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"For a black guy I have been wth more white woman then black woman. So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock" I’m not sure that’s the case. It’s probably down to the higher percentage of white women here than black women | |||
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"For a black guy I have been wth more white woman then black woman. So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock" That's probably because there are more white women than black women across the UK that's why you have been with more white women. Bit of a sweeping statement saying white women love black cock more than white cock, do you have stats to back that up or just a bit of dillusional wishful thinking.  | |||
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"For a black guy I have been wth more white woman then black woman. So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock" I don't. Had a couple of disappointing encounters with black men. | |||
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"Just throwing this out there...and got my tin hat at the ready...but is this not the place to explore fantasies and fetishes? Or do you think it has bigger implications for how a particular race can be viewed?" Absolutely, this is a sex site. I'm sure there are other forums philosophy and morality. | |||
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"Not that this question is for mei am still putting my wee input. As a black woman it's rare to find a black guy who doesn't reduce him self to being a racial fetish (mainly on fabswingers.com). I do have a soft spot for Black men who handle themselves as decent respect gentlemen. It's odd to me and off putting the whole BBC and Ace of Spades culture. I am not against interracial interactions or having personal preferences but when the only requirement is ONLY a particular race ... " Your thoughts are appreciated and welcomed, it is a discussion after all, and although I'm passionate about equalities I'm keenly aware of my ignorance and privilege. Thank you for your insight. | |||
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"For a black guy I have been wth more white woman then black woman. So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock" Plenty of women on this site state that they're only interested in white guys. Shame really because they're usually hot! | |||
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"Not that this question is for mei am still putting my wee input. As a black woman it's rare to find a black guy who doesn't reduce him self to being a racial fetish (mainly on fabswingers.com). I do have a soft spot for Black men who handle themselves as decent respect gentlemen. It's odd to me and off putting the whole BBC and Ace of Spades culture. I am not against interracial interactions or having personal preferences but when the only requirement is ONLY a particular race ... " I can see why the guys do it, it’s selling to masses really. I agree with your point though, people giving one race as a requirement. Then describing it as a preference. To me it reads as unconsc i o u s racist bias. Had to split “that” word  | |||
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"I can see why the guys do it, it’s selling to masses really. I agree with your point though, people giving one race as a requirement. Then describing it as a preference. To me it reads as unconsc i o u s racist bias. Had to split “that” word "There's nothing unconcious (sic) about using racial stereotypes to "sell to the masses". For every "no Asians please" there is a "BBC is my preference", in perpetua. | |||
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"I can see why the guys do it, it’s selling to masses really. I agree with your point though, people giving one race as a requirement. Then describing it as a preference. To me it reads as unconsc i o u s racist bias. Had to split “that” word
There's nothing unconcious (sic) about using racial stereotypes to "sell to the masses". For every "no Asians please" there is a "BBC is my preference", in perpetua. "There is if it is perpetuated in mainstream media, people think it is fine. | |||
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"There is if it is perpetuated in mainstream media, people think it is fine." Unconscios bias means people *aren't *thinking, but I know what you mean about porn perpetuating the ideal. The entire fet scene is based on this cycle of being told what is "fun" - without it, there would be no model for people to emulate. | |||
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"For a black guy I have been wth more white woman then black woman. So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock" Not sure the stats will support that sweeping statement. If anyone has stats on this please post them | |||
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"before reading this post i looked up the ethnic population of scotland and 0.16 is black way behind chinese and other ethnic groups so if you divide 0.16 buy 4 taking in females and children that leaves 0.04 percent being males of those males alot will not be on a swingers site so lets be generous and say 0.01 are on a site like this, now a'lot of females have a fantasy of trying black guys but the truth is that there are still more white males than any other ethnic group here. so for a guy to call himself a bbc he is belittling himself and all the other guys on here for the sake of a shag."  | |||
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"Not that this question is for mei am still putting my wee input. As a black woman it's rare to find a black guy who doesn't reduce him self to being a racial fetish (mainly on fabswingers.com). I do have a soft spot for Black men who handle themselves as decent respect gentlemen. It's odd to me and off putting the whole BBC and Ace of Spades culture. I am not against interracial interactions or having personal preferences but when the only requirement is ONLY a particular race ... " I've been with black men and had a regular FWB who was black, known him as a friend for a long time. Before we ever slept together. To me it was never about the BBC hype it was about them and the guys they were, personly when any guy regardless of race hits up with well endowed I'm hung etc I'm. Instantly turned off, sorry but your appendage is the last thing in a very long list of things that I'm going to find attractive, if that's the first thing you think is going to attract a female well then you're not the kind of guy who's getting into my knickers  | |||
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" So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock" They don't. | |||
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"before reading this post i looked up the ethnic population of scotland and 0.16 is black way behind chinese and other ethnic groups so if you divide 0.16 buy 4 taking in females and children that leaves 0.04 percent being males of those males alot will not be on a swingers site so lets be generous and say 0.01 are on a site like this, now a'lot of females have a fantasy of trying black guys but the truth is that there are still more white males than any other ethnic group here. so for a guy to call himself a bbc he is belittling himself and all the other guys on here for the sake of a shag." Well said!!!  | |||
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"Not that this question is for mei am still putting my wee input. As a black woman it's rare to find a black guy who doesn't reduce him self to being a racial fetish (mainly on fabswingers.com). I do have a soft spot for Black men who handle themselves as decent respect gentlemen. It's odd to me and off putting the whole BBC and Ace of Spades culture. I am not against interracial interactions or having personal preferences but when the only requirement is ONLY a particular race ... " Crikey, you'd never find such thought provoking, enlightened contributions on the main forum! | |||
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""Black men who enjoy being treated like a piece of meat need to stop reducing themselves to racial stereotypes with the belief that it gives them power, because it doesn’t. If you let this happen then you are a big part of the problem. You’re inadvertently allowing racism in the community to thrive and continue by encouraging this behaviour and not trying to stop it." Not my words, but there's a wealth of information out there about the fetishisation of race, and it's quite disturbing. I see so much enabling of this kind of prejudice under the guise of admiration, and it sickens me. " I remember a black guy here a few years ago, a seasoned swinger and prolific on the scene who had stopped playing. He replied to a similar thread recounting an experience with one of his regular couples who he regarded as friends. During conversation he asked the male what his wife found compelling about him. The reply was he was just being used for sex and he (the hubby) was secure that 'she'd never run off with a black man'!  | |||
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"you do know that if you were to go in to a blackout room everyone is black or green or what ever colour you think off then its all down to the feel." Good point, however for me personally I have to actually see the person I’m going to be getting intimate with as if there’s no attraction then it’s unlikely I’ll be turned on enough to want to do anything. It’s for this reason I’m not really into gloryholes either, I understand that for some people it’s the anonymity that’s the thrill and that’s great for them just not for me | |||
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"you do know that if you were to go in to a blackout room everyone is black or green or what ever colour you think off then its all down to the feel. Good point, however for me personally I have to actually see the person I’m going to be getting intimate with as if there’s no attraction then it’s unlikely I’ll be turned on enough to want to do anything. It’s for this reason I’m not really into gloryholes either, I understand that for some people it’s the anonymity that’s the thrill and that’s great for them just not for me " ........................................ Hello, I'm quite fascinated by your profile and username! I've been married to a black male for over 30 years, despite the social challenges we've faced in that time I've only ever regarded him as my husband, his skin colour has never added or taken away from who he is. I guess my point is (and I'm sincerely trying to understand) would you be able to express what features of black men are so attractive that you meet them exclusively? It's only in this world that I've found preferences expressed so starkly (which is fine), my hubby has no real interest in playing as a couple now as he'd started to feel he was a novelty as invariably any messages we received would refer to his skin colour and the nature of our relationship! Hope you don't mind me asking but it would be good to hear from you. Blonde x | |||
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"you do know that if you were to go in to a blackout room everyone is black or green or what ever colour you think off then its all down to the feel. Good point, however for me personally I have to actually see the person I’m going to be getting intimate with as if there’s no attraction then it’s unlikely I’ll be turned on enough to want to do anything. It’s for this reason I’m not really into gloryholes either, I understand that for some people it’s the anonymity that’s the thrill and that’s great for them just not for me ........................................ Hello, I'm quite fascinated by your profile and username! I've been married to a black male for over 30 years, despite the social challenges we've faced in that time I've only ever regarded him as my husband, his skin colour has never added or taken away from who he is. I guess my point is (and I'm sincerely trying to understand) would you be able to express what features of black men are so attractive that you meet them exclusively? It's only in this world that I've found preferences expressed so starkly (which is fine), my hubby has no real interest in playing as a couple now as he'd started to feel he was a novelty as invariably any messages we received would refer to his skin colour and the nature of our relationship! Hope you don't mind me asking but it would be good to hear from you. Blonde x " I know this isn't meant for me, but I'd like to answer. And we don't exclusively meet black guys, but we do have FAB friends where the male is black and heard this before. e.g the male feels like a novelty.. Again, for me there's a couple of things, but it's just like a preference for blonds, or people with blue eyes, I get very turned on by the contrast of skin colour, I also like bigger built guys like my partner and that's a more common trait.. And thirdly, and I can only speak from experience but most of the black guys we've either met in clubs or have been long time friends with tend to be more relaxed and respectful. Sorry if that's stereotyping but I am only speaking from our own experience.. I feel there is a kink for some couples in a cuck type dynamic, and certainly for size queens. What I will say when it comes to meeting couples over single guys that the skin colour is much less of a factor. | |||
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"you do know that if you were to go in to a blackout room everyone is black or green or what ever colour you think off then its all down to the feel. Good point, however for me personally I have to actually see the person I’m going to be getting intimate with as if there’s no attraction then it’s unlikely I’ll be turned on enough to want to do anything. It’s for this reason I’m not really into gloryholes either, I understand that for some people it’s the anonymity that’s the thrill and that’s great for them just not for me ........................................ Hello, I'm quite fascinated by your profile and username! I've been married to a black male for over 30 years, despite the social challenges we've faced in that time I've only ever regarded him as my husband, his skin colour has never added or taken away from who he is. I guess my point is (and I'm sincerely trying to understand) would you be able to express what features of black men are so attractive that you meet them exclusively? It's only in this world that I've found preferences expressed so starkly (which is fine), my hubby has no real interest in playing as a couple now as he'd started to feel he was a novelty as invariably any messages we received would refer to his skin colour and the nature of our relationship! Hope you don't mind me asking but it would be good to hear from you. Blonde x I know this isn't meant for me, but I'd like to answer. And we don't exclusively meet black guys, but we do have FAB friends where the male is black and heard this before. e.g the male feels like a novelty.. Again, for me there's a couple of things, but it's just like a preference for blonds, or people with blue eyes, I get very turned on by the contrast of skin colour, I also like bigger built guys like my partner and that's a more common trait.. And thirdly, and I can only speak from experience but most of the black guys we've either met in clubs or have been long time friends with tend to be more relaxed and respectful. Sorry if that's stereotyping but I am only speaking from our own experience.. I feel there is a kink for some couples in a cuck type dynamic, and certainly for size queens. What I will say when it comes to meeting couples over single guys that the skin colour is much less of a factor. " Many thanks for your response Emmsiebee, I'm enjoying this open dialogue, when it's broached on the main forum views from all quarters tend to be shouted down! I suppose my own experiences have shaped my current view, I totally get the preference thing especially when it's applied to hair colour, body type etc but with race and skin colour I feel it's more complex given the different social development and challenges some have faced which I've seen first hand and now with adult children. I've no issue or right to dictate what people do in this lifestyle but it is interesting seeing how we express ourselves in ways which we probably wouldn't in Vanilla World! Thanks again x | |||
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"you do know that if you were to go in to a blackout room everyone is black or green or what ever colour you think off then its all down to the feel. Good point, however for me personally I have to actually see the person I’m going to be getting intimate with as if there’s no attraction then it’s unlikely I’ll be turned on enough to want to do anything. It’s for this reason I’m not really into gloryholes either, I understand that for some people it’s the anonymity that’s the thrill and that’s great for them just not for me ........................................ Hello, I'm quite fascinated by your profile and username! I've been married to a black male for over 30 years, despite the social challenges we've faced in that time I've only ever regarded him as my husband, his skin colour has never added or taken away from who he is. I guess my point is (and I'm sincerely trying to understand) would you be able to express what features of black men are so attractive that you meet them exclusively? It's only in this world that I've found preferences expressed so starkly (which is fine), my hubby has no real interest in playing as a couple now as he'd started to feel he was a novelty as invariably any messages we received would refer to his skin colour and the nature of our relationship! Hope you don't mind me asking but it would be good to hear from you. Blonde x " Hi I am normally very wary of commenting on these kind of forum posts as some people have called me racist in the past but I know that is not your intention so I probably would just echo the above posters statements. The contrast between skin colours is a big turn on for me (and hubby) we have also found that the on the whole black men are a lot more respectful when messaging and more likely to include hubby rather than directing messages to myself. I have always had an attraction to both black and white men it’s just chance that I happened to meet and fall in love with a man that’s white x | |||
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"you do know that if you were to go in to a blackout room everyone is black or green or what ever colour you think off then its all down to the feel. Good point, however for me personally I have to actually see the person I’m going to be getting intimate with as if there’s no attraction then it’s unlikely I’ll be turned on enough to want to do anything. It’s for this reason I’m not really into gloryholes either, I understand that for some people it’s the anonymity that’s the thrill and that’s great for them just not for me ........................................ Hello, I'm quite fascinated by your profile and username! I've been married to a black male for over 30 years, despite the social challenges we've faced in that time I've only ever regarded him as my husband, his skin colour has never added or taken away from who he is. I guess my point is (and I'm sincerely trying to understand) would you be able to express what features of black men are so attractive that you meet them exclusively? It's only in this world that I've found preferences expressed so starkly (which is fine), my hubby has no real interest in playing as a couple now as he'd started to feel he was a novelty as invariably any messages we received would refer to his skin colour and the nature of our relationship! Hope you don't mind me asking but it would be good to hear from you. Blonde x Hi I am normally very wary of commenting on these kind of forum posts as some people have called me racist in the past but I know that is not your intention so I probably would just echo the above posters statements. The contrast between skin colours is a big turn on for me (and hubby) we have also found that the on the whole black men are a lot more respectful when messaging and more likely to include hubby rather than directing messages to myself. I have always had an attraction to both black and white men it’s just chance that I happened to meet and fall in love with a man that’s white x" Thanks for the insight Gemma | |||
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""Black men are more respectful" really?! Well I've travelled the world and let me assure you men of all creeds and colours can be absolute horrors to women. Yep, respectful until they shoot their duff ( any colour, take your pick )" I didn’t say all black men I was talking about the experiences and interactions me and my husband have had with black men in clubs and through messages on here I am well aware that men or women of any race have the capability to be rude and disrespectful towards others | |||
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" In regards to the husband feeling like a novelty, If I was in his shoes at first Id prob think it was awesome then after a while start wishing people liked me for just me rather than just for a specific feature but I can see why some people would use it as their USP. As the fourms have shown its hard for single men to get a met so why not take advantage of something that may boost they're chances? As long as they're happy with possibly being a novelty fuck then fair play to them. Mr " Thanks for this. Regards the novelty aspect, there are subtleties and contextual issues which are hardwired into middle aged black men like my hubby due to their experiences of a predominantly white society. He's absolutely not a racial militant but is conscious and has been affected by discreet racism that has followed him around for all his 50+ years-this isn't a trivial point and most black people don't complain, they just get on with their lives. White people, inc myself will never fully understand that. So I know he finds it unhelpful (at best) when usually younger black males use their blackness as their unique selling point, it reinforces stereotypes about black men, generally creating a sexualised entity rather than a collection of individuals who are as nuanced-physically, socially and emotionally as their Caucasian counterparts. I've lost count of how many messages we've received from couples stating boldly that they want a BBC to play with..my lovely hubby's not a pet dog! | |||
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"It actually hate it when a guy refers himself as a BBC Total turn off for me." I agree | |||
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"For a black guy I have been wth more white woman then black woman. So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock" Lol I would think because of the ratio here I grew up on the islands so I've been with more black women. And I know for a fact they DON'T like black guys more than white guys here cause there's hell of a lot more profiles that say "only white men/no blacks or asians" than "only black men or BBC." This sites more for kinks but theres a really thin line.. I don't mess with profiles that refer to black men as BBC. I've reaslized it's a fetish for some and those are the ones I avoid, then I've met some women that seemed genuine. It is what it is, but one way to look at it is I'm not gonna put in my profile or make a status saying I'm looking for phat white pussies lol considering the past and how things are today least we can do is go about respectfully as possible. But anyways, to each their own, that's my 2 pence on it. | |||
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"Not that this question is for mei am still putting my wee input. As a black woman it's rare to find a black guy who doesn't reduce him self to being a racial fetish (mainly on fabswingers.com). I do have a soft spot for Black men who handle themselves as decent respect gentlemen. It's odd to me and off putting the whole BBC and Ace of Spades culture. I am not against interracial interactions or having personal preferences but when the only requirement is ONLY a particular race ... " I hear you there smh | |||
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"For a black guy I have been wth more white woman then black woman. So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock Lol I would think because of the ratio here I grew up on the islands so I've been with more black women. And I know for a fact they DON'T like black guys more than white guys here cause there's hell of a lot more profiles that say "only white men/no blacks or asians" than "only black men or BBC." This sites more for kinks but theres a really thin line.. I don't mess with profiles that refer to black men as BBC. I've reaslized it's a fetish for some and those are the ones I avoid, then I've met some women that seemed genuine. It is what it is, but one way to look at it is I'm not gonna put in my profile or make a status saying I'm looking for phat white pussies lol considering the past and how things are today least we can do is go about respectfully as possible. But anyways, to each their own, that's my 2 pence on it. "Really appreciate this insight. It carries so much weight, thankyou
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"For a black guy I have been wth more white woman then black woman. So I want to know why do white woman love black cock more then white cock Lol I would think because of the ratio here I grew up on the islands so I've been with more black women. And I know for a fact they DON'T like black guys more than white guys here cause there's hell of a lot more profiles that say "only white men/no blacks or asians" than "only black men or BBC." This sites more for kinks but theres a really thin line.. I don't mess with profiles that refer to black men as BBC. I've reaslized it's a fetish for some and those are the ones I avoid, then I've met some women that seemed genuine. It is what it is, but one way to look at it is I'm not gonna put in my profile or make a status saying I'm looking for phat white pussies lol considering the past and how things are today least we can do is go about respectfully as possible. But anyways, to each their own, that's my 2 pence on it.
Really appreciate this insight. It carries so much weight, thankyou
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