FabSwingers.com forum: Cross wires...really??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok this has really annoyed me. Guys moan all the time about having to do all the work etc on fab. But when you show enthusiasm and interest they get like “ oh I’m only looking for sex think we have cross wires”! Wtf!!! I’m on a couple profile to begin with and make it clear I’m only looking for sex! So how is showing that your keen a sign you’re after more??

can’t bloody win with some folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well...onwards and upwards

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

The bloke clearly thinks you have come on too strong and doesn’t want to meet ... that is his right just as it would be yours if the shoe were on the other foot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The bloke clearly thinks you have come on too strong and doesn’t want to meet ... that is his right just as it would be yours if the shoe were on the other foot. "

It’s not about that it’s about when you don’t show much interest guys moan when you do show an interest “some guys” not all which is my point get their egos in the way

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Alot are all talk and no action.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alot are all talk and no action."

Very very true. Some guys just like their egos inflated a little and wank material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot are all talk and no action.

Very very true. Some guys just like their egos inflated a little and wank material"

Don't give them any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say more females on fab are looking for their egos stroked rather than guys.

Maybe the guy just wasnt interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alot are all talk and no action.

Very very true. Some guys just like their egos inflated a little and wank material

Don't give them any "

Yeah true I need to stop being so generous with my pics and vids

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By *enAdamsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

What’s for you, won’t pass you and all that... Don’t think it’s a Man/Woman thing, the individual is one to avoid by the sounds of it, count yourself lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s for you, won’t pass you and all that... Don’t think it’s a Man/Woman thing, the individual is one to avoid by the sounds of it, count yourself lucky

How did you reach that conclusion from the available info?

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By *innettMan
over a year ago

scotland

A good solid I'd say 60% on here are time wasters that like to talk the talk really

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By *enAdamsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It’s my opinion, not a conclusion... If the communication is that bad, then it clearly isn’t a good match?? Do you not think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s my opinion, not a conclusion... If the communication is that bad, then it clearly isn’t a good match?? Do you not think? "

Perhaps but I wasn’t chatting to him any different to other guys and they’ve never had their wires crossed...

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By *enAdamsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It’s my opinion, not a conclusion... If the communication is that bad, then it clearly isn’t a good match?? Do you not think?

Perhaps but I wasn’t chatting to him any different to other guys and they’ve never had their wires crossed...

Hence why I said, best avoided.. I’m pretty sure some lucky guy would appreciate your attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s my opinion, not a conclusion... If the communication is that bad, then it clearly isn’t a good match?? Do you not think?

Perhaps but I wasn’t chatting to him any different to other guys and they’ve never had their wires crossed...

Hence why I said, best avoided.. I’m pretty sure some lucky guy would appreciate your attention

Agreed

why thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people just aren't compatible. It doesn't mean either of you are bad people because your personalities don't match. Some people don't get innuendo, some people need things laid out for them while others are deliciously dry and witty. Just like face-to-face conversations, some people can be hard work!

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Ok this has really annoyed me. Guys moan all the time about having to do all the work etc on fab. But when you show enthusiasm and interest they get like “ oh I’m only looking for sex think we have cross wires”! Wtf!!! I’m on a couple profile to begin with and make it clear I’m only looking for sex! So how is showing that your keen a sign you’re after more??

can’t bloody win with some folk

Their loss not yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can’t bloody win with some folk

Their loss not yours

Thanks hun

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

can’t bloody win with some folk

Their loss not yours

Thanks hun

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

can’t bloody win with some folk

Their loss not yours

Thanks hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot are all talk and no action."
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot are all talk and no action.this

Snopes you're agreeing that guys are all talk and no action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot are all talk and no action.this

Snopes you're agreeing that guys are all talk and no action? "
did you read the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't worry about it. I've just been called a man because I wasn't interested in someone.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Wouldn't worry about it. I've just been called a man because I wasn't interested in someone."

Maybe if you drop that towel, then he'll see quite clearly that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldn't worry about it. I've just been called a man because I wasn't interested in someone."

Haha classic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Update: soooo the plot thickens... he said because I asked for a social that’s why he thought I wanted more...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"Update: soooo the plot thickens... he said because I asked for a social that’s why he thought I wanted more...

I always ask for a social. How else are you going to know there’s a connection. If they can’t respect your request for a social meet, will they respect any boundaries you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bloke clearly thinks you have come on too strong and doesn’t want to meet ... that is his right just as it would be yours if the shoe were on the other foot.

It’s not about that it’s about when you don’t show much interest guys moan when you do show an interest “some guys” not all which is my point get their egos in the way"

Just life I guess. Plenty females also make out they’re interested then aren’t when the time comes. Swingers and roundabouts of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say more females on fab are looking for their egos stroked rather than guys.

Maybe the guy just wasnt interested."

Amen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot are all talk and no action.this

Snopes you're agreeing that guys are all talk and no action? "

There are a lot that are all talk though that person was right in saying that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot are all talk and no action.this

Snopes you're agreeing that guys are all talk and no action?

did you read the original post "

Several times, which didn't answer my question.. I'm assuming the men you have met are all talk and no action either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update: soooo the plot thickens... he said because I asked for a social that’s why he thought I wanted more...

Is he an old hand or a newbie? When I joined I thought a social meant going to clubs which was off-putting. Took me a bit to realise clubs, coffee or a nice dinner are all lumped into the term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say dinner was more a date?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say dinner was more a date?"

Yeah defo when I say social it could be a quick chat or a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In relation to "a lot of guys are all talk and no action"

Women are equally the same.IMHO

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"In relation to "a lot of guys are all talk and no action"

Women are equally the same.IMHO

Yes of course. Time wasters are both male and female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say dinner was more a date?

Yeah defo when I say social it could be a quick chat or a coffee"
same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say dinner was more a date?

Yeah defo when I say social it could be a quick chat or a coffee"

I'm getting classy in my dotage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say dinner was more a date?

Yeah defo when I say social it could be a quick chat or a coffee

I'm getting classy in my dotage

Well it’s more about being discreet for me really. Plus don’t think my man would like me going to dinner with a guy. Not really a swinging type of social more of a tinder I would say. But each to their own

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By *hoenix79Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'd say dinner was more a date?

Yeah defo when I say social it could be a quick chat or a coffee

I'm getting classy in my dotage

Absolutely nothing wrong with asking for a social, after all you have to think of your own safety first. If someone is not willing to at least meet for a coffee first then they are not worth your time.

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By *ondscotMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I think you dodged bullet myself. I think what you asked for was completely reasonable. I suspect he would have let you down when it came to it. Perhaps he’s gods gift and any woman would be lucky to have him.... but I doubt it

I hope you find plenty more guys who will make you happy x

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

In the current climate a social meeting is the minimum requirement you should look for prior to meeting another individual.

In simple terms;

You do not know me. I do not know you.

You do not know anyone who does know me. I do not know anyone who knows you.

Other than a short spell of messages we havd never had a in person conversation

You have never been in the same space as me. I have never been in the same space as you.

Why on Earth would I want to invite a perfect stranger into my life?

Why on Earth would you want to invite a perfect stranger into your life?

Beggars belief the risks people take to meeting another person without any form of safety net!

He is an idiot! As is any person who does not look after ther own safety first....

Block and move on!

Let Darwin and evolution do it's work for you.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the current climate a social meeting is the minimum requirement you should look for prior to meeting another individual.

In simple terms;

You do not know me. I do not know you.

You do not know anyone who does know me. I do not know anyone who knows you.

Other than a short spell of messages we havd never had a in person conversation

You have never been in the same space as me. I have never been in the same space as you.

Why on Earth would I want to invite a perfect stranger into my life?

Why on Earth would you want to invite a perfect stranger into your life?

Beggars belief the risks people take to meeting another person without any form of safety net!

He is an idiot! As is any person who does not look after ther own safety first....

Block and move on!

Let Darwin and evolution do it's work for you.....

My thoughts exactly

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