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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I have 204 unread messages

How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that

You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite

Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message

It’s never ending

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have 530 and i answer loads. In my defence alot say h, hello or how are you which i can see without opening them

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I have 204 unread messages

How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that

You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite

Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message

It’s never ending "
Block & do your own search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you even decide which messages to bother with?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"I have 204 unread messages

How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that

You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite

Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message

It’s never ending "

Activate your message filters and invest time in searching for those that appeal to you instead

Saved me enough hours to actually meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll probably get more now that you've created this thread

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

You lot can borrow my profile pics, that will cease all messages immediately

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I have 204 unread messages

How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that

You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite

Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message

It’s never ending Block & do your own search

Do you always send the first message then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer the 1s that interest you delete the 1s that dont.

Saves a build up.

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"You'll probably get more now that you've created this thread "

Don’t think my forum posts create any more or significantly more and I’ve been posting on the forums for years

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I have 204 unread messages

How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that

You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite

Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message

It’s never ending Block & do your own search

Do you always send the first message then ? "
If I like the look of a profile I have no problem in sending them an email

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Delete and forget simples

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lol"
Awwww

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Delete and forget simples"

What would be the point in the site then

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww

Love that wee icon

Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?

In fact how did you get it for a forum post

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww

Love that wee icon

Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?

In fact how did you get it for a forum post"
just type the word violin inbetween these ()

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

[Removed by poster at 18/02/20 20:31:19]

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww

Love that wee icon

Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?

In fact how did you get it for a forum postjust type the word violin inbetween these ()

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Oh I might answer some of my messages now lolol

Wow lol

Can you do it with most things then "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww

Love that wee icon

Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?

In fact how did you get it for a forum postjust type the word violin inbetween these ()

[/quote/]

Wow lol

Can you do it with most things then "
Yeah pretty much I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww

Love that wee icon

Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?

In fact how did you get it for a forum postjust type the word violin inbetween these ()

[/quote/]

Wow lol

Can you do it with most things then Yeah pretty much I think "

Your a fountain of knowledge, (brilliant)

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww

Love that wee icon

Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?

In fact how did you get it for a forum postjust type the word violin inbetween these ()

[/quote/]

Wow lol

Can you do it with most things then Yeah pretty much I think

Your a fountain of knowledge, (brilliant)"
One trys lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Delete and forget simples

What would be the point in the site then "
you asked how to deal with them that's how I'd deal with them

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Im a bit pissed i only got 3 today ,must be doing something wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simple really. If you have no intention of merging someone due to how they come across or how they look then block them.

Trust me it saves a lot of time.

There’s only so many times you can say a polite no thanks before they start taken it personally and turning abusive!

You’d be doing yourself a favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/02/20 22:04:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what most females do

Bulk delete it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lol"

Ask if they fancy a fuck and how they are

pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to just ignore mine and only reply to friends.

I don't worry about the number at the top. I rarely even delete these days.

I use the site my own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a bit pissed i only got 3 today ,must be doing something wrong ?

Christ even I got more than you and I have a penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have taken to using the filters and having clear outs as and when time allows. Also blocking those I am uninterested in to save the hassle of repeated messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have that amount of unread message.

I use my filters and delete any that have blatantly not read my profile and block ones that are rude or abusive and I never mass delete as I find they tend to fall off my inbox after so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It be nice to get some messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God we have never had nearly that many!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have none lol

But yeah it can be imagine it’s mental for ladies n couples and even worse when a guy goes “why you not replying “ as they think there message is there in big bold letters saying read me

Maybe that’s why I don’t message much as I know how mental things are

Winks aren’t much use either as you also have soo many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete them then. If it’s bothering you enough to create a post about it there’s a mass delete function.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met with a girl last night she showed me she had 500 odd unread mails. I was shocked, woman get absolutely hounded on this no wonder some of them get frustrated. I wouldn't mind 500 mails from woman though haha

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By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Delete them then. If it’s bothering you enough to create a post about it there’s a mass delete function."

Can only delete

All read or all

Would be better to delete all unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 204 unread messages

How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that

You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite

Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message

It’s never ending "

Be an ignorant wee bastard like me and dinghy them

I expect a message to thank me for this btw...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It be nice to get some messages

You should apply for the job as the OPs PA then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It be nice to get some messages

You should apply for the job as the OPs PA then

"
less of the old

You’re Only as Old as You Feel

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"Im a bit pissed i only got 3 today ,must be doing something wrong ?

Christ even I got more than you and I have a penis. "
feel worse now

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

I've had 1 message today.

It's being fat and in the back of beyond I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just did a delete all and hid my profile so a nice empty mail box

Only friends and people I've chatted to in the past message me which is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It be nice to get some messages

You should apply for the job as the OPs PA then

less of the old

You’re Only as Old as You Feel"

PA...personal assistant...Did you think I meant OAP?

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I have 204 unread messages

How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that

You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite

Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message

It’s never ending

Activate your message filters and invest time in searching for those that appeal to you instead

Saved me enough hours to actually meet people

Exactly how it works best for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just did a delete all and hid my profile so a nice empty mail box

Only friends and people I've chatted to in the past message me which is a bonus "

Nice innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 1 message today.

It's being fat and in the back of beyond I think."

Oban isn't that far out. You folks have electricity and mains gas. And shoes.

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