FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked out of nowhere

By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

Wondering where this went wrong. If it was an unverified and new profile I'd have thought nothing of it. However it was a verified profile that I'm pretty sure has been here for some time.

I was blocked by someone completely out of the blue. We had chatted a few times in the past and yesterday we chatted some more exchanged face pics which led to me saying I'd like to meet. They said they would to and I typed a reply suggesting some possible times, I hit send and boom I get 'you cannot message because the user has blocked you' (or something to that affect) did not see that coming. So I'm left pretty confused wondering what went wrong. Anyone else experienced this?

I'm only posting this because I'm actually gutted and secretly hoping it was caused by some weird glitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to us all.

I got chatted to a person as well with the same to meet. Then all of sudden block out of the blue

Just move on

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've maybe blocked single guys. If your messages ate still there, you should be able to reply and ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true

Could be this or something you said. I've been mid conversation with someone and been blocked. And done the

Life is too short (and your Fab lifespan even shorter) to stress too much about it.

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

I'd have thought that had it happened after I sent it but I received one in return without asking and the conversation continued for some time. Like I said if it has been an unverified new profile I'd have just thought the realisation of an actual meet scared them away. It could still be that, who knows. Just found it really odd

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

"They've maybe blocked single guys. If your messages ate still there, you should be able to reply and ask?"

Here's the really odd thing. The conversation is still there. Even showing the blue dot going on and off next to their name.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

There are some odd loopholes in fab UI design, but if you're blocked, just consider that as they didn't fancy your face and didn't want to be harsh about it. Forget it, move on...better that that being stood up for the meet!

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

"There are some odd loopholes in fab UI design, but if you're blocked, just consider that as they didn't fancy your face and didn't want to be harsh about it. Forget it, move on...better that that being stood up for the meet!"

That is very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've maybe blocked single guys. If your messages ate still there, you should be able to reply and ask?

Here's the really odd thing. The conversation is still there. Even showing the blue dot going on and off next to their name."

If the conversation is still there, I dont think she has blocked you personally. She maybe really likes you but has blocked all single men because shes fed up being bombarded with shit. I would try and message her back and see what's said.

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By *forfun2k3Couple
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

Messages stay there even though you block or someone blocks you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hapens to me one min they spoke to u ask for a pic then block u

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

"They've maybe blocked single guys. If your messages ate still there, you should be able to reply and ask?

Here's the really odd thing. The conversation is still there. Even showing the blue dot going on and off next to their name.

I like your positive take on it. It'd be nice if you're right. But when you try to message it comes back and says I can't send to that profile. Below that it says 'Why? Because your blocked' In the case of where single guys has been blocked it says you can't for that reason.

As much as I prefer your outlook sadly I think everyone else has hit the nail on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..

I did that once....they tore me a new arsehole then blocked me

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..

Ha ha yea my mate fancies you why won't you speak to him

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach well man...chin up dude!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent."

I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.

I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x "

That's exactly it. I guess it's bothered me because I just wouldn't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..

I did that once....they tore me a new arsehole then blocked me

Four holes are a goal now.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true

But why would they not just say straight away and still go along with meeting up? Don't get these people x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true

But why would they not just say straight away and still go along with meeting up? Don't get these people x"

Actually, this is just basically meaning that you should be glad it never went any further OP. Sod them, you're better off without x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..

Ha ha yea my mate fancies you why won't you speak to him"

It can't be the same friend as mine, he said the woman he likes was very articulate . That's definitely not Mrs Doggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..

Ha ha yea my mate fancies you why won't you speak to him

It can't be the same friend as mine, he said the woman he likes was very articulate . That's definitely not Mrs Doggy

Ram it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true

But why would they not just say straight away and still go along with meeting up? Don't get these people x"
its not a rule to say it. I've been block for other reasons or another. Don't go moaning about it.

Then you get block even more

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true

But why would they not just say straight away and still go along with meeting up? Don't get these people x

Actually, this is just basically meaning that you should be glad it never went any further OP. Sod them, you're better off without x"

Yea maybe you're. I don't get why someone wouldn't just be honest either. I'm glad I'm not alone thinking this.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

First rule of Fab.

There is no consistency nor logic to blocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.

I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x "

I've been blocked without even speaking to some people on here. Went to look at their profile for the first time and BLOCKED, shrugged it off and moved on

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.

I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x

I've been blocked without even speaking to some people on here. Went to look at their profile for the first time and BLOCKED, shrugged it off and moved on"

I've blocked people sometimes without ever exchanging messages. It could be a status, a username, something someone said on the forum. To avoid someone I would never ever meet and have absolutely no interest in ever hearing from I have used the block button.

But after exchanging loads of messages, face pics and both still seem up for meeting I'd think it would be the decent thing to say to someone you've had a change of heart. But that's just me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.

I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x

I've been blocked without even speaking to some people on here. Went to look at their profile for the first time and BLOCKED, shrugged it off and moved on

But after exchanging loads of messages, face pics and both still seem up for meeting I'd think it would be the decent thing to say to someone you've had a change of heart. But that's just me x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true

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gotta agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering where this went wrong. If it was an unverified and new profile I'd have thought nothing of it. However it was a verified profile that I'm pretty sure has been here for some time.

I'm only posting this because I'm actually gutted and secretly hoping it was caused by some weird glitch."

Yes, wouldn’t bother your arse if I were you

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch

Nice one lad....you'll be chuffed to bits now? Good luck with a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've blocked people sometimes without ever exchanging messages. It could be a status, a username, something someone said on the forum. To avoid someone I would never ever meet and have absolutely no interest in ever hearing from I have used the block button. "

Haha I thought this was just me. Passive-aggressive status updates hurling contempt into the void get a block ever time. Nine times out of ten these are the same people proclaiming "no dramaz".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus us guys we are not mind readers it's just rude to block without response back

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By *he way you move OP Man
over a year ago

inverness

"My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch

Nice one lad....you'll be chuffed to bits now? Good luck with a meet!

Thanks, I'm absolutely over the moon

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch

Nice one lad....you'll be chuffed to bits now? Good luck with a meet!

Thanks, I'm absolutely over the moon"

Slip of the finger?

Good for you x

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch

Nice one lad....you'll be chuffed to bits now? Good luck with a meet!

Thanks, I'm absolutely over the moon

Slip of the finger?

Good for you x"

Read this forum thread and felt guilty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me twice almost three times before by the same person was chatting away then blocked they then messaged again with a few different pics and then blocked, 3rd time I got in there 1st blocked her had a beer and moved on some folk are weird accept it and move on.

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