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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So out of curiosity what's people's biggest turn offs and turn ons when they meet someone or see someone's pics for the first time

I'm a sucker for blue eyes dimples and broad shoulders, I like photos where things are left to the imagination and at most I get a silhouette

Biggest turn off has to be tombstone teeth and dirty finger nails, graphic images and dirty backgrounds.

I'm always surprised when women have really bad teeth especially if they wear alot of make up, like when you're applying your lippy do you not think nice teeth will set it off, and why don't folk use image crop if they've inadvertantly caught the dirty washing in the background

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On....Eyes, smile/teeth. Turn offs, smoking/vaping, not understanding sarcasm

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Not a turn on soto speak, but I like seeing pics of well-dressed women.

However a big turn-off for me is the stereotypical sexy outfits of nurse, school girl, etc...

Mandy

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Teeth, smell and hands - can be turn on or off.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Meeting a person, foul language.

Pic, messy backgrounds

Sex, socks ..boak

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By *ilf n filfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

To much make up !

Pouting??

Orange faces

And bad breath

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Turn ons...

Confidence, ability to laugh, sexy smile, curves

Turn offs...

Smelly, unwashed, rude, inability to hold a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 14/03/20 02:49:12]"

Aw thought you might have added a bit more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh the constant updates from profiles every few hours lol

Looking for this looking for that and then when they realise no one is interested they start the pity party comments or start sagging off other people and getting I to folks business lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh the constant updates from profiles every few hours lol

Looking for this looking for that and then when they realise no one is interested they start the pity party comments or start sagging off other people and getting I to folks business lol "

Meant to say major turn off lol just get out there and mingle

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By *otyouraverageguy...Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Oh the constant updates from profiles every few hours lol

Looking for this looking for that and then when they realise no one is interested they start the pity party comments or start sagging off other people and getting I to folks business lol "

Same people are probably all over Facebooking saying "be kind"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh the constant updates from profiles every few hours lol

Looking for this looking for that and then when they realise no one is interested they start the pity party comments or start sagging off other people and getting I to folks business lol

Same people are probably all over Facebooking saying "be kind" "

That actually pissed me off last month tbh, was the same ones who every other week are sharing all the nasty posts and videos of folks misfortune

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By *cotsbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh


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That actually pissed me off last month tbh, was the same ones who every other week are sharing all the nasty posts and videos of folks misfortune "

Yeah, it’s a narcissist thing. They don’t ever apply their standards to their own behavior because in their mind, they’re a special case!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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That actually pissed me off last month tbh, was the same ones who every other week are sharing all the nasty posts and videos of folks misfortune

Yeah, it’s a narcissist thing. They don’t ever apply their standards to their own behavior because in their mind, they’re a special case!

"

How are you guys, you in lockdown?

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By *iss_b_heavenCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh-ish

Tombstone teeth?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent ordinary people do it for me

Brash crass ones, not so much

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Bugbear for me is the use of snapchat filters on pics. Why? Cause you’re hiding something? Same with ott makeup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get folk commenting on teeth but a major turn off for me are blinding, white, bleached teeth...maybe more common among the instagram generation than older folks maybe.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Bugbear for me is the use of snapchat filters on pics. Why? Cause you’re hiding something? Same with ott makeup. "

Same don’t see the point in the snapchat filters but think it looks even worse when it’s a guy using them

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"So out of curiosity what's people's biggest turn offs and turn ons when they meet someone or see someone's pics for the first time

I'm a sucker for blue eyes dimples and broad shoulders, I like photos where things are left to the imagination and at most I get a silhouette

Biggest turn off has to be tombstone teeth and dirty finger nails, graphic images and dirty backgrounds.

I'm always surprised when women have really bad teeth especially if they wear alot of make up, like when you're applying your lippy do you not think nice teeth will set it off, and why don't folk use image crop if they've inadvertantly caught the dirty washing in the background "

All of the above turn off

Good hot kissing turns on my blue eyes and broad shoulders

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"So out of curiosity what's people's biggest turn offs and turn ons when they meet someone or see someone's pics for the first time

I'm a sucker for blue eyes dimples and broad shoulders, I like photos where things are left to the imagination and at most I get a silhouette

Biggest turn off has to be tombstone teeth and dirty finger nails, graphic images and dirty backgrounds.

I'm always surprised when women have really bad teeth especially if they wear alot of make up, like when you're applying your lippy do you not think nice teeth will set it off, and why don't folk use image crop if they've inadvertantly caught the dirty washing in the background

All of the above turn off

Good hot kissing turns on my blue eyes and broad shoulders "

Smoooooooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In pics.. Classy and suited get my attention.

The rest all just blur together

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By *pecificman99Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Turn ons- intelligence, witty banter , manners .

Turn offs - arrogance , ignorance materialism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour , nice eyes,cheeky smile & nice Thighs!!! all def turn ons

Arrogance , egonistic,..def turn offs

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Turn ons:Guys who dont take life too serious, senese of humour,sexy smiles,broad shoulders,rugby thighs,sexy eyes

Turn offs:Arrogance & guys who cant just be honest with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tombstone teeth?!"

A nicer polite way of saying folks who don't look after their teeth so much so they are rotten and stubby, I just keep. Thinking if someone can't clean their teeth which is one of the first things we see, what's the rest of their personal hygiene like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So out of curiosity what's people's biggest turn offs and turn ons when they meet someone or see someone's pics for the first time

I'm a sucker for blue eyes dimples and broad shoulders, I like photos where things are left to the imagination and at most I get a silhouette

Biggest turn off has to be tombstone teeth and dirty finger nails, graphic images and dirty backgrounds.

I'm always surprised when women have really bad teeth especially if they wear alot of make up, like when you're applying your lippy do you not think nice teeth will set it off, and why don't folk use image crop if they've inadvertantly caught the dirty washing in the background

All of the above turn off

Good hot kissing turns on my blue eyes and broad shoulders "

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So out of curiosity what's people's biggest turn offs and turn ons when they meet someone or see someone's pics for the first time

I'm a sucker for blue eyes dimples and broad shoulders, I like photos where things are left to the imagination and at most I get a silhouette

Biggest turn off has to be tombstone teeth and dirty finger nails, graphic images and dirty backgrounds.

I'm always surprised when women have really bad teeth especially if they wear alot of make up, like when you're applying your lippy do you not think nice teeth will set it off, and why don't folk use image crop if they've inadvertantly caught the dirty washing in the background

All of the above turn off

Good hot kissing turns on my blue eyes and broad shoulders

"

Sucka. Not bitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teeth and smile is a massive attraction. Nice footwear. Bit random

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha can't help it baby blues are my kryptonite

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Love a tall man with a deep voice and hairy legs.

Dislike bad manners, and folk who swear too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm turned on by touches of mystery, class and good taste, especially when I notice a message from a girl with these qualities

A lot of things make me disinterested way before they get a chance to become turn offs. Manky photos, opinionated blethering, and blatant attention seeking, for example.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hahaha can't help it baby blues are my kryptonite "

You really need to pay more attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm turned on by touches of mystery, class and good taste, especially when I notice a message from a girl with these qualities

A lot of things make me disinterested way before they get a chance to become turn offs. Manky photos, opinionated blethering, and blatant attention seeking, for example. "

Damn that's me. Out the window lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hahaha can't help it baby blues are my kryptonite

You really need to pay more attention "

Right that's gone right over my head

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No conversational skills

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Oh, can I add text speak please lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love classy pictures with something left to the imagination, smelling great and a bit of personality. Theres no bigger turn off than someone with no manners.

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I love classy pictures with something left to the imagination, smelling great and a bit of personality. Theres no bigger turn off than someone with no manners."

Exactly

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Love a tall man with a deep voice and hairy legs.

Dislike bad manners, and folk who swear too much."

6ft 1 hairy muscley legs and such a deep voice i have

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

Turn ons are numerous but Welsh women and people in speedos/swimwear/gym gear are high on the list.

Turn offs bigotry, rudeness, and pushy behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6ft 1 hairy muscley legs and such a deep voice i have "

Also, a touch of the Yoda about you. Chicks dig that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn ons: military men, rugby thighs, sexy eyes, cheeky smiles, intelligence, good style, well read, wit, creativity, pilots, emotional intelligence.

Turn offs: usual gross physical ones, liars & fuckboys, sleazy seduction, negative attitudes, shit aesthetics, one track fetishists, those that will fuck anyone

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By *exmadcouple42Couple
over a year ago

Home

Turn offs, space invaders, lack of personal hygiene, people with jealousy issues, drama/gossipers.

Turn ons, smiley happy people, sense of humour, nice teeth, those who make effort with appearance, people who look after themselves. Sexy bums (both men and woman), nice hands, those with good chat and banter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on a really curvaceous woman.

I love curves on a woman. I love slow kissing it's a turn on with the right person. I love giving oral to. So much turns me on. Different with each. Turn off is fucking behind my back and trying to hide it. Just tell me and save the pain from getting it from some ass hole that fucked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on’s

Intelligence, humour, knowing eyes

Turn offs

Small mindedness, bullies, crudity

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By *ove the KinkMan
over a year ago

Lothians

when your cock cant touch the sides cause she has been used that much huge turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the mobile to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when your cock cant touch the sides cause she has been used that much huge turn off! "

Have you ever considered that maybe it’s your cock that’s inadequate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when your cock cant touch the sides cause you've got a needle dick! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say they want to meet but don't

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By *ockedandloaded888Man
over a year ago

ayr

Being outside the age range of a hot person.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Men who constantly moan & not in a good way

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By *ockedandloaded888Man
over a year ago

ayr


"Men who constantly moan & not in a good way "

Lol. Same thing could be said about some women.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Men who constantly moan & not in a good way

Lol. Same thing could be said about some women. "
Totally agree lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

negative nancies and the dull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off

Orange marches post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is a massive turn on for me (mr)

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