the two of you want some alone time but with others nearby or there's the jacuzzi which is fun.

PlanB and Comeback are nice enough but you probably need to be proactive and speak to other couples or arrange a meet beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago

Thanks both - I suspect both are a challenge in different ways. I suspect a club will be a step too far at this stage and 10pm is actually a bit late for us. Comeback is a real possibility but I can’t see her being proactive and I wouldn’t without her blessing. If anyone is going to be in comeback and might be happy to come say hi or at Gold that might work better. Not sure how much she is up for this but she’s had fun many years ago so…

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By *ree2goodhomeMan
20 weeks ago

ng13 notts

Hi mate im from notts too here till the 20th if you both fancy a drink sometime

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago

Thanks please message me as can’t message direct

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By *uzy050TV/TS
20 weeks ago

Bolton

Tipsy Hammock probably your best bet , Grab a table and strike up a conversation, lot of swinger couples go there , more British oriented x

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By *etWetWet453Couple
20 weeks ago

CAMBERLEY


"Thanks both - I suspect both are a challenge in different ways. I suspect a club will be a step too far at this stage and 10pm is actually a bit late for us. Comeback is a real possibility but I can’t see her being proactive and I wouldn’t without her blessing. If anyone is going to be in comeback and might be happy to come say hi or at Gold that might work better. Not sure how much she is up for this but she’s had fun many years ago so…"

If ten o`clock is a bit late for you, then you are limiting your options quite considerably, as most people don`t even start going out to the bars until about 9.30/10ish. It might transpire that GOLD is your best bet, because although not a Swingers hotel, per se, a lot of swingers do stay there. Easy enough to strike up a conversation around the pool.

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By *ammystwoCouple
20 weeks ago

Tamworth

Paul here staying at the gold hotel from Monday 9th

mate, can chat around the pool if you like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
20 weeks ago

Yes I think that’s great advice. I don’t mind later but wife doesn’t and I also think going to a club would be a big step. At the moment don’t even know if she’s still attracted by the idea. I think ideal is that people come and say hi at Gold

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