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"The first *day* I joined this site I was messaged by a local woman telling me who the local "bikes and tramps" were, so my welcome was charged with cynicism. I'll publish enough to show I'm verified as genuine, and that's about it. Less is more (as we keep telling people looking for photo advice), and I believe the same applies to veris. " Seems like jealousy to me that someone wants to warn a newbie off someone , surely that's down to each individual to make there own mind up , says more about her in my eyes . | |||
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"It’s about being seen as genuine.. but it appears to me that even that’s not really happening now Unfortunately " Genuine would be mandatory publishing of the shit veris as well as the gushy 5-star "best luva EVAH!" ones. I want to read the 1 star ones reviews, those would actually be useful. | |||
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"It’s about being seen as genuine.. but it appears to me that even that’s not really happening now Unfortunately Genuine would be mandatory publishing of the shit veris as well as the gushy 5-star "best luva EVAH!" ones. I want to read the 1 star ones reviews, those would actually be useful. " Hahah trip advisor | |||
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"I choose not to show mine as its between me and my the person Ive met what went on during a meet. Also saves a lot of grief that can sometimes come from them especially from people with green eyes if you get my drift " Yeah that’s how I feel sometimes and it’s like everyone is reading how you got pumped the night before I know it’s a sex site but you know what I mean | |||
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"I have verifications but only 1 person is still on site and it was more a “we met in the past, can confirm she is real one” Even if I had more I don’t think I’d show them" I think you are going on Saturday we can verify each other lol xx | |||
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"Personally i ask meets not to verify me anymore i have enough now to prove i am real i have met a few whose veris are so far from the truth its unreal I.E...Handsome, beautiful, stunner ive come to realise most are over exaggerated so the versifier receives a over exaggerated veri of the truth back so to me most are utter bolloxs " Surely thats the person whos leaving a verifications opinon on the people they have met . just because you dont find someone handsome or beautiful doesnt mean aint it just means they aint to you but not everyone will share your opinion | |||
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"The details of a meet should be kept between both parties and not shared like its a boast...just my opinion. " Mine are all tame. Only once did someone give a detailed veri and i told them i was not showing it so they changed it. I show veris to prove that i meet but certainly do not wish folk to know exactly what we did. | |||
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"The details of a meet should be kept between both parties and not shared like its a boast...just my opinion. " | |||
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"There is always pros and cons to public veris (my experience). I have chosen to not show mine this time around as last time I was on the site I was bullied very badly but certain individuals " Or they are constantly judged on by future meets but a good way of judging standards or allowing you the chance to not share body fluids with peeps that have shared body fluids with peeps that give you the Icky factor. | |||
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"There is always pros and cons to public veris (my experience). I have chosen to not show mine this time around as last time I was on the site I was bullied very badly but certain individuals " I'm sorry to hear that. For a place that's supposedly full of open-minded people, I would expect better. | |||
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"There is always pros and cons to public veris (my experience). I have chosen to not show mine this time around as last time I was on the site I was bullied very badly but certain individuals I'm sorry to hear that. For a place that's supposedly full of open-minded people, I would expect better. " If only huh! | |||
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"I have verifications but only 1 person is still on site and it was more a “we met in the past, can confirm she is real one” Even if I had more I don’t think I’d show them I think you are going on Saturday we can verify each other lol xx" Going where on Saturday?? | |||
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"There is always pros and cons to public veris (my experience). I have chosen to not show mine this time around as last time I was on the site I was bullied very badly but certain individuals I'm sorry to hear that. For a place that's supposedly full of open-minded people, I would expect better. " Thank you hence my my profile is very bare bones now and pics etc are now private - very hard lesson that's for sure. I was cautious before but even more so now | |||
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"There is always pros and cons to public veris (my experience). I have chosen to not show mine this time around as last time I was on the site I was bullied very badly but certain individuals I'm sorry to hear that. For a place that's supposedly full of open-minded people, I would expect better. Thank you hence my my profile is very bare bones now and pics etc are now private - very hard lesson that's for sure. I was cautious before but even more so now " You can only be bullied if you allow it...i would be back riding that pony that they were pissing me off about and post more versus.. .fuck them . | |||
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"I have verifications but only 1 person is still on site and it was more a “we met in the past, can confirm she is real one” Even if I had more I don’t think I’d show them I think you are going on Saturday we can verify each other lol xx Going where on Saturday?? " Are you not going to the social?? Thought I seen those legs in the post | |||
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" You can only be bullied if you allow it...i would be back riding that pony that they were pissing me off about and post more versus.. .fuck them ." Not everyone can be a belligerent badass | |||
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"Wish i could get verified. Cant seem to meet anyone to get veritied " I wonder why | |||
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"Wish i could get verified. Cant seem to meet anyone to get veritied I wonder why" Hahahahaha | |||
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"I enquired about the social but to much chopping and changing put me off slightly, I’ve made other plans now " Aww knew I seen the legs tho on the post | |||
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"Wish i could get verified. Cant seem to meet anyone to get veritied I wonder why Hahahahaha " I may be ugly but im no a bad chap lol | |||
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"Wish i could get verified. Cant seem to meet anyone to get veritied I wonder why Hahahahaha I may be ugly but im no a bad chap lol" I wouldnt know all u have is a pic of your cock and a statement declaring your sex starved ... | |||
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"Wish i could get verified. Cant seem to meet anyone to get veritied I wonder why Hahahahaha I may be ugly but im no a bad chap lol I wouldnt know all u have is a pic of your cock and a statement declaring your sex starved ... " So how do i go about it.Was just trying to be honest lol | |||
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"Wish i could get verified. Cant seem to meet anyone to get veritied I wonder why Hahahahaha I may be ugly but im no a bad chap lol I wouldnt know all u have is a pic of your cock and a statement declaring your sex starved ... So how do i go about it.Was just trying to be honest lol" I have no idea I don't have a wife that's sex starving me . | |||
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"Wish i could get verified. Cant seem to meet anyone to get veritied I wonder why Hahahahaha I may be ugly but im no a bad chap lol I wouldnt know all u have is a pic of your cock and a statement declaring your sex starved ... Im not good at filling profiles So how do i go about it.Was just trying to be honest lol" | |||
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"Wish i could get verified. Cant seem to meet anyone to get veritied I wonder why Hahahahaha I may be ugly but im no a bad chap lol I wouldnt know all u have is a pic of your cock and a statement declaring your sex starved ... Im not good at filling profiles So how do i go about it.Was just trying to be honest lol" At least i can look at the naughty pics lol | |||
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"There is always pros and cons to public veris (my experience). I have chosen to not show mine this time around as last time I was on the site I was bullied very badly but certain individuals " Iv had the same. Not bullied directly but a woman bad mouthing me to men I'd verified or they verified me. Over the years she has made herself very unpopular on the site doing the same to other women. Which is why indont bother with verifications now x x | |||
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"Hidden. It's no one else's business what I get up to, when and with whom. " Yeah I read some and I am like fuck sake this is trip advisor dunno if it’s cause we haven’t done the social side yet This isn’t our 1st profile we normally show but this time decided not to how it goes and had 6 verifies and some couple cracked up cause I didn’t reply ASAP saying they didn’t have time for no verified people | |||
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"Mine are hidden but can be shown if anyone asks -as still think some folk judge you on how many meets you have had regardless of what type of meet they have been. Though it would still be nice to get a verification back from someone you had verified. " I do give verifications but I feel mines are very bare but that’s how I like mine lol haha, just can’t deal with trip advisors or star ratings, I have got it shown that we have had meets but just not the writing obviously want people to know we are real but sometimes every meet is different! We are heading to a social in Edinburgh this weekend maybe show some after this weekend | |||
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"Mine are hidden but can be shown if anyone asks -as still think some folk judge you on how many meets you have had regardless of what type of meet they have been. Though it would still be nice to get a verification back from someone you had verified. I do give verifications but I feel mines are very bare but that’s how I like mine lol haha, just can’t deal with trip advisors or star ratings, I have got it shown that we have had meets but just not the writing obviously want people to know we are real but sometimes every meet is different! We are heading to a social in Edinburgh this weekend maybe show some after this weekend " Mine are usually much the same quite basic and not in depth as thats private and nobody elses business Have a fab time in Edinburgh | |||
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"Don't show them to annoy the nosey bastards." Yer the FAB hide and seek champion, anyway. The noseys don't stand a chance. I've asked all 50 women I've pumped off here not to verify me so I can keep up the unverified pretense and win the sympathy vote. | |||
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"Don't show them to annoy the nosey bastards. Yer the FAB hide and seek champion, anyway. The noseys don't stand a chance. I've asked all 50 women I've pumped off here not to verify me so I can keep up the unverified pretense and win the sympathy vote. " I heard it was cause you're a snide ride | |||
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"Don't show them to annoy the nosey bastards. Yer the FAB hide and seek champion, anyway. The noseys don't stand a chance. I've asked all 50 women I've pumped off here not to verify me so I can keep up the unverified pretense and win the sympathy vote. I heard it was cause you're a snide ride " Clipe! | |||
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"The first *day* I joined this site I was messaged by a local woman telling me who the local "bikes and tramps" were, so my welcome was charged with cynicism. I'll publish enough to show I'm verified as genuine, and that's about it. Less is more (as we keep telling people looking for photo advice), and I believe the same applies to veris. Seems like jealousy to me that someone wants to warn a newbie off someone , surely that's down to each individual to make there own mind up , says more about her in my eyes . " Absolutely! A sad individual! | |||
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"All this chat on verifications!! Show or don’t show...it’s up to you. But please don’t judge people on theirs...take the time to meet them and find out yourself! People that have a lot of verifications normally host parties. I hate all the judgement that come with being on this site sometimes. #bekind" Sorry, but judging is essential and not intrinsically unkind. Whether in person or on here, we're all looking for something specific and I will judge you based on your feedback, same as I would anything online. I don't have time to meet *everyone*. | |||
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"All this chat on verifications!! Show or don’t show...it’s up to you. But please don’t judge people on theirs...take the time to meet them and find out yourself! People that have a lot of verifications normally host parties. I hate all the judgement that come with being on this site sometimes. #bekind Sorry, but judging is essential and not intrinsically unkind. Whether in person or on here, we're all looking for something specific and I will judge you based on your feedback, same as I would anything online. I don't have time to meet *everyone*. " | |||
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"All this chat on verifications!! Show or don’t show...it’s up to you. But please don’t judge people on theirs...take the time to meet them and find out yourself! People that have a lot of verifications normally host parties. I hate all the judgement that come with being on this site sometimes. #bekind" No I wasn’t being nasty was just wanting people’s thoughts as it seem some people want to know who else you had sexual stuff with and not happy with just seeing the fact you have had a meet if you get me, as I said above I haven’t been to a social yet but going to one on Saturday so after that I should have ones I maybe want to show lol | |||
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"No I wasn’t being nasty was just wanting people’s thoughts as it seem some people want to know who else you had sexual stuff with and not happy with just seeing the fact you have had a meet if you get me, as I said above I haven’t been to a social yet but going to one on Saturday so after that I should have ones I maybe want to show lol " You know you don't have to go to a "social" or a sex party to get verified? | |||
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"No I wasn’t being nasty was just wanting people’s thoughts as it seem some people want to know who else you had sexual stuff with and not happy with just seeing the fact you have had a meet if you get me, as I said above I haven’t been to a social yet but going to one on Saturday so after that I should have ones I maybe want to show lol You know you don't have to go to a "social" or a sex party to get verified?" I wasn’t saying that in any way was I? I was asking people’s different opinions on showing them too? Just asking | |||
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"I wasn’t saying that in any way was I? I was asking people’s different opinions on showing them too? Just asking " Glad we sorted that out | |||
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"You show what you wanna show. No one else can tell you need to do this or that. It's not there profile It's yours " It's what the block button was made for | |||
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