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"Hey does anyone think it's wrong for me to be on here when i am married and gave birth not that long ago don't get me wrong I have a great sex life but since giving birth I want something for me is that a good thing or am I being selfish" depends on whether its known by your partner | |||
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"I agree with the above comments. Go for a social meet and see how you feel. It’s great to explore new things and Fab is great but some people can’t cope with the guilt. Chat with people, meet in a public place and don’t do anything your not comfortable with. There’s no obligation to do anything. I do find Fab a great way to learn about things. " | |||
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"Stand back the morally justified are coming through " She has tits, so that makes it okay | |||
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"While I am all for people seeking more to make them happy, I'm also frustrated by the double standards. If a man had posted this.. "is it wrong I'm here when my wife gave birth not long ago" The responses of don't be a dick would have been in every comment... As someone who played away while married with children, I say we all do what we need to do but be careful. I've been on my own almost 12 years now and that's no picnic either " You took the words right out my mouth, the double standards on the forums are amazing. Had a guy posted this he would be slaughtered. Back to you OP. The baby steps advice is nonsense in my opinion, if your meeting someone for a coffee to see how you feel about cheating then that coffee is cheating just as much as you continue on to having sex or not. My guess is you have already made your mind up your doing it and now seek approval. Do what you want OP, and I mean that in a nice way. I'm sure you have weighed up the pros and cons of it and as long as your willing to accept the possible outcome if you get caught then that's OK. Your life is unique to you, your circumstances are unique to you, hope you have all the fun you seek and it makes your marriage stronger, it can happen trust me. Just be carefull who you meet and how much you tell others about your circumstances. Nothing more dangerous than having someone threaten to out you because you stopped meeting them. Good luck OP. | |||
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"Stand back the morally justified are coming through She has tits, so that makes it okay " Excuse me, I think you'll find I have quite a nice set peaked with a provocative nipple mysell. Lol | |||
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"Hey does anyone think it's wrong for me to be on here when i am married and gave birth not that long ago don't get me wrong I have a great sex life but since giving birth I want something for me is that a good thing or am I being selfish" Only you can decide this but bear in mind the consequences if your husband finds out. If you’ve not long given birth your hormones are probably all over the place so you may not be thinking rationally. Why not try the group socials first and see how you feel as then it’s not a one to one and you can see how you get on there Whatever you decide I hope it works out for you | |||
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"Only my opinion but cheating is cheating whether it’s a man or woman doing it. I don’t know if you will be leaving your baby with your husband if you ever go on meets but to me that just doesn’t sit right and I would say the same if a man was out cheating while his wife was at home looking after his children. I hope you’re prepared to pick up the pieces for your daughter if he ever finds out " And I hope she's prepared for a long and happy marriage with a loving husband and daughter if he never finds out. | |||
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"Only my opinion but cheating is cheating whether it’s a man or woman doing it. I don’t know if you will be leaving your baby with your husband if you ever go on meets but to me that just doesn’t sit right and I would say the same if a man was out cheating while his wife was at home looking after his children. I hope you’re prepared to pick up the pieces for your daughter if he ever finds out And I hope she's prepared for a long and happy marriage with a loving husband and daughter if he never finds out. " Again just my opinion but that situation would not equal a happy marriage for me. I couldn’t lie to someone I love and betray their trust like that but hey as I said that’s just me | |||
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"Hey does anyone think it's wrong for me to be on here when i am married and gave birth not that long ago don't get me wrong I have a great sex life but since giving birth I want something for me is that a good thing or am I being selfish" I say theres nothing wrong with looking after no1. There is quite a lot of married/attached females on the site and I say each to their own, if your happy then do it x | |||
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"Hey does anyone think it's wrong for me to be on here when i am married and gave birth not that long ago don't get me wrong I have a great sex life but since giving birth I want something for me is that a good thing or am I being selfish I say theres nothing wrong with looking after no1. There is quite a lot of married/attached females on the site and I say each to their own, if your happy then do it x" I would say your priorities should change when you become a parent as it’s not all about you anymore and you become or should become less selfish but that’s just my opinion people will do what they want | |||
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"Would loved to have seen the comments if a guy had posted this. " This. Guys all validating her hoping to get their dicks wet | |||
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"Having a baby is a huge thing, it's not unusual to feel like you don't quite know who you are any more. I'm not sure being on here is the answer though & the damage that it could cause to your relationship/family shouldn't be taken lightly. I'd be focusing on reestablishing and strengthening my relationship with my partner rather than joining a swingers site (unless of course he knows that you are on here and is OK with that). " | |||
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"It is good to note that normally on a guys post it tends to be women who comment, on this the positive comments were from men.. maybe who are sexually attracted to her? If you are on this website behind your partner's back then you really need to have a chat with a partner about what you're not getting from your current relationship. Going behind your most loved ones back is the worst thing you can do. If you're here with their consent and you're just worried because you're a new mum then you're fine" THIS. If your in a relationship then you must be honest and trustworthy with them or there is no relationship. | |||
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"I wonder if part of this is, as mentioned earlier, that your hormones are all over the place. We’ve been popping on and off here for about a year and a half and have noticed a fair few ‘new mums’ joining and then leaving again. Wonder if it is because they feel guilt, are put off by the deluge of cock pics they receive or if they realise that talking to their partner is the best course of action. Maybe your partner would want to join with you. " This | |||
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"Would loved to have seen the comments if a guy had posted this. This. Guys all validating her hoping to get their dicks wet " no validation from me my views of this on both genders is the same the person you made a commitment to should be aware of what's going on simples | |||
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"Hey does anyone think it's wrong for me to be on here when i am married and gave birth not that long ago don't get me wrong I have a great sex life but since giving birth I want something for me is that a good thing or am I being selfish" you only get one life so why not if you want to x | |||
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"If your other half isn't aware then we would say its wrong. Might be worth sitting down with him and letting him know how you feel. You never know he might be up for joining you on here." When kat spoke to me about it I was well up for it so I'm sure your fella would be | |||
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"Commumication is never a bad thing in a relationship but those saying she should talk to her hubby...he may be up for it....She's said they have a satisfying sex life and that she wants something for herself. Sounds to me like the OP wants this to be a purely solo venture." Solo venture or not she should at least be upfront with her partner and tell him she’s here and looking surely? | |||
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"Commumication is never a bad thing in a relationship but those saying she should talk to her hubby...he may be up for it....She's said they have a satisfying sex life and that she wants something for herself. Sounds to me like the OP wants this to be a purely solo venture. Solo venture or not she should at least be upfront with her partner and tell him she’s here and looking surely? " In an ideal world yes, but she said she's wanting something for herself. I'm not saying she should or shouldn't tell him. Just highlighting that it looks like she's on here purely for her own satisfaction. | |||
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"Commumication is never a bad thing in a relationship but those saying she should talk to her hubby...he may be up for it....She's said they have a satisfying sex life and that she wants something for herself. Sounds to me like the OP wants this to be a purely solo venture. Solo venture or not she should at least be upfront with her partner and tell him she’s here and looking surely? In an ideal world yes, but she said she's wanting something for herself. I'm not saying she should or shouldn't tell him. Just highlighting that it looks like she's on here purely for her own satisfaction." Yeah and I’m not saying her partner should join in, but she’s in a relationship so she should let her partner know she is here and looking to play alone! | |||
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"but why does the opinions of strangers on a sex site matter to you, you do what you want to regardless! " Good advertising. | |||
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"A guy did post similar yesterday on his post I said it was wrong and on this post I will say it is wrong ... but why does the opinions of strangers on a sex site matter to you, you do what you want to regardless! " I think she’s looking for people to validate the fact that she’s looking to cheat on her husband which I’m sure she will get but also she will have to be prepared for others telling her that in their opinion what she’s doing is wrong and yes selfish | |||
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"I don’t see the point in posts like this from either male or female, and if I’m honest I’d say the whole post/profile is wrong and I’m willing to call it either a fake or an attention seeker. If you’re married say you are so anyone contacting you can make a decision on wether they will meet you or not but the rest about your kid, line of work and supposed sex Life makes me think think there’s something not right. " This ^^^ | |||
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"I don’t see the point in posts like this from either male or female, and if I’m honest I’d say the whole post/profile is wrong and I’m willing to call it either a fake or an attention seeker. If you’re married say you are so anyone contacting you can make a decision on wether they will meet you or not but the rest about your kid, line of work and supposed sex Life makes me think think there’s something not right. " I'd reconsider using the word "broody" on a sex site profile. Nothing puts the boys off the milkshake faster than giggly hints of breeding. Although I'm sure some miscreant will be along to prove me wrong.. | |||
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"I don’t see the point in posts like this from either male or female, and if I’m honest I’d say the whole post/profile is wrong and I’m willing to call it either a fake or an attention seeker. If you’re married say you are so anyone contacting you can make a decision on wether they will meet you or not but the rest about your kid, line of work and supposed sex Life makes me think think there’s something not right. " Least you know you might get your barnet trimmed if nothing else | |||
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"I don’t see the point in posts like this from either male or female, and if I’m honest I’d say the whole post/profile is wrong and I’m willing to call it either a fake or an attention seeker. If you’re married say you are so anyone contacting you can make a decision on wether they will meet you or not but the rest about your kid, line of work and supposed sex Life makes me think think there’s something not right. Least you know you might get your barnet trimmed if nothing else " lol yeah true | |||
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"While I am all for people seeking more to make them happy, I'm also frustrated by the double standards. If a man had posted this.. "is it wrong I'm here when my wife gave birth not long ago" The responses of don't be a dick would have been in every comment... As someone who played away while married with children, I say we all do what we need to do but be careful. I've been on my own almost 12 years now and that's no picnic either " Pretty much. | |||
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"I think it's wrong. But it's not up to me, you don't need to justify yourself to the people on this site. This is between you, your young family and whoever takes you up on wanting to cheat. If you are a brand new mum, maybe stop to think for a moment your hormones might have temporarily turned you into a total nutcase (or even more of a nutcase if you were already one before), so don't rush to get your fill x" Totally agree hormones after baby for sure. She will be having an episode of overwhelming explosion of hormones. | |||
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"Op said she has not long had a baby, to me this says her hormones are still all over the place and not a good time to be making decisions until at least 6 months post. Its obvious she will be wanting more, shes hit an emotional overload of emotions so wants to explore things whilst she is feeling this way but this is not the right time. Just my opinion. X" This | |||
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"Have none of you done a reverse image search on this profile? " Yes one of the pictures has been online for about 4 or 5 years on a different site, it’s definitely a bloke behind this profile | |||
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"Have none of you done a reverse image search on this profile? " | |||
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"Have none of you done a reverse image search on this profile? " yes | |||
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"Have none of you done a reverse image search on this profile? yes " Can I ask what is a reverse image search? | |||
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"Have none of you done a reverse image search on this profile? Yes one of the pictures has been online for about 4 or 5 years on a different site, it’s definitely a bloke behind this profile " This actually made me chuckle! Thinking of some big hairy arsed trucker who made it to the no1 spot on hot pics! | |||
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"What amuses me is that no one seems to have noticed that the OP has not returned to comment once. Just laid a forum bomb & buggered off. " She's busy being a mummy and running her hair salon too mind. Not easy for us working mothers | |||
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"Hands up who messaged her offering their company to the poor soul." I messaged to ask how much she takes for a wet cut . Need it done for the weekend. | |||
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"......and just like that......he was gone.... " Was just about to say the same I give it a week before another profile appears | |||
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"......and just like that......he was gone.... " | |||
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"......and just like that......he was gone.... Was just about to say the same I give it a week before another profile appears " But we'll be wise to him next time...we won't be fooled by those big full titties and sob story....Mibbes | |||
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"......and just like that......he was gone.... " Keyzer Soze! | |||
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"I agree with sinderella, If this was a man posting this,He would be getting from all angles. Do what you have to do but be careful x" D'oh In other news, Brexit went ahead. | |||
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"What amuses me is that no one seems to have noticed that the OP has not returned to comment once. Just laid a forum bomb & buggered off. " A forum bomb!!! I like that expression | |||
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"Said this earlier, but the horny recent Mummy thing seems to come up every so often. It takes all sorts, but it does mean that there is at least one guy out there using fab that gets turned on by talk about a new baby, feeding her etc. Very bizarre. Look forward to the next one " When I was breast feeding last thing I felt was sexy stood in the loos at a club squeezing the life out my tits trying to express milk because they had doubled in size and I was in agony and having leaky wet patches on my clothes lol | |||
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"Said this earlier, but the horny recent Mummy thing seems to come up every so often. It takes all sorts, but it does mean that there is at least one guy out there using fab that gets turned on by talk about a new baby, feeding her etc. Very bizarre. Look forward to the next one When I was breast feeding last thing I felt was sexy stood in the loos at a club squeezing the life out my tits trying to express milk because they had doubled in size and I was in agony and having leaky wet patches on my clothes lol " Same here, never mind the wet patches but nothing worse that rock hard boobs filling up and feeling like they are ready to explode lol | |||
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