FabSwingers.com forum: Straight to Bi

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

How many of you when you first joined the site were straight but are now bi or bi curious ?

would you ever have believed you would eventually turn bi ?

And how surprised were you when you did ?

Do you believe you are bisexual in nature or bisexual by liefstyle choice ?

Just wondering because being here a few years now ive noticed many profiles changing from straight to bi or bi curious

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Although having bisexual tendencies for a lot of my adult years, I originally had bi curious on my profile, mostly because I was inexperienced, but really love the female figure and knew I was attracted to women.

Since joining fabs, Ive some bi experiences and have changed the wording to state Bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you when you first joined the site were straight but are now bi or bi curious ?

would you ever have believed you would eventually turn bi ?

And how surprised were you when you did ?

Do you believe you are bisexual in nature or bisexual by liefstyle choice ?

Just wondering because being here a few years now ive noticed many profiles changing from straight to bi or bi curious "

when i joined a other site a few years back all i wanted to play with was the lady;s,but as i played with couples i found that most wifes wanted there man or u to suck cock as she watched,the first time a woman asked me to suck her hubbys cock i was annoyed and very surpised,but as i slowly started to suck i found my own cock getting very hard a major turn on,after that no longer afraid of men near me ,during the fun ,and a moresome for the ladys is very hot and wet,mmm,but am still only oraly bi,mans ass a step to far for me,but u never know,xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Although having bisexual tendencies for a lot of my adult years, I originally had bi curious on my profile, mostly because I was inexperienced, but really love the female figure and knew I was attracted to women.

Since joining fabs, Ive some bi experiences and have changed the wording to state Bisexual.

Lol that sounds just like me really

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Since joining fabs, Ive some bi experiences and have changed the wording to state Bisexual.

Similar to me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's almost the opposite from bi to straight. There are a few women out there who want to turn me straight, lol

Time will tell if they succeed.... lol

(somehow I don't think they will!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I allways was attracted to women since i was very young.

An had my first experiance with a girl before any man. ( when i was a teenager)

soo I know for sure I am def Bi. lol.

And a days.its more women than men.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"For me, it's almost the opposite from bi to straight. There are a few women out there who want to turn me straight, lol

Time will tell if they succeed.... lol

(somehow I don't think they will!)

yeah well on the flip side i have noticed one or two who were on as bisexual and are now straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew I was bi from a teenager.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had fun withfew different woman to be honest not really my thing in the end i did come on here as bi sexual in my other name dont think i would have fun with woman again to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined wanting to meet a MF couple, this was very much top of my to do list, so had bi-curious on my profile, having done this...I know I am straight, I love men!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I joined wanting to meet a MF couple, this was very much top of my to do list, so had bi-curious on my profile, having done this...I know I am straight, I love men! "

Kinda know where your coming from altho im Bisexual and love women my preferance is definaltey men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I am not adverse to females in my presence whilst playing, I would not seek a FF meet. Give me a man every time, but cool we are all different as would be very boring otherwise! lol.

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By *__KMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

When I joined here 2 years ago, I considered myself bisexual. Until a couple of months ago, that remained the case. Things have changed, life isn't simple. A lot of harassment from single males thinking that just 'cause I put bisexual on my profile meant they could just jump into bed with me, and I just don't work that way. So I label myself on here as straight so I don't get guys on here being desperate to get with me. (also I find a double standard of single women who would go with bi women and straight men, but not bi men distasteful and slightly offensive)

I'd like to recognise myself as bi-curious, only because I am not adverse to playing with a guy as part of a couple. I can't see myself in a relationship with another guy, and for me that's the defining part of being truly bisexual.

Even then, the lines aren't exactly clear, hetro/bi/homosexual seem to only apply for those who find attractiveness to those who fall in a strict gender binary, where I find those attractive who don't neatly fall under male/female.

So really, I'd label myself now as pan-curious, where I entered the scene convinced I was bisexual. Does that make any sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a brilliant question.

I, male half, have always been straight. Never questioned myself sexually until the mrs asked me to play with a guy years ago. She set a mmf up with a bi guy and about an hour before the meet I sat her down and explained that I honestly was not up for it at all. We still had the mmf, but she failed to tell him there was no man on man hot sauce and i spent about two hours flicking his hands away lol

She's never asked for it again. We started swinging because she wanted to experience girls, as she had always found them attractive and then once she had we started to include guys as I was her first and up till then only male sexual partner. Personally I don't really believe in the saying 'youl never know unless you try' as I think we all know deep down what we are attracted to and what sexual desires make us tick x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to think of myself as bi-playful or bi-sensual... I much prefer cock but I love womens boobies and have discovered I like pussies too! that said, I'd not want to play with women in a FF sense.. but threesomes or couples where fem wants to touch and play too I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to think of myself as bi-playful or bi-sensual... I much prefer cock but I love womens boobies and have discovered I like pussies too! that said, I'd not want to play with women in a FF sense.. but threesomes or couples where fem wants to touch and play too I will

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couldnt have put it better myself lol. All of the above for me also.xx auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always thought i might be at least bi-curious but having been on here for a month or two and being allowed to be honest and explore, I would probably say I'm one the 90% of people who are 90% straight.

I really like TV's but don't find men attractive. It must be a kink.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

i (bunk) was straight before i started swinging, still straight and will always be straight...not in the least bit curious, never have, still not and never will....oh did i mention i'm straight....lmao

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

some females have said that they "want" me

but sorry to say I love men..any shape, size,colour or creed I love you all

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"When I joined here 2 years ago, I considered myself bisexual. Until a couple of months ago, that remained the case. Things have changed, life isn't simple. A lot of harassment from single males thinking that just 'cause I put bisexual on my profile meant they could just jump into bed with me, and I just don't work that way. So I label myself on here as straight so I don't get guys on here being desperate to get with me. (also I find a double standard of single women who would go with bi women and straight men, but not bi men distasteful and slightly offensive)

So really, I'd label myself now as pan-curious, where I entered the scene convinced I was bisexual. Does that make any sense?"

I did notice you had changed from 'Bi-sexual' to 'Straight' i remember when you frist joined with your fiance and it said B-sexual. Whatever work's for you is most important.

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By *anbrCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

would never have said I was anything other than straight but one of Caz's fantasies was to see me sucking cock. She plied me with vodka then arranged a bi guy to visit us and I found that I thoroughly enjoyed it! have done it again without drink and still find it fun! But it isnt important to me so can do without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do we need to pigeonhole ourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have loved playing with women since my late teens and although not a constant in my life its something that i enjoy coming back to, but as much as i love women i just love men more.

jamie is 100% straight and it has more chance of santa turning up in july than him being bi or even bi curious lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"why do we need to pigeonhole ourself

No one said we do but it does help people making a decision if they want to meet you or not .

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I like being with a woman but also like the male sex i never ever push my bi side ive had mmf where the guys have also played together and fmf meetings also been with females at parties but as i allways say i like the best of both world

. Greedy sod thats me

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By *__KMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"why do we need to pigeonhole ourself

No one said we do but it does help people making a decision if they want to meet you or not ."

I'd rather not pigeonhole myself. The choices given on the site don't really cover me even if there was a hole to put my pigeon in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do we need to pigeonhole ourself

No one said we do but it does help people making a decision if they want to meet you or not .

I'd rather not pigeonhole myself. The choices given on the site don't really cover me even if there was a hole to put my pigeon in."
. pigeons??? that's a whole other kink lol

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

As was said on a previous thread there are degrees of bi-ness and straightness. We all gotta respect each others views. But I do think many str8 guys are no as str8 as they plead. Me - i like best me all worlds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I allways was attracted to women since i was very young.

An had my first experiance with a girl before any man. ( when i was a teenager)

soo I know for sure I am def Bi. lol.

And a days.its more women than men.

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was bi before I joined the site. For me it's a lifestyle choice and purely sexual as I wouldn't have a 'normal' relationship with a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My penarth worth. My male alter ego is bi-playful - that is to say his preference is females but is not averse to mm foreplay in a mixed mf 3some or group setting. He would need a lot of persuasion to meet another guy 121. Me however will meet and has met guys, girls, couples and trans. For me I see Cara as a different persona from my male alter ego - and she is very much bisexual. I know its a difficult concept for many to understand and sometimes I myself am confused.com. As Abi has said its a lifestyle choice. Hope this makes sense. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched too much porn and after a while found myself envying the ladies when sucking, as much as the guys.

Had a wonderful meet with CaNBr last year? Pretty sure I was a meet had without vodka, though.

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