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"Who meets without seeing what the person looks like? Not a chance!." | |||
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"No one and I repeat no one has a job that they can't be on a adult site, people have hid behind that shit excuse for too long on here They might not want it to be common knowledge but at some point in time a facepic should be sent, I wouldn't even goto a party without seeing pics of most attending but maybe that's just me John " This | |||
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"No one and I repeat no one has a job that they can't be on a adult site, people have hid behind that shit excuse for too long on here They might not want it to be common knowledge but at some point in time a facepic should be sent, I wouldn't even goto a party without seeing pics of most attending but maybe that's just me John " Never a good night when you walk in and it's like you've stepped into the bar in Star Wars | |||
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"No compromise, face pic in first few messages or I’m not interested... not really any excuses good enough for me I’m afraid, not wasting any of my time on someone I’m not attracted to " Agreed | |||
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"No one and I repeat no one has a job that they can't be on a adult site, people have hid behind that shit excuse for too long on here They might not want it to be common knowledge but at some point in time a facepic should be sent, I wouldn't even goto a party without seeing pics of most attending but maybe that's just me John Never a good night when you walk in and it's like you've stepped into the bar in Star Wars " I’d love this Dibs on the Twi’lek | |||
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"No one and I repeat no one has a job that they can't be on a adult site, people have hid behind that shit excuse for too long on here They might not want it to be common knowledge but at some point in time a facepic should be sent, I wouldn't even goto a party without seeing pics of most attending but maybe that's just me John " Two friends chatting... 1 Alright mate how you doing. 2 No bad man, what you up to? 1 fuck all mate, fancy going to a party on saturday? 2 aye mate. Sounds good. Just send me a picture of everybody's faces first.. 1 what?? Dont be ridiculous. Ya weirdo. lol. | |||
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"No one and I repeat no one has a job that they can't be on a adult site, people have hid behind that shit excuse for too long on here They might not want it to be common knowledge but at some point in time a facepic should be sent, I wouldn't even goto a party without seeing pics of most attending but maybe that's just me John Never a good night when you walk in and it's like you've stepped into the bar in Star Wars I’d love this Dibs on the Twi’lek" Aye but you'd pump Yoda | |||
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"No one and I repeat no one has a job that they can't be on a adult site, people have hid behind that shit excuse for too long on here They might not want it to be common knowledge but at some point in time a facepic should be sent, I wouldn't even goto a party without seeing pics of most attending but maybe that's just me John Two friends chatting... 1 Alright mate how you doing. 2 No bad man, what you up to? 1 fuck all mate, fancy going to a party on saturday? 2 aye mate. Sounds good. Just send me a picture of everybody's faces first.. 1 what?? Dont be ridiculous. Ya weirdo. lol. " I'd rather be careful than go with weirdos so watch your tongue, parties with your friends are different (if you mean fab parties) as you can trust their judgements most of the time John | |||
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"So I have a friend.. he likes the look of a lady from Fab by her pictures on show and a very articulate profile bio, however, reading her profile, as he always does with all profiles, she requests a face picture with any initial message. Due to the nature of his job he cannot send a face picture and for this reason would not ask for one in return either. He would happily meet her dependant on how any conversations may progress should he ever get the chance and see from there if there is a mutual attraction. If no mutual attraction then it's still only been an hour of your time for a coffee that's been lost. So does he, message her and explain but obviously breaking the first rule of Fab, reading a profile. Not message as he encloses no face picture Send a wink , where she will probably ignore as her profile does not mention sending a wink. My friend is looking for suggestions from ladies from Fab who prefer to have face pics in the first message and whether compromises are ever made. " Surely meeting blind is even more risky !... You could be meeting a colleague or Family member for all you know so surely face pics would eliminate that from happening. The cant share face pics due to job is not an excuse | |||
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"No one and I repeat no one has a job that they can't be on a adult site, people have hid behind that shit excuse for too long on here They might not want it to be common knowledge but at some point in time a facepic should be sent, I wouldn't even goto a party without seeing pics of most attending but maybe that's just me John Never a good night when you walk in and it's like you've stepped into the bar in Star Wars I’d love this Dibs on the Twi’lek Aye but you'd pump Yoda " The force is strong with this one ( no lube ) | |||
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"So I have a friend.. he likes the look of a lady from Fab by her pictures on show and a very articulate profile bio, however, reading her profile, as he always does with all profiles, she requests a face picture with any initial message. Due to the nature of his job he cannot send a face picture and for this reason would not ask for one in return either. He would happily meet her dependant on how any conversations may progress should he ever get the chance and see from there if there is a mutual attraction. If no mutual attraction then it's still only been an hour of your time for a coffee that's been lost. So does he, message her and explain but obviously breaking the first rule of Fab, reading a profile. Not message as he encloses no face picture Send a wink , where she will probably ignore as her profile does not mention sending a wink. My friend is looking for suggestions from ladies from Fab who prefer to have face pics in the first message and whether compromises are ever made. Surely meeting blind is even more risky !... You could be meeting a colleague or Family member for all you know so surely face pics would eliminate that from happening. The cant share face pics due to job is not an excuse " Mum | |||
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"So I have a friend.. he likes the look of a lady from Fab by her pictures on show and a very articulate profile bio, however, reading her profile, as he always does with all profiles, she requests a face picture with any initial message. Due to the nature of his job he cannot send a face picture and for this reason would not ask for one in return either. He would happily meet her dependant on how any conversations may progress should he ever get the chance and see from there if there is a mutual attraction. If no mutual attraction then it's still only been an hour of your time for a coffee that's been lost. So does he, message her and explain but obviously breaking the first rule of Fab, reading a profile. Not message as he encloses no face picture Send a wink , where she will probably ignore as her profile does not mention sending a wink. My friend is looking for suggestions from ladies from Fab who prefer to have face pics in the first message and whether compromises are ever made. Surely meeting blind is even more risky !... You could be meeting a colleague or Family member for all you know so surely face pics would eliminate that from happening. The cant share face pics due to job is not an excuse Mum" see what I mean son | |||
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"No compromise, face pic in first few messages or I’m not interested... not really any excuses good enough for me I’m afraid, not wasting any of my time on someone I’m not attracted to " What this lady a said. | |||
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"See iv always been told if your attending a private party it's not the done thing to ask who else is going lol..needless to say why myself n hubby dont do parties Imagine walking in 1st 5 mins there all munters how do you make the excuse to leave!! " Pretend you've just had a call from home saying there's a problem ..sorry but you need to head back sharp | |||
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"See iv always been told if your attending a private party it's not the done thing to ask who else is going lol..needless to say why myself n hubby dont do parties Imagine walking in 1st 5 mins there all munters how do you make the excuse to leave!! Pretend you've just had a call from home saying there's a problem ..sorry but you need to head back sharp " For the record over the years ..Never used this excuse lol honest | |||
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"See iv always been told if your attending a private party it's not the done thing to ask who else is going lol..needless to say why myself n hubby dont do parties Imagine walking in 1st 5 mins there all munters how do you make the excuse to leave!! Pretend you've just had a call from home saying there's a problem ..sorry but you need to head back sharp For the record over the years ..Never used this excuse lol honest " Half an hour later you bump into most of them again in CJs John | |||
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"No compromise, face pic in first few messages or I’m not interested... not really any excuses good enough for me I’m afraid, not wasting any of my time on someone I’m not attracted to " I know two people, one of whom is still on here, who have been threatened with blackm*il or downright nastiness for no reason, with threats of pics shared in the local community. The law is of course on your side, but it's something that's always in the back of my mind. If someone is not interested in compromising, or protecting their own discretion, they can fuck off. Their loss | |||
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"Anyway back to the OP Having been on fab since day 1 practically I've found most ladies will not meet blind why would they when there are soo many guys to choose from who don't have a problem sending a face pic ..as for the "can't send because of job" I see that as a bullsh*t cop out (Just my opinion)..we all have jobs ..by all means don't send with first message ..I never have (apart from face pic friday) but you need to be prepared to take a chance at some point of chatting if you want to have a chance of being remotely successful " Thx Bunkers for keeping the thread on point. Thx for all the advice from everyone, sounds like my 'friend' is screwed without a face pic haha. He said he likes his women playing hard to get anyway. | |||
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"See iv always been told if your attending a private party it's not the done thing to ask who else is going lol..needless to say why myself n hubby dont do parties Imagine walking in 1st 5 mins there all munters how do you make the excuse to leave!! " I always ask | |||
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"See iv always been told if your attending a private party it's not the done thing to ask who else is going lol..needless to say why myself n hubby dont do parties Imagine walking in 1st 5 mins there all munters how do you make the excuse to leave!! " "Awrite Quasi! Long time no see mate...!" | |||
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"Anyway back to the OP Having been on fab since day 1 practically I've found most ladies will not meet blind why would they when there are soo many guys to choose from who don't have a problem sending a face pic ..as for the "can't send because of job" I see that as a bullsh*t cop out (Just my opinion)..we all have jobs ..by all means don't send with first message ..I never have (apart from face pic friday) but you need to be prepared to take a chance at some point of chatting if you want to have a chance of being remotely successful Thx Bunkers for keeping the thread on point. Thx for all the advice from everyone, sounds like my 'friend' is screwed without a face pic haha. He said he likes his women playing hard to get anyway. " He could always send a sketch or I look like “Henry Cavill” on a bad day type of thing? Maybe not. But I sprinkle jest on this. | |||
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"Who meets without seeing what the person looks like? Not a chance!." Me Because I refuse flat out to send pics so I'd be a hypocrite to ask for any | |||
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"If the message is articulate enough and the "friend" has read her bio and makes reference to it she may well be curious, failing that is she goes to socials then that's another way to. Potentially get that initial conversation going by attending the same ones " A decent message goes along way. Then after chat you might work on the no pic thing | |||
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"No one and I repeat no one has a job that they can't be on a adult site, people have hid behind that shit excuse for too long on here They might not want it to be common knowledge but at some point in time a facepic should be sent, I wouldn't even goto a party without seeing pics of most attending but maybe that's just me John " this | |||
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"Nah I get that some people genuinely can't share facepics due to a job. Working with kids as a teacher or youth worker you can't have stuff like that up there publicaly, even someone who has a certain role in an organisation where they speak or get recorded, you're not allowed this type of stuff. But unfortunately it's a risk you got to take if you want to get the girl. I request facepics because I don't want to waste my time, if someone doesn't want to do it on fab I suggest adding me on Snapchat to just confirm who you are. Most of the time the guys who don't want to send facepics on here arent my type.." Teachers can't send someone a face picture? How do they ever get passports or driving licenses? I'd never include nudity in the same picture as my face, so why does it matter? The only thing I don't like is the site watermark on my face picture, which links an entirely innocuous image to adult content. | |||
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"Nah I get that some people genuinely can't share facepics due to a job. Working with kids as a teacher or youth worker you can't have stuff like that up there publicaly, even someone who has a certain role in an organisation where they speak or get recorded, you're not allowed this type of stuff. But unfortunately it's a risk you got to take if you want to get the girl. I request facepics because I don't want to waste my time, if someone doesn't want to do it on fab I suggest adding me on Snapchat to just confirm who you are. Most of the time the guys who don't want to send facepics on here arent my type.. Teachers can't send someone a face picture? How do they ever get passports or driving licenses? I'd never include nudity in the same picture as my face, so why does it matter? The only thing I don't like is the site watermark on my face picture, which links an entirely innocuous image to adult content." Yup I've said this before as well about the watermark, folk can screenshot as many WhatsApp or kik convoys as they like and pics on there mean nothing unless you've got your face and bits out together but on here that Mark is there, even so the best way is just to say no. I totally respect folks choices for refusing to send pics | |||
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