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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After exchanging pics etc. how often do you get the feeling it's BS and what does it take for you to believe... do you believe "my cam isn't working"?

Just curious as that's how I feel right now....

Appreciate any replies

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I (S) been on here awhile now and my gut instinct has never failed me so i always go on that If something dosn't feel right then generally it's not. I don't exchange private picture's or accept friend's invite readily.

Friend's list is for friend's we have played with or hope to play with.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"do you believe "my cam isn't working""

Folk still use that excuse ?

Think thats the numero uno excuse to avoid them, along with "its a work phone" when a contact mobby number exchange is requested.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"After exchanging pics etc. how often do you get the feeling it's BS and what does it take for you to believe... do you believe "my cam isn't working"?

Just curious as that's how I feel right now....

Appreciate any replies"

Way too many fake profiles and bullshitters on here if it doesnt feel right block and report the profile anything that looks too good to believe usualy is ..also look out for the profiles with nothing on them no pix no nothing telling you what they are all about and no friends or verifications .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is a lot of cpls on here that ask for you pic you give them it and all you get it is blocked. you also get when you ask for them to cam is sorry not work and that goes to a lot of singles on here also.

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

My cam really wont load on this pc , was fine on the old one , but then again i think its rude to ask to view someones cam , after all u wouldnt ask to go into their house , if someone doesnt want to put cam on for whatever reason its their choice .

Photos are fine as long as they are fairly recent and not airbrushed to death , i like it to have at least a vague resemblence to the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cam really wont load on this pc , was fine on the old one , but then again i think its rude to ask to view someones cam , after all u wouldnt ask to go into their house , if someone doesnt want to put cam on for whatever reason its their choice .

Photos are fine as long as they are fairly recent and not airbrushed to death , i like it to have at least a vague resemblence to the person."

Plus ...... they me be like me and sitting slobbing in a bathrobe having a bad hair day and no slap on!

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sometimes the wasters are easy to spot sometimes not quite so easy. But the decent folk are worth it.

Personally Im up front about the fact I don't have cam and can't use the chat rooms cos I my only internet access is with my mobile or at uni and the site is blocked at the uni. Still, a friendly approach has worked for me. I'm thankful the timewasters seem to have avoided me for some reason.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Sometimes the wasters are easy to spot sometimes not quite so easy. But the decent folk are worth it.

Personally Im up front about the fact I don't have cam and can't use the chat rooms cos I my only internet access is with my mobile or at uni and the site is blocked at the uni. Still, a friendly approach has worked for me. I'm thankful the timewasters seem to have avoided me for some reason."

Your right the decent genuine people are what makes this all worth it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cam really wont load on this pc , was fine on the old one , but then again i think its rude to ask to view someones cam , after all u wouldnt ask to go into their house , if someone doesnt want to put cam on for whatever reason its their choice

Fkn Rubbish.....

Fabswingers provides a facility in order to cam,yes you have the choice wether you choose to put it on or off.However what is the matter with a polite message in chat if both parties have had previous conversations.

Who on Fab and in chat has never asked someone to put a cam on ?

Am still not sure whit coming into your house relates to putting a cam on ..

Thongz cmere tae a slap yur arse

Runnzzz

Buboo xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the couple hadnt done a spring clean that day and didnt fancy showing their room in a mess? Maybe any number of reasons! But JUST maybe, their cam wasnt working!! Why do peeps have to assume the worst of peeps when they get a knockback! I'v had plenty but just get on with things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones that go all quiet and disappear the day of a meet that pee me off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my cams inbuilt on my netbook and when i go into chat it says cam not detected?? So there! Do i give a flying f k no.the new chatroom is mostly chicks and guys with their bits out anyway? And i said mostly..not all before anyone gets on their soapbox.so no need for me to put my cam on even if it did work? auds.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough that some people dont have a webcam or like them. But if they were at least photo verified it may make it easier, as it is quick and easy to do

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

There's a difference between asking folk to cam for wanking material and requesting a quick cam for verification prior to a meet purpose, me personally i prefer seeing verifications from folk i consider trustworthy coupled with a quick phone call.

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"My cam really wont load on this pc , was fine on the old one , but then again i think its rude to ask to view someones cam , after all u wouldnt ask to go into their house , if someone doesnt want to put cam on for whatever reason its their choice

Fkn Rubbish.....

Fabswingers provides a facility in order to cam,yes you have the choice wether you choose to put it on or off.However what is the matter with a polite message in chat if both parties have had previous conversations.

Who on Fab and in chat has never asked someone to put a cam on ?

Am still not sure whit coming into your house relates to putting a cam on ..

Thongz cmere tae a slap yur arse

Runnzzz

Buboo xxxx

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Sorry bub but its really not rubbish cam wont load on this pc , think the cam software is too old .

Well someone on cam is usually sat in their house somewhere and u wouldnt invite urself into someones home , invasion of privacy n all that .

Spank my ass anytime though and u dont need to see me on cam , we have met in person so u know i am an ugly cow

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By *utieguyMan
over a year ago

motherwell


"There's a difference between asking folk to cam for wanking material and requesting a quick cam for verification prior to a meet purpose, me personally i prefer seeing verifications from folk i consider trustworthy coupled with a quick phone call. "

Ditto - having a verification from someone you know is genuine makes a big difference in the trust stakes for me.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"There's a difference between asking folk to cam for wanking material and requesting a quick cam for verification prior to a meet purpose, me personally i prefer seeing verifications from folk i consider trustworthy coupled with a quick phone call.

Ditto - having a verification from someone you know is genuine makes a big difference in the trust stakes for me."

you'd like to think so but thats not always the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thing about cam it dispells the slighty older pictures that get showed off.

Anyhow back to trust and spidey senses

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Good thing about cam it dispells the slighty older pictures that get showed off.

Anyhow back to trust and spidey senses"

yeah exaclty everyone can see i lood as old on cam ad i do in my pix lol

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"yeah exaclty everyone can see i lood as old on cam ad i do in my pix lol "

In English please ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"yeah exaclty everyone can see i lood as old on cam ad i do in my pix lol

In English please ? "

thats what happens why u use ur damn fone

what i was trying to say was i look as old on cam as i do im my pix lol

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

Have had a cam for about 5 yrs and its still in its unopened box kicking around somewhere and thats where it can stay lol.

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Apparently i look younger than i am

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