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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How did you "come out" to each other as swingers? Reading other posts got me thinking... who initiated that first conversation "I think we should shag Keith and Deirdre"?

Is it more often that the man-half of the couple suggests it first? Were most of you swinging before marriage, and hooked up with another swinger? Do your kids know you swing?

I have more questions, but that's enough for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 night we were chatting about fantasies.

Took it from there

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

From the start, we were super open about fantasies on our first few dates. Pretty sure I (female) brought it up first

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"1 night we were chatting about fantasies.

Took it from there "

this exactly

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

For us it was Mrs who first broached it. Mr was very pleasantly surprised!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"1 night we were chatting about fantasies.

Took it from there "
This!

Altho I took some persuading he managed to convince me in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a d*unken 3some one night with a female friend then talked about it a couple of days later. Ended up on here.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've always been bi and had swinging experiences in a previous relationship, was honest from the start with John so suppose you could say I corrupted him

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

After 20 odd years found out hubby was bi but hadnt acted on it ,decided he could either do his own thing or we do this but both decided to be on here and so far its been good but once one of us isnt happy we stop as our life outside here is no1 ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst watching dp mmf porn - ooooft!

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket


"After 20 odd years found out hubby was bi but hadnt acted on it ,decided he could either do his own thing or we do this but both decided to be on here and so far its been good but once one of us isnt happy we stop as our life outside here is no1 .."
Hi, you look stunning. Wish I lived in Scotland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was talking about our fantasy and hubby said he would like to watch me (mrs) with another guy.

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Female half is Bi, we talked a few times about it. Went to a few gay clubs, she picked up a few chicks, I wasn’t involved except as a bystander... wasn’t the best for me, went to a swinger club and had a jolly good old time and that was years ago. Our boundaries have expanded massively since then..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Said she wanted to be with a girl it escalated from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn’t ‘come out’ we spoke about fantasies and past endeavours and it evolved from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d spoken about fantasies and swinging even before we met up for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about fantasy’s Jane wanted to meet one of my work mates met him and took things from there.

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By *pl 4 funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mrs is bi and we have always hoped to find a girl etc but easier said than done. I came home from work one day and Mrs said I have something to show you. She found Fab site and we joined up and took it from there. Really glad she found it as we have had great fun and made some really good friends.

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso

I think we were just talking about sexual fantasies too so eventually joined a similar site to this and took it from there ??

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By *ilf n filfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Got tired of normal relationships So I vowed with the next one I will bring it up straight away. Which I did on the second date!!

I have something to tell you!! I’m a swinger..

oh right interesting ..

Any one wants to know more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I met my boyfriend (now hubby) we were talking about our past and he had tabbled in his youth. My curiosity for the details and my bodily fluid reaction to our chat suggested I was more turned on by the idea than I realised...... More talk, a lot of wine one night and 2 became 3

The rest is history. No ‘slicing up a dull sex life’, just exploring and unleashing our sexuality together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to a friend about a night at cjs, she mentioned she read a lot of 50 shades kind of books and aroused and interest, so being a gentleman i offered to take her to cjs for a look , now shes well on way down the yellow brick road of fantasies and loving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby and i been together since our teens, been best friends and always spoken openly about things like fanatasies, ffm/ffmm but then babies came, work and life took over, 20 odd years later with all the ups and downs of life decided we've done the hard work, now time to have fun so i suggested swinging since we both are secure in our marriage and love the idea of sharing each other , so lets make it a reality and see how it goes, signed up to fab and following month booked hotel and made our first visit to cjs. That was july last year and we have had the best time ever. Socializing with like minded people even if we dont hook up with anyone our sex life is amazing always has been only now it has that xtra bit more fun added, boosted the passion and we both have our time out once a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 night we were chatting about fantasies.

Took it from there "

Much the same as us but was a mutual decision that we would like to pursue it.

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By *hrekfionaCouple
over a year ago

Leven

Mr used to be on the site with his ex about 10yrs ago, he told me from the start about his past. I told him wasnt my thing, but guess curiosity got the better of me

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

We met on here

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