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By *unboyb9362 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

OK, I'm finally in a position to attend a party at CJs, and have wanted to to go for years!

But I am SO nervous about it.

The thought of walking in there on my own terrifies me.

Is it really as relaxed as it seems?

Reassurance needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so. My partner and I went for the first time last week. We were shown around, explained the rules and then we went to the bar and had a drink. We got chatting to a few people and it was if we were just at a house party. Until later on upstairs where fun was happening...

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Yes it’s a friendly as people make out. The staff are great, my advice is to chat to people as soon as possible when you get in there.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

1st time before Xmas, everyone very friendly , and made to feel at ease/ comfortable. You've no worries , just be you and be chatty and you'll be fine

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By *tillGame4ItCouple
over a year ago

ayrshire

Yes deffo Staff are fantastic and so welcoming and people so nice and friendly. Plenty of banter in the smoking area! As long as you are polite and respectful when approaching people and start a conversation you will be fine! ??

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Just be cool, don’t get absolutely blotto, chat, be yourself, say hello to folks.. but as a single guy, know the rules....

Apart from that it’s just like a house party as others have said.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Have a look at the forum for the night that you’re going and chat on the forum.

There’s sometimes a social beforehand as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is cjs on tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is cjs on tonight "

It is but at last notice I think it was fully booked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is cjs on tonight

It is but at last notice I think it was fully booked out"
thanks very much

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Can understand how it may feel daunting going there for first time but once you walk through the door you'll wonder why you were soo nervous about it lol ..just Don't get pissed and make an arse of yourself and don't go expecting to get your leg over and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went for the first time a few weeks ago in a Saturday night and had a lovely time. Chatted to lots of folk there, and ask just nice genuine people. As previously said, don't just focus on the sex side, if you are friendly and spend time chatting that side of things is more likely to happen for you. Just try to relax, have a beer and chat. It's s good night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going tonight maybe can I someone hold my hand plz

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By *ittlebitofpleasure100Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We are going for the first time too and feeling nervous! Come say hi to me and the hubby. I have a pink bowl cut lol. You can’t miss my made hair. D x

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By *unboyb9362 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks so much for all the advice and reassurance!

It certainly sounds like my kind of place.

Relaxed, no pressure, fun if you want it etc.

I am definitely going to book a space ay the next "fun for all" evening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally what I wanted to ask.

Going still gives me the fear lol. I'm sure everyone is nice, but dont want to be one of those solo guys stuck on my tod all night. ??

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