FabSwingers.com forum: PDI recommendations for single straight guy

By *ublinoM45 OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

I’m going there for a holiday over Xmas 21-31 Dec

Any clubs/ bars most suitable to meet females?

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By *ublinoM45 OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

Bump

Any tips appreciated

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

We have some tips that apply to any single guys coming to PDI.

1) Work on your profile. If it's one line with 1 photo it's not a good start. If you have no verifications then ask people you meet in the clubs and bars yo verify you.

2) There aren't a lot of single women who come to PDI on holiday so if you limit yourself to single (as opposed to the female partner of a couple) make sure the establishment is a genuine swingers club/bar.

3) Somewhere between being a wallflower and being pushy is polite, friendly, respectful and engaging. Men who find this balance get to enjoy PDI. It's not all about being Brad Pitt and having ripped abs.

Dressing well, being well groomed and smelling nice is something most women notice and doesn't require an enormous amount of effort compared to the effort some of the ladies put in.

4) Read the room. Look at people's body language. If they are enjoying your company you'll see the signs. If they feel you're not what they're after they'll show that too.

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By *I TwoCouple
over a year ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24

Could I add

Don't stare... There's nothing worse than having a single guy stare at us all night.

A smile, a polite wave in our direction and if we want we would respond.

Pushy guys trying to start a conversation also a complete turn off. Hello is enough (for us) and again we will decide whether to say hello (meaning goodbye) or start a conversation.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Could I add

Don't stare... There's nothing worse than having a single guy stare at us all night.

A smile, a polite wave in our direction and if we want we would respond.

Pushy guys trying to start a conversation also a complete turn off. Hello is enough (for us) and again we will decide whether to say hello (meaning goodbye) or start a conversation."

Not going to speak to you two at 2x2 Meeting Point tonight.

Let's get this right.

If we say hello to you and you say hello back, your hello means goodbye, go away.

If we come up to you, say hello and you reply piss off, we're on.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Could I add

Don't stare... There's nothing worse than having a single guy stare at us all night.

A smile, a polite wave in our direction and if we want we would respond.

Pushy guys trying to start a conversation also a complete turn off. Hello is enough (for us) and again we will decide whether to say hello (meaning goodbye) or start a conversation.

Not going to speak to you two at 2x2 Meeting Point tonight.

Let's get this right.

If we say hello to you and you say hello back, your hello means goodbye, go away.

If we come up to you, say hello and you reply piss off, we're on.

Oops sorry, mixed you up with a couple in PDI.

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By *I TwoCouple
over a year ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24

"Could I add

Don't stare... There's nothing worse than having a single guy stare at us all night.

A smile, a polite wave in our direction and if we want we would respond.

Pushy guys trying to start a conversation also a complete turn off. Hello is enough (for us) and again we will decide whether to say hello (meaning goodbye) or start a conversation.

Not going to speak to you two at 2x2 Meeting Point tonight.

Let's get this right.

If we say hello to you and you say hello back, your hello means goodbye, go away.

If we come up to you, say hello and you reply piss off, we're on.

Don't worry, you won't lol

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