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Younger men...under 30 to be precise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi ladies and gentlemen

I would really like to give younger men a chance but I have been left disappointed in the past and by that I mean they seem to think that real sex is what they watch on porno websites, I am very sensual and I like to take my time to discover each other's bodies, I find that when I get messages from younger men, first of all they don't take the time to read my profile but they think they know what I want without really trying to get to know me, the biggest turn off is sexually explicit messages telling me what they want to to do to me straight away.

Your thoughts and experiences much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really cant generalise every young guy like that.

Me personally dont meet younger guys as it's more a what the hell do we talk about and why is a hot fit young guy wanna shag me for lol

More to do with my insecurities than anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You really cant generalise every young guy like that.

Me personally dont meet younger guys as it's more a what the hell do we talk about and why is a hot fit young guy wanna shag me for lol

More to do with my insecurities than anything."

I am sharing my experience that's why I posted on the forum

By the way plenty of older men don't seem to have a problem having sex with much younger women age should not be an issue: you are a goddess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman always cums first in my book, much rather spend time making love to her entire body and teasing her onto the edge then away again,so many women have worries about self image as do many guys, lights are always on so they can see you pleasuring them, i think you should want to spend more time and effort rather than a quick fuck, just an older guys point of view

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hi ladies and gentlemen

I would really like to give younger men a chance but I have been left disappointed in the past and by that I mean they seem to think that real sex is what they watch on porno websites, I am very sensual and I like to take my time to discover each other's bodies, I find that when I get messages from younger men, first of all they don't take the time to read my profile but they think they know what I want without really trying to get to know me, the biggest turn off is sexually explicit messages telling me what they want to to do to me straight away.

Your thoughts and experiences much appreciated "
Block all men & do your own search and that should eliminate the kind of men your attracting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ladies and gentlemen

I would really like to give younger men a chance but I have been left disappointed in the past and by that I mean they seem to think that real sex is what they watch on porno websites, I am very sensual and I like to take my time to discover each other's bodies, I find that when I get messages from younger men, first of all they don't take the time to read my profile but they think they know what I want without really trying to get to know me, the biggest turn off is sexually explicit messages telling me what they want to to do to me straight away.

Your thoughts and experiences much appreciated Block all men & do your own search and that should eliminate the kind of men your attracting "

I agree with Jacs on this one, block all men that negates unwanted messages and then do your own search for what you want from the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think older women should give us good younger guys a chance. We are all different some off us like to meet and treat tight .

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By *xxx30Man
over a year ago

york


"Hi ladies and gentlemen

I would really like to give younger men a chance but I have been left disappointed in the past and by that I mean they seem to think that real sex is what they watch on porno websites, I am very sensual and I like to take my time to discover each other's bodies, I find that when I get messages from younger men, first of all they don't take the time to read my profile but they think they know what I want without really trying to get to know me, the biggest turn off is sexually explicit messages telling me what they want to to do to me straight away.

Your thoughts and experiences much appreciated "

Drop me a message lol and we can sort something out that’ll prove ya wrong x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally I'm much more attracted to younger men I think it's all about preference, I've had some great experiences with them , think the single younger guy gets the raw end of the deal on here and that's a shame everyone uses the site for what they want to get out of it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really cant generalise every young guy like that.

Me personally dont meet younger guys as it's more a what the hell do we talk about and why is a hot fit young guy wanna shag me for lol

More to do with my insecurities than anything."

I get this completely. The way some young guys say they want to "try" an older woman makes it sound like a bucket list too...

"2020 goals....

~ bungee jump

~ finish my sleeve

~ Thailand

~ bang a Granny"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the young single guys on here get raw deal .also some men just like older women not just shag a granny.

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By *innettMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen/perth


"I think the young single guys on here get raw deal .also some men just like older women not just shag a granny. "

Your not wrong there. Everyone on this site is different. I'm sorry but I've seen some messages from a few friends on here that are 40+ and they are just as bad I'd not sometimes worse than what I know a few younger people send.

Also... there are plenty younger women looking for older men just as much as younger men looking for older women.

For me it's about the attraction not the age. I dont think oft shes forty! Shes fit.

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By *eepitonwaxMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Being an ex young guy under 30 I was always concerned with what the other person wanted as well as my own needs, that’s why you talk first. If you want a fuck frenzy and they want it more vanilla or vice versa then should you even meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really cant generalise every young guy like that.

Me personally dont meet younger guys as it's more a what the hell do we talk about and why is a hot fit young guy wanna shag me for lol

More to do with my insecurities than anything.

I get this completely. The way some young guys say they want to "try" an older woman makes it sound like a bucket list too...

"2020 goals....

~ bungee jump

~ finish my sleeve

~ Thailand

~ bang a Granny"

"

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really cant generalise every young guy like that.

Me personally dont meet younger guys as it's more a what the hell do we talk about and why is a hot fit young guy wanna shag me for lol

More to do with my insecurities than anything.

I get this completely. The way some young guys say they want to "try" an older woman makes it sound like a bucket list too...

"2020 goals....

~ bungee jump

~ finish my sleeve

~ Thailand

~ bang a Granny"

"

I'm way too "snug" to be on anyone's BUCKET list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really cant generalise every young guy like that.

Me personally dont meet younger guys as it's more a what the hell do we talk about and why is a hot fit young guy wanna shag me for lol

More to do with my insecurities than anything.

I get this completely. The way some young guys say they want to "try" an older woman makes it sound like a bucket list too...

"2020 goals....

~ bungee jump

~ finish my sleeve

~ Thailand

~ bang a Granny"

"
oi you!!! I'm no fekn granny!! Yet!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think older women should give us good younger guys a chance. We are all different some off us like to meet and treat tight ."

Treat tight or right??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat right . X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being an ex young guy under 30 I was always concerned with what the other person wanted as well as my own needs, that’s why you talk first. If you want a fuck frenzy and they want it more vanilla or vice versa then should you even meet? "

You are only 35 now

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By *otnew12Man
over a year ago

blackness

Not that I’m much older but even in my late teens and early twenties I was always attracted to older women, they have confidence and self assuredness that younger women don’t tend to have, but I do feel that there is road blocks to get past.

A lot of older women think that younger guys aren’t going to be as good in bed

A lot of them seem to think that younger men are only looking for an older women for a sort of “grab a granny” kind of thing like it’s a notch on their bedpost

And there are some out there that just get insecure about younger guys talking to them as if they don’t think that a younger man can be attracted to them anymore.

Every case is different obviously but it is something that I have found limits the fun you can have on here as a younger guy when in actual fact I personally get on with older people better and always have and prefer spending time with them too, if you talk to people you will find out if you get on or not, shutting yourself off doesn’t help anyone.

P.s I’m fully aware there are some younger guys that ruin it for the rest of us but there’s also some older guys that don’t exactly do men any favours either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I fall in the category of being 30 and looking 21-22 so kind of puts people off. I like to think I am a great meet though and always love to pleasure the lady and make sure we both do whatever possible to satisfy each other. My location doesn't help either but I travel a lot but most people want local. Maybe I'm making excuses haha

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By *eepitonwaxMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Being an ex young guy under 30 I was always concerned with what the other person wanted as well as my own needs, that’s why you talk first. If you want a fuck frenzy and they want it more vanilla or vice versa then should you even meet?

You are only 35 now "

25 feels forever ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think women should give us younger guys a chance. I generally don't even get replies from a lot of people on here and I do spend time reading profiles and personalising message. Not all the younger guys are the same, some of us do actually want to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do think women should give us younger guys a chance. I generally don't even get replies from a lot of people on here and I do spend time reading profiles and personalising message. Not all the younger guys are the same, some of us do actually want to meet"

Most young guys cannot accommodate and let me tell you that hosting is quite a bit of work before and after if like me you take pride in your home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think women should give us younger guys a chance. I generally don't even get replies from a lot of people on here and I do spend time reading profiles and personalising message. Not all the younger guys are the same, some of us do actually want to meet

Most young guys cannot accommodate and let me tell you that hosting is quite a bit of work before and after if like me you take pride in your home "

Ahh...so it doesn’t take a bit of work and time before and after for the guy ? ..yet..you think guys don’t take any pride in their home ?

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By *ohnlicksMan
over a year ago

New Delhi, India


"I do think women should give us younger guys a chance. I generally don't even get replies from a lot of people on here and I do spend time reading profiles and personalising message. Not all the younger guys are the same, some of us do actually want to meet..

Most young guys cannot accommodate and let me tell you that hosting is quite a bit of work before and after if like me you take pride in your home "

I am.up for hosting older women but i rarely get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think women should give us younger guys a chance. I generally don't even get replies from a lot of people on here and I do spend time reading profiles and personalising message. Not all the younger guys are the same, some of us do actually want to meet

Most young guys cannot accommodate and let me tell you that hosting is quite a bit of work before and after if like me you take pride in your home "

I understand people can't accommodate sometimes. However I'm sure there are people, myself included, who are willing to pay for hotels

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By *hrekfionaCouple
over a year ago

Leven

with younger guys have met/spoke with, find they dont take no for an answer, just want quick car fun , but most of all the "it's all about them" think out the ones I've met only 1 has taken the time to make sure I was satisfied aswell.

But on older guys I've been with some are looking for more than what's on offer

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I've had good and bad experiences with younger guys, but it's not really about their age but more to do with their maturity and attitude

And I also get messages from guys in their late 30s saying they like older women (I'm 41)

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By *urious1973Man
over a year ago

angus

Give us middle age guys a message instead lol

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