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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

Visited there tonight for bi night and found out that this is a trans unfriendly club. First time ever in 12 years I have had a club owner treating me as a man.

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By *uboCouple
9 weeks ago

East kilbride

In what way were you treated ?

We have been in Tantra many times and have met tv/ts on a couple of occasions with no sign of disrespect or transphobia.

Would be very disappointed and surprised to to see this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"In what way were you treated ?

We have been in Tantra many times and have met tv/ts on a couple of occasions with no sign of disrespect or transphobia.

Would be very disappointed and surprised to to see this."

My post states the issue, the woman called me a man

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By *uboCouple
9 weeks ago

East kilbride

Actually you said "treated as a man"

There is a difference from being called a man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

Same thing actually, first started saying I should pay at the reception then when the guy behind the bar said something to her in Spanish her reply referred to me as caballero. Therefore, she called me a man and was treating me as such.

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By *xpantiesMan
9 weeks ago

milton keynes

Well unless your post op he is technically correct. Men pay females do not. You seem to be very sensitive.

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By *antra Couple GCCouple
9 weeks ago

Playa del Ingles, Gran Canaria


"Visited there tonight for bi night and found out that this is a trans unfriendly club. First time ever in 12 years I have had a club owner treating me as a man. "

Single men pay 50 Euros incl. 2 drinks and a locker.

You paid 50 Euros ? ? ?

Single ladies pay 10 incl. a drink and a locker.

You paid 10 Euros ? ? ?

In the case of TVs, we even make an exception and only charge 5 euros entrance incl. a drink.

And this you paid: 5 Euros ! ! !

The man behind the bar is new and asked the boss only if he should charge a locker.

So stick to the truth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Well unless your post op he is technically correct. Men pay females do not. You seem to be very sensitive. "

Wrong, this is the type of ignorance and prejudice that drives hate and violence against transgender women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"Visited there tonight for bi night and found out that this is a trans unfriendly club. First time ever in 12 years I have had a club owner treating me as a man.

Single men pay 50 Euros incl. 2 drinks and a locker.

You paid 50 Euros ? ? ?

Single ladies pay 10 incl. a drink and a locker.

You paid 10 Euros ? ? ?

In the case of TVs, we even make an exception and only charge 5 euros entrance incl. a drink.

And this you paid: 5 Euros ! ! !

The man behind the bar is new and asked the boss only if he should charge a locker.

So stick to the truth!"

I am not a transvestite, learn the difference.

If you have a price structure it should be clearly stated at the club and on your website. I have no objection to paying the same prices as cisgender women.

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By *I TwoCouple
9 weeks ago

all around


"Visited there tonight for bi night and found out that this is a trans unfriendly club. First time ever in 12 years I have had a club owner treating me as a man.

Single men pay 50 Euros incl. 2 drinks and a locker.

You paid 50 Euros ? ? ?

Single ladies pay 10 incl. a drink and a locker.

You paid 10 Euros ? ? ?

In the case of TVs, we even make an exception and only charge 5 euros entrance incl. a drink.

And this you paid: 5 Euros ! ! !

The man behind the bar is new and asked the boss only if he should charge a locker.

So stick to the truth!

I am not a transvestite, learn the difference.

If you have a price structure it should be clearly stated at the club and on your website. I have no objection to paying the same prices as cisgender women."

With respect, you're a man dressed as and identifying as a woman. How can I or most other people differentiate between a transvestite and transgender?

Sorry but it all seems very confusing to us uneducated

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By *anary57Couple
9 weeks ago

near lowestoft

Absolutely agree with the last post.

Don't get me started

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By *xpantiesMan
9 weeks ago

milton keynes

but your not a woman. you were born male and i bet you still have a penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago


"but your not a woman. you were born male and i bet you still have a penis. "

Genitals do not define a gender. You clearly think that people are defined by nothing more than their genitalia and have no understanding of the larger picture.

You don't have the intellect to understand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
9 weeks ago

In view of information received after the event it appears that I misheard or misinterpreted what was said, my command of Spanish is poor.

I made my posts in haste and after a few drinks.

Under the circumstances I retract my comments.

Time to move on.

I had been intending to move away from Fab later in the year but I think it is time now.

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By *om hanks99Man
8 weeks ago

Limerick

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