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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth

What's the verdict on couples who like playing separately? Can I just go up and ask to borrow your Mr/Mrs? Or are you the type to want to sit in the room?

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Achhh why not

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Minimum rental period of 1 month.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What's the verdict on couples who like playing separately? Can I just go up and ask to borrow your Mr/Mrs? Or are you the type to want to sit in the room?"

We don't meet folk separately but there have been situations like ladies night where he's obv not gonna be there, few situations at cjs where we would but this would only be with people we've built up a trust with

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of cpls have single profiles.

No clue what the etiquette is at clubs tho?

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Alot of cpls have single profiles.

No clue what the etiquette is at clubs tho?"

Think it's the same as anywhere and depends on the people, some folk are into a free for all n some aren't. I dont like folk assuming, gets my back up n unfortunately some woman see themselves as a commodity and think they can just wade in

K

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Thought you were going to ask to rent a dog.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote


"Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches."

Sorry, excuse spelling as multi tasking as always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll sell you my "Air" woman

for £59.95

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"What's the verdict on couples who like playing separately? Can I just go up and ask to borrow your Mr/Mrs? Or are you the type to want to sit in the room?"
I have

with a couple of friends .

Last f*%$ buddy couple put me off a bit tho so will be avoiding unless I know the couple really well and know there wont be any issues

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

We had a party at ours a few months ago where there were people fucking all over the house and went upstairs and Holly was being fucked by one guy whilst sucking another guy off and wanking another.

I sat down and watched for a bit then went downstairs and had fun with another Woman.

It's all down to when and where I guess ?

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches."

Blindfolded you say

John

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

As with most things, I think it'll be down to each individual couple's rules. My hubby and I swing separately and we deal with our own arrangements, nobody has to ask us to 'borrow' the other. Occasionally he gets asked about me being involved, to which the asker is normally ignored or blocked, since his (single guy) profile states not to bother asking about me.

He has a ladyfriend and she did want to hear from me that I was ok with the situation, for her own peace of mind, but no actual asking for permission. I think that would be weird. I'm his wife, not his owner. I don't watch them or anything, it's their relationship, I stay out of the bedroom area.

We might eventually watch each other with someone if I decide I'm up for that, but it's not a priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do after we meet folk etc say in a social or cjs and built up a trust thing . Rare it can be tho . But have done it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is single but I married with permision to bo so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can just take him, long as you send him back with free food for me to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can just take him, long as you send him back with free food for me to have "
l. O. L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of those options

I’m a person, not an object. I can’t be ‘borrowed’ and I find it bloody weird that people would even ask my husband for ‘permission’

I’m a person. So talk to me.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches."

I throw my hat in the ring for being g blindfolded and used by you bluebell

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"We had a party at ours a few months ago where there were people fucking all over the house and went upstairs and Holly was being fucked by one guy whilst sucking another guy off and wanking another.

I sat down and watched for a bit then went downstairs and had fun with another Woman.

It's all down to when and where I guess ? "

That sounds an amazing night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an interesting dynamic for me. "Borrowing" someone's partner and then sending them back is a definite turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's an interesting dynamic for me. "Borrowing" someone's partner and then sending them back is a definite turn on. "

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Someone pleaseeee take mine ... I will even throw in a cpl toilet roll and a bag of pasta !

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby


"Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches.

I throw my hat in the ring for being g blindfolded and used by you bluebell"

You better have a strong arm cos the back of the queue is at Dundee.

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Borrow him?

Men are human beings. We aren’t sex objects that you can use and dispose of as and when you want to satisfy your own gratification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the term “ borrow “ is used losely . Eye roll

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By *inkysallyjackCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I wouldn’t mind having the mr go off with a finer woman but I don’t think the hubby would like it if the roles were reversed. He doesn’t mind ladies taking me away but not guys yet. Hoping to build upto that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t mind having the mr go off with a finer woman but I don’t think the hubby would like it if the roles were reversed. He doesn’t mind ladies taking me away but not guys yet. Hoping to build upto that."

I will take you away

Claire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone pleaseeee take mine ... I will even throw in a cpl toilet roll and a bag of pasta ! "

No way, I'd end up in lockdown with him, but feel free to collect mine

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"What's the verdict on couples who like playing separately? Can I just go up and ask to borrow your Mr/Mrs? Or are you the type to want to sit in the room?"

I’m sure you’d have no problem borrowing people

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth

This is always interested tbh, I personally wouldn't just walk up to a couple and say can I borrow your partner, but I've received maybe a hundred messages that say this exact thing. I think in a club scenario it would be incredibly hot, but I find it seedy online

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This is always interested tbh, I personally wouldn't just walk up to a couple and say can I borrow your partner, but I've received maybe a hundred messages that say this exact thing. I think in a club scenario it would be incredibly hot, but I find it seedy online "

People do it a lot when they only find one half of a couple attractive and someone isn't taking one for the team

John

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"This is always interested tbh, I personally wouldn't just walk up to a couple and say can I borrow your partner, but I've received maybe a hundred messages that say this exact thing. I think in a club scenario it would be incredibly hot, but I find it seedy online

People do it a lot when they only find one half of a couple attractive and someone isn't taking one for the team

John "

Or the other way. I was with someone at Cjs once and a couple approached us... and tried to borrow us both... but only I was interested. I was given permission to pop away for a while though...

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"This is always interested tbh, I personally wouldn't just walk up to a couple and say can I borrow your partner, but I've received maybe a hundred messages that say this exact thing. I think in a club scenario it would be incredibly hot, but I find it seedy online

People do it a lot when they only find one half of a couple attractive and someone isn't taking one for the team

John "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t really see anyone wanting to borrow me, but if someone or a couple wanted to play with L alone, I’d totally understand (because who wouldn’t want to play with her?) and if she wanted to, that would be fine with me.

–G

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

If people ask to either play or for me to ‘work’ on them and do kink stuff at cjs, I’ll always show Ian who I’m going upstairs with so he knows their face.

Same vice versa so that lines of communication & honesty always open.

If there was someone either of us had concerns about, then it wouldn’t go ahead.

Millie x

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By *ine of BootyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/ Manchester

We admire couples that do this successfully and remain together, the levels of trust are near superhuman. It’s never something we will try but if they do it and enjoy it, all the better for them

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