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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? " We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf " not for £20 | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf not for £20 " Can I ask you what price you paid the last time, if ever, you attended a club as a single male? I’m guessing either the same price as a couple or more. Same rules apply here my friend. But if you don’t want to pay the price, then by all means don’t go. | |||
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"Personally I don't agree with charging double to single guys for a social, just do the same as everyone else does and take PayPal payments to cover the costs beforehand so you're not left out of pocket, at the very least offer them. £10 if they actually show up " *£10 back | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf not for £20 Can I ask you what price you paid the last time, if ever, you attended a club as a single male? I’m guessing either the same price as a couple or more. Same rules apply here my friend. But if you don’t want to pay the price, then by all means don’t go. " I dont attend clubs for the price yer asking is shocking. Even a normal night club don't charge that much | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf not for £20 Can I ask you what price you paid the last time, if ever, you attended a club as a single male? I’m guessing either the same price as a couple or more. Same rules apply here my friend. But if you don’t want to pay the price, then by all means don’t go. I dont attend clubs for the price yer asking is shocking. Even a normal night club don't charge that much" So don’t go. It’s your choice. | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf not for £20 Can I ask you what price you paid the last time, if ever, you attended a club as a single male? I’m guessing either the same price as a couple or more. Same rules apply here my friend. But if you don’t want to pay the price, then by all means don’t go. I dont attend clubs for the price yer asking is shocking. Even a normal night club don't charge that much So don’t go. It’s your choice. " yeh it's my choice as your ripping us off | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf not for £20 Can I ask you what price you paid the last time, if ever, you attended a club as a single male? I’m guessing either the same price as a couple or more. Same rules apply here my friend. But if you don’t want to pay the price, then by all means don’t go. I dont attend clubs for the price yer asking is shocking. Even a normal night club don't charge that much So don’t go. It’s your choice. yeh it's my choice as your ripping us off " If you feel like that, why don’t you take the time out of your busy life to find a suitable venue, door and bar staff, get a DJ, create a buffet and promote your own night. I’m sure you’ll find out just why Milf n Filth need to charge the prices they do. Oh, and let’s not mention the no shows and what that does to the overall cost of the night. But that’s called ‘ripping’ people off! Enough said on this. | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf not for £20 Can I ask you what price you paid the last time, if ever, you attended a club as a single male? I’m guessing either the same price as a couple or more. Same rules apply here my friend. But if you don’t want to pay the price, then by all means don’t go. I dont attend clubs for the price yer asking is shocking. Even a normal night club don't charge that much So don’t go. It’s your choice. yeh it's my choice as your ripping us off If you feel like that, why don’t you take the time out of your busy life to find a suitable venue, door and bar staff, get a DJ, create a buffet and promote your own night. I’m sure you’ll find out just why Milf n Filth need to charge the prices they do. Oh, and let’s not mention the no shows and what that does to the overall cost of the night. But that’s called ‘ripping’ people off! Enough said on this. " I use to host an I found a number of venues that were for free. Which includes dj door staff the use off a hall. I didn't charge any one for an entry. If I did they would of got it back | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf not for £20 Can I ask you what price you paid the last time, if ever, you attended a club as a single male? I’m guessing either the same price as a couple or more. Same rules apply here my friend. But if you don’t want to pay the price, then by all means don’t go. I dont attend clubs for the price yer asking is shocking. Even a normal night club don't charge that much So don’t go. It’s your choice. yeh it's my choice as your ripping us off If you feel like that, why don’t you take the time out of your busy life to find a suitable venue, door and bar staff, get a DJ, create a buffet and promote your own night. I’m sure you’ll find out just why Milf n Filth need to charge the prices they do. Oh, and let’s not mention the no shows and what that does to the overall cost of the night. But that’s called ‘ripping’ people off! Enough said on this. " I actually agree with everything you have said here but to solve your problem you don't double the price of attendance for the people ie single guys who do support your events and actually turn up your actually punishing guys because other guys don't turn up. You should charge your fees up front and then if they don't turn up you still have your running costs covered regardless of attendance or not. | |||
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"How much for a bi male couple? *stir, stir* " | |||
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"When's the cut off for applying guys, I want to come with some friends but I want to see what happens wi this flu stuff first ????" He is coming with us if all is well at the time | |||
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"Don’t think it’s fair charging guys double price .... we should be equal and payments should be made upfront so you are still covering cost of venue etc x" exactly | |||
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" As for the coronavirus we are going ahead until Advised otherwise" I don't think there will be a government mandate concerning swingers socials | |||
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"So if the said single males turn up are the refunded £10 ? Keeps it even? " You won't be refunded £10 as you dont pay upfront, you simply turn up and be charged twice as much as everyone else. That's where the folly is, you doubled the price as only half the guys turned up. Even just charge the single guys upfront negates your argument of only half turning up. You may find even less guys turn up now, screwing up your overheads even more. | |||
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"Jeso people! Pay the money and go, or don’t...end of! " Well said, can we just drop this subject now! | |||
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"I don't understand folk are complaining about money for a great social and atmosphere, as prices have increased its, not the end of the world, but guys have no problem paying more money to go into a club " I’ve never paid to go to a club and ALL the socials I been to over the years have charged exactly the same, the money has been paid up front and any profit has gone to charity So no, not all men will pay double to go to a club or social. | |||
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"Tbh I don't see the point of people harking on about paying double its a small price to pay for an amazing social , company and amazing atmosphere. It's simple you pay and turn up or you don't " I’m not - merely stating facts. I couldn’t care less to be honest. If people want to pay then pay. But when people ask questions it’s up to the organizers to answer those questions. Not for everyone else to rip into them and moan. The organizers have explained they had let downs and no shows. That’s what happens with EVERY event. That’s why advance payments are a good idea as costs are covered before the event. So stop bitching at people asking questions or stating facts, get down off your high unicorns and untwist your knickers. If YOU want to go and are happy to pay - GO. | |||
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"Anytime I’ve organised a social I’ve taken a deposit to cover costs regardless of people turning up or not. The deposit is usually given back or they receive a drink. We even do this for my work Christmas event even though the company pays for the dinner and a couple of drinks. It ensures a better turnout. We donate the deposits to charity as we usually raise about £2000. " I totally agree deposits are the way to go here and you get a drink when you arrive Also the location of a social should not be announced as we aren’t all ‘out’ to all our family, friends and employers .........in my opinion discretion is the way to go Those who aren’t fab members can read what is put on fab unless you are careful with your settings So these aren’t events we will be attending if you are comfortable then go we just aren’t | |||
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"The sun paper managed to get comments from post about corona virus so stating where venues are at will put alot of people off, keep list of people and private message location day before or on kik chat group. Its also prevents trouble makers leaking the location, last thing anyone wants is the papers turning up ruining the party. And swingers faces plastered over the front cover of news " Well yes remember what happened to the shoebox So it was a bit naïve to post the location on the organisers status on the day When I messaged them about this I got blocked and removed from the kik group I was only trying to help as we know that things can happen But I’m sure they will take on board the feedback that’s been given to tweak how they run the socials in future It’s good for Edinburgh to have some events x | |||
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"How much would it cost this TV Sissy to get in? X" £10 for a tv | |||
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"Is there and age limit for the social, I would very much like to go and meet new people and dip my toe into the water" This post is a year old we are still in lockdown | |||
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"Is there and age limit for the social, I would very much like to go and meet new people and dip my toe into the waterThis post is a year old we are still in lockdown " Yes I know but I was told that it was only delayed, not cancelled so I was curious | |||
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"Is there and age limit for the social, I would very much like to go and meet new people and dip my toe into the waterThis post is a year old we are still in lockdown Yes I know but I was told that it was only delayed, not cancelled so I was curious " Just need to wait and see once things begin to open up again | |||
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"Is there and age limit for the social, I would very much like to go and meet new people and dip my toe into the waterThis post is a year old we are still in lockdown Yes I know but I was told that it was only delayed, not cancelled so I was curious Just need to wait and see once things begin to open up again " yes very true | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf not for £20 Can I ask you what price you paid the last time, if ever, you attended a club as a single male? I’m guessing either the same price as a couple or more. Same rules apply here my friend. But if you don’t want to pay the price, then by all means don’t go. " The whole point about socials is they are not clubs...indeed many are free or very minimal cost ...I know some exclude single guys..but most dont and most certainly don't charge them extra. I've organised socials and managed the guest list to ensure a good .ix and had some great venues and events. It's about creating a good atmosphere and stopping the stereotyping of single guys. I've been to couples only events as well and the atmosphere is a lot more sociable with single guys and girls as well as couples. | |||
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"Is there and age limit for the social, I would very much like to go and meet new people and dip my toe into the waterThis post is a year old we are still in lockdown " Ah Jesus, didn't notice that | |||
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"Jeso, you would think that after lockdown and practically zero events for anyone, folk would be buzzing for a night out! £20 is not a massive price, cmon now boys lol" It's the principle.. not the money ...and for me what socials can be in avoiding all the negative aspects of fab | |||
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"Why are single guys kicking off about the price Just pay or don’t pay The reason why there is a limit and a high price is to limit the number of guys standing there making couples and single girls feel uncomfortable If you paid let’s say for argument sake, £5 and you walked in the venue and see 60 single guys and 4 couples and a few single girls, you will be the first to jump on the forum and say this was terrible. If you don’t like it post your own social haha " I do..price doesnt control numbers of attendees.. ha ha | |||
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"Why are single guys kicking off about the price Just pay or don’t pay The reason why there is a limit and a high price is to limit the number of guys standing there making couples and single girls feel uncomfortable If you paid let’s say for argument sake, £5 and you walked in the venue and see 60 single guys and 4 couples and a few single girls, you will be the first to jump on the forum and say this was terrible. If you don’t like it post your own social haha " The limit yes I agree, the higher price , your argument is nonsense. Charge up front and set your numbers , job done. As for if we don't like it , then it's simple I won't go. But food for thought, if a guy is willing to pay anything to attend an event then that tells me he has no self worth , may as well charge £50 per single guy and let everyone else go free. | |||
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"Clubs in GC charge singles more No issue with the concept Sorry can’t make the 4th but hope you all have a ball " This is an old thread. | |||
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"Clubs in GC charge singles more No issue with the concept Sorry can’t make the 4th but hope you all have a ball This is an old thread." LOL couldn’t make the old one either Kids birthday Might struggle next year too | |||
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"Why are single guys kicking off about the price Just pay or don’t pay The reason why there is a limit and a high price is to limit the number of guys standing there making couples and single girls feel uncomfortable If you paid let’s say for argument sake, £5 and you walked in the venue and see 60 single guys and 4 couples and a few single girls, you will be the first to jump on the forum and say this was terrible. If you don’t like it post your own social haha The limit yes I agree, the higher price , your argument is nonsense. Charge up front and set your numbers , job done. As for if we don't like it , then it's simple I won't go. But food for thought, if a guy is willing to pay anything to attend an event then that tells me he has no self worth , may as well charge £50 per single guy and let everyone else go free. " Now that is a great idea - I'll happily go for free | |||
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"Clubs in GC charge singles more No issue with the concept Sorry can’t make the 4th but hope you all have a ball " Clubs are very different to a simple social night. The charge for a social in my opinion should be the same price per person | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf " so take the money before the social if you ain't paid you ain't going | |||
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"Why are single guys kicking off about the price Just pay or don’t pay The reason why there is a limit and a high price is to limit the number of guys standing there making couples and single girls feel uncomfortable If you paid let’s say for argument sake, £5 and you walked in the venue and see 60 single guys and 4 couples and a few single girls, you will be the first to jump on the forum and say this was terrible. If you don’t like it post your own social haha " what utter nonsense you walk in and see 60 people do you think saying that nonsense making couples and single girls uncomfortable will curry favour believe me it doesn't it just spotlights you like a deer in the crosshairs | |||
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"Can I ask why single guys need to pay twice as much as everyone else. ? Do they eat more food off the buffet or something. ? We got absolutely snowed under with single guys requesting to come to our socials and half of them didn’t turn up. This is a private venue with its own bar dancefloor DJ ,buffet and a free glass of champagne on arrival. Milf n Filf so take the money before the social if you ain't paid you ain't going" This is what we do... We don't limit anyone, we take a mixed ratio and once spaces are gone they gone, of you pay and don't turn up that's up to you | |||
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"Clubs in GC charge singles more No issue with the concept Sorry can’t make the 4th but hope you all have a ball Clubs are very different to a simple social night. The charge for a social in my opinion should be the same price per person " I have a couples profile with a lady friend and we organise some great socials in smart venues..I find that as long as we guarantee numbers (I put a deposit down) we dont have to pay..and whilst its hard work managing the guest list..its been very popular ...its free for everyone...and a great vibe... | |||
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"Clubs in GC charge singles more No issue with the concept Sorry can’t make the 4th but hope you all have a ball Clubs are very different to a simple social night. The charge for a social in my opinion should be the same price per person I have a couples profile with a lady friend and we organise some great socials in smart venues..I find that as long as we guarantee numbers (I put a deposit down) we dont have to pay..and whilst its hard work managing the guest list..its been very popular ...its free for everyone...and a great vibe..." Could you kindly share the name of your couples social profile so I can add it to my hotlist please | |||
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"So £20 for a single guy £10 for a TS. I am in . Can any of you girls lend me a dress " No need to dress up. It’s 2021 in the SNP run Scotland. Simply say you identify as a female and pay the female rates. You’ll also have two choice of toilet facilities to choose from | |||
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"Wtf has that Got to do with the SNP? Every post now? " Get him telt. There’s no need!!!! | |||
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"Wtf has that Got to do with the SNP? Every post now? " They introduced the bill here in Scotland | |||
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"Wtf has that Got to do with the SNP? Every post now? They introduced the bill here in Scotland " | |||
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"And? " Aaaaaand the gentleman above who was asking for a loan of a dress would be well within his rights to indentify as a female without dressing up thus meaning he would only have to pay the female rate at clubs and events in future | |||
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