FabSwingers.com forum: CJs 7th couples and single females night

By *etguydee OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

Anyone thinking about going along on the 7th?

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By *ilf n filfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

No I think they maybe all coming to the Edinburgh social

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By *etguydee OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

well thats a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have chatted with a few couples who plan to attend the couples night at CJ's on 7th x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've got a family party in Edinburgh so may pop along afterwards

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"No I think they maybe all coming to the Edinburgh social

Doubt all of them will x

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We’re going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have chatted with a few couples who plan to attend the couples night at CJ's on 7th x"

Yup. We are going, emailed the other day... looking forward to it

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By *etguydee OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

right, yes! need to email

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and my lady are planning on going along on the 7th.

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By *olly90Woman
over a year ago

Arbroath

Meee hahaha

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By *etguydee OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

"Meee hahaha"

very glad to hear :D

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By *olly90Woman
over a year ago

Arbroath

"Meee hahaha

very glad to hear :D"

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's us on the list

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By *olly90Woman
over a year ago

Arbroath

Oooh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's us on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner and I have signed up. It’ll be our first time at CJs and indeed our first real step into the world of swinging. We are nervous and excited, it’s fair to say.

Personally, I’m treating it as a night out and a chance to meet new people, and I don’t imagine that I’ll play with anyone other than my partner. I think she’ll be keen to spend some time with other women though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we will be putting out names down for this, trying to make it along to a lot more nights this year.

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By *etguydee OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

and booked in

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By *r_and_MrsxxxCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are gonna go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We shall be attending. Also thinking about hosting a party at ours for after it, if Anyone is interested let us know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh when I've been to cpls fems night most of the ones haven't ever commented on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it'll be a fun night

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Just found out we'll be free! Couple and single fem night idea excites me lots!

Mrs C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, those with some experience – what should we be expecting as first-timers?

We’re not expecting that we’ll play with anyone else. Our baseline is to chat to people and for the two of us to have some fun in a different setting to usual.

What are we looking at in terms of atmosphere and such?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are we looking at in terms of atmosphere and such?"

We went for the first time to the last couples night. There was zero pressure and we found everyone we spoke to were very relaxed. Treat it as a social and just go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are we looking at in terms of atmosphere and such?

We went for the first time to the last couples night. There was zero pressure and we found everyone we spoke to were very relaxed. Treat it as a social and just go with the flow. "

Sounds like exactly what we’re hoping for. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's us on the list

Just saw this, hope to see you there... x

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We've been a couple of times now.. I was super nervous! But once you get your wee tour done, you'll feel a bit more relaxed..

Sit in the big room on the left, it has more space to chat and meet couples. We had great conversations with strangers, and that fact there's no single men looming around will put you more at ease.. I love hearing everyone's stories, social side is just as important to me

You do need a bit of Dutch courage though, and sometimes to make the first move to speak to someone new

Also, if you really want alone time with your Mrs, you need to be up those stairs well early! Or you've no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been a couple of times now.. I was super nervous! But once you get your wee tour done, you'll feel a bit more relaxed..

You do need a bit of Dutch courage though, and sometimes to make the first move to speak to someone new

Also, if you really want alone time with your Mrs, you need to be up those stairs well early! Or you've no chance

Well, you say alone time, but we have no problem with being watched, so it doesn’t have to be entirely alone. :p

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Couples room is exactly where you need to be then! Haha.. That's our favourite haunt

4 double beds joined together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a social beforehand ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we are going on the 7th.

Will be our first time

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By *etguydee OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

so a fair few going

see you all soon and those going for the first time have fun and feel free to chat!

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We can’t make it, but will be in town for drinks on Saturday night if anyone is going to be around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyone meeting beforehand?

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By *etguydee OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

not thought that far ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the best postcode to put in the satnav?

Cant find one online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats the best postcode to put in the satnav?

Cant find one online "

The address and postcode are in the confirmation email CJ sends out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just says , glad you can make it on our email.

Do they send out another email on the day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It just says , glad you can make it on our email.

Do they send out another email on the day? "

Further down in that email, towards the end, it should give the address, postcode and some directions about the immediate area. If it doesn’t, you should contact CJ and ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep its there at the bottom of the email.

Thanks for letting me know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're coming ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to tonight, if we have chatted here feel free to say hello tonight, she'll be the chattier one on the pink gin, I'm driving so I'll be the one looking lost without a drink in my hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm driving so I'll be the one looking lost without a drink in my hand

You're not the only one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm driving so I'll be the one looking lost without a drink in my hand

You're not the only one!

There is only so much irnbru one man can take, I'll need to think of something else to drink tonight Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone meeting before CJs tonight? If not are there any bars nearby? Mrs wants a wine or two before we arrive haha

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Is anyone meeting before CJs tonight? If not are there any bars nearby? Mrs wants a wine or two before we arrive haha "

Closest bars are city centre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohright ok, maybe just go somewhere local first then unless others are meeting up... cheers

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By *olly90Woman
over a year ago

Arbroath

Woo exciting.

So excited to see if any of the new that attended last month are here tonight?

If so send an email were on route and if ready in time would be happy to meet beforehand x

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By *agman1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ohright ok, maybe just go somewhere local first then unless others are meeting up... cheers"

You certainly wouldn't want to go to any of the pubs close to CJ's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is only so much irnbru one man can take, I'll need to think of something else to drink tonight Haha "

Haha..... Yup!

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By *arpdiemCouple
over a year ago

dunfermline

We're confirmed to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm working and mrs is at ho.e so no fun for us tonight

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Thank you to all the amazing couples we met tonight. We had an amazing time. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was our first time at CJS last night , was very overwhelmed by everything , hopefully next time we can calm our nerves and feel a bit more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great night...

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By *olly90Woman
over a year ago

Arbroath

Yeah it was a good night. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a great night, unfortunately cut short by her not feeling great or we would have stayed til kicking out time...

Until next time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We (WindowShopping2020 for the couples profile) had a fantastic first time, other than being too shy to actually talk to anyone…

We played in one of the open rooms and both absolutely loved watching and being watched while we pleasured each other. We also got a lovely compliment at the end of the night that we were very enjoyable to watch, so what was nice! We definitely intend to be back at some point, and hopefully more social since we’ll (presumably) be less nervous.

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By *randMrs-XXXCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Great night as always.

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By *etguydee OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

had a great time lastnight! anyone was speaking with feel free to leave a message and hopefully see again!

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By *unkingCouple
over a year ago

West of Scotland

Hope everyone had a great night!!! Looking at the posts it sounds like it. Read a profile saying it was a quiet night again. Is this normal for this time of year???

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By *eardtatsnshavencatCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Really enjoyed cjs on sat, wish we had caught up with more folk. Great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope everyone had a great night!!! Looking at the posts it sounds like it. Read a profile saying it was a quiet night again. Is this normal for this time of year??? "

A was gonna say prob quiet cos ppl dont wanna catch Corona psml! I had a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our one regret from the night is being too shy to chat downstairs.

We definitely plan to go back, and we’d love to talk to some folks on here first so that we feel more comfortable doing so in the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after a long 7 days we can now finally post on the forum

We were here on the 7th for our first ever visit and we both thought the place was fantastic. So relaxed and friendly and we had brilliant fun in the open and cinema rooms.

We will definitely be returning in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We attended our first night at CJ’s on the 7th also. Had a great time and lots of fun, like others on their first time we also would have liked to have spoke to more people down stairs but we now know what to expect when we go back this weekend

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