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"We are looking for bi females or hung single men/couples" 7th_10th sept | |||
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"There were actually 4 single females last night (Wednesday August 31st) at 'The Swing' and not enough single males. " How many couples ? ![]() | |||
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"Thirteen of us over in September and possibly looking to visit " Hopefully I will time that visit well! ![]() | |||
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"Anyone planning a visit tonight??? ![]() I arrive next Tuesday, thinking of going Wednesday night ![]() | |||
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"A cheeky afternoon in _he swing this afternoon,anyone else going?" Hi mate is it open during the day? I’m deciding wether to go today or wait until sat now they are letting single men in | |||
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"Things have changed again..... As we received quite some complaints about the presence of single guys we decided that Saturdays would be for couples only from September onwards. And so we received quite some complaints that there were no single guys ..... Couples left early, single ladies as well and business was bad. No matter what, somebody will be unhappy. We too as in the end 'The Swing' actually IS a business so from now on single guys ARE allowed to visit on both Wednesday and Saturday again. If there are any complaints, please come to see the bar staff immediately and do not send an email the day after!" On balance I think that is the right decision. You will never keep everyone happy. You also have to look at it from the perspective of Benidorm. It's completely different from an inland town where most of the clientele are local. The couples complaining about single guys may not visit Benidorm again for months or even years. Meanwhile you are losing customers because you listened to their demands. The message should be, the club is what it is, take it or leave it. Chopping and changing every time someone has a moan is counter productive. Of course some will leave it but things will settle down. BTW. It's a while since we last visited but from memory most of the clubs on Gran Canary allow single guys. We never read people on here moaning about that. | |||
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"Things have changed again..... As we received quite some complaints about the presence of single guys we decided that Saturdays would be for couples only from September onwards. And so we received quite some complaints that there were no single guys ..... Couples left early, single ladies as well and business was bad. No matter what, somebody will be unhappy. We too as in the end 'The Swing' actually IS a business so from now on single guys ARE allowed to visit on both Wednesday and Saturday again. If there are any complaints, please come to see the bar staff immediately and do not send an email the day after! On balance I think that is the right decision. You will never keep everyone happy. You also have to look at it from the perspective of Benidorm. It's completely different from an inland town where most of the clientele are local. The couples complaining about single guys may not visit Benidorm again for months or even years. Meanwhile you are losing customers because you listened to their demands. The message should be, the club is what it is, take it or leave it. Chopping and changing every time someone has a moan is counter productive. Of course some will leave it but things will settle down. BTW. It's a while since we last visited but from memory most of the clubs on Gran Canary allow single guys. We never read people on here moaning about that." We visited on a Wednesday, just us as a couple and 5 single guys. To be fair they where quite respectful but one did come into the couples only room. Maybe this has to be enforced a bit. As long as there is a couples only facility then it shouldn't matter how many single guys there are. All the best to club swing, it's a nice clean tidy well thought out place with lovely owners | |||
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"Indeed some guys do enter the couples only area. There are 2 solutions: 1. Place a guard there. 2. Come to see the bar staff immediately. That WOULD solve it for sure. Again, it's no use letting us know after closing time! " It was a quiet night and I didn't want to make an issue for you guys as it was just me and my girl in there. We went in for a quiet drink and surprised he came in. Just something to keep in mind | |||
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"Thankyou for the explanation why couples like single guys..The man in the couple no longer can keep a hard on and fully satisfy his wife/partner. He also would like a younger woman but will settle for a guy. " Indeed - imagine frequenting a club where the owners had such a bizarre view of the lifestyle. If this is their understanding of swinging I wouldn’t let them run a bath let alone a club. | |||
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"If the excitement has to come from a single guy..then that is very sad. I know most couples like us prefer couples. You'll end up as a gay club like it was before. Perhaps that's what you want." live and let live ![]() | |||
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"If the excitement has to come from a single guy..then that is very sad. I know most couples like us prefer couples. You'll end up as a gay club like it was before. Perhaps that's what you want." Would it be ok for a couple to involve a straight female ? | |||
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"Sure! And to answer the other remark: No, we won't. Day time is and always has been gay/bi mainly. Night is couples and single men. Today is Wednesday and its quite busy and the atmosphere is very pleasant. It's fun to work here so good news only. All guys got an extra warning, do not enter the couples only area or you're out. No warnings given. We'll see how it goes!" Sorry replied to the wrong person by mistake, of course we think it’s ok for people to do what they enjoy nothing sad about it all. We can’t wait to visit again in December | |||
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"Sure! And to answer the other remark: No, we won't. Day time is and always has been gay/bi mainly. Night is couples and single men. Today is Wednesday and its quite busy and the atmosphere is very pleasant. It's fun to work here so good news only. All guys got an extra warning, do not enter the couples only area or you're out. No warnings given. We'll see how it goes!" Couples only nights normally for us, but never say never…Is the couples only area an area where couples can take themselves off to from the bar or a separate area with a bar? | |||
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"We are out in Benidorm in a few weeks so are likely to go pay a visit. We frequent a fair few clubs in UK and abroad, primarily in PDI. We don't have an issue with single guys being in a club - it takes all sorts and every individual or couple has different wants and needs they are looking for but the biggest no no for us is the persistent single guys who seem take the view they've paid for entry so it therefore entitles them to some "action" and are left with no clear measures to control what they do or where they go - if a club has a couples area only we expect the club to make an effort to stop them going where they shouldn't. Secrets in PDI was previously dreadful a few years back with just a non stop train of single guys in the couples area which was enough to stop us going to it for a few years until they put a guy on the door to stop them. Looking forward to our visit and hoping that there's enough respect and control so we can come and enjoy ourselves ![]() We visited swing in August, all very respectful, although there were only 4 couples 1 single female and about 6 single guys ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yesterday (Saturday 22/10) at day time there were 3 couples and in total 45 people. For this year that's a record. But pre-Covid that was a normal visitor number for September and October. The Swingers night (also yesterday but at night of course) was 0k too, 12 couples and 8 guys. More importantly, the atmosphere was GOOD! " Sounds good. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Any couples like to join us on Saturday,we both shy and want to go with somebody ,first time for us so a bit nervous xx" Absolutely nothing to be nervous about. Go to the door, pay the entrance and go in. Relax at the bar, the people are always friendly, then take the night as it comes. At the end of the night you will wonder, what the hell were we nervous about? | |||
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"We are thinking of going next Sat, what's it like? " It's nice, clean and friendly. Men has to be naked after 11pm, but can wear a towel. Hope to meet you on saturday. | |||
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"We hope to go 25th Feb 23 x" we also hope to be goin 25th feb say hi if you see us x | |||
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"Just noticed on the website that The Swing is free entrance for couples this coming Wednesday and Saturday. Before 10pm though." Will make sure we're in before 10pm. Thankyou for advertising that x | |||
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