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By *r n Mrs Bliss OP   Couple
over a year ago

Livingston

If someone says they can accommodate and suggest a hotel who should pay ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If someone says they can accommodate and suggest a hotel who should pay ?"
Both split the bill 50 /50 as everyones going to be having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're gonna get in a dither about who foots the bill, it's probably not wise to meet

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By *r n Mrs Bliss OP   Couple
over a year ago

Livingston

Cheers

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By *r n Mrs Bliss OP   Couple
over a year ago

Livingston


"If you're gonna get in a dither about who foots the bill, it's probably not wise to meet "

Was a general querie as we new we would like to know the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're gonna get in a dither about who foots the bill, it's probably not wise to meet

Was a general querie as we new we would like to know the rules "

Fab don't set rules for that kinda thing

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

No one, we wouldn't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet n a hotel

Especially if you get a no show. Who will fit the bill.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

If you are spending the night in the hotel, for instance a weekend away then you have absorbed the cost.

If you are planning on using a hotel for a meet then I put it down to whoever's suggested it first.

Like someone has said if it's going to be an issue its probably best avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer hotel meets as I refuse to have anyone in my house.

It really depends on the circumstances. Normally I'd always pay half. Sometimes I've paid for it all because I'm planning to be there anyway.

There's no harm in discussing it with a potential meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You act like adults and split the bill.

If someone is staying in the room overnight they pay.

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By *r n Mrs Bliss OP   Couple
over a year ago

Livingston

Thanks all for your input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I've had the offer of. However 50/50 between both parties surely ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you offer to accomadate but they want a hotel, then let them book and pay for it. Why should you pay when you were perfectly happy to play without expense at your own place.

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik


"If someone says they can accommodate and suggest a hotel who should pay ?"

I’d say they pay. If I was offering hotel as a single or couple I’d, we’d pay.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Prob better just asking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone says they can accommodate and suggest a hotel who should pay ?"

Depends on circumstances. If hotel was pre-booked for an overnight or weekend away and a meet is arranged for during that stay then no need to share hotel costs. Non payer could bring a bottle of wine possibly.

If a meet is arranged and a hotel will be used for that meet purposes then splitting the costs should be expected.

Only exception to that rule would be someone insisting that they are happy to pay hotel costs. In that scenario maybe the person or persons not sharing hotel costs could buy a drink or bring a bottle of wine along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was given a voucher for a Glasgow hotel for Christmas would be a shame to waste it all enquiries to my in box please

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

I usually always pay but if there's plans for following up then usually split the costs

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By *r n Mrs Bliss OP   Couple
over a year ago

Livingston

To clarify, we were asking as have had a couple of guys we were interested in meeting who had said they could accomodate (we can't- teen in the house). In both cases pretty much on the day of the meet they have both said they can only accomodate occasionally but would be happy to use a hotel if we agreed. Neither of these meets have gone ahead btw as I don't like goal posts being moved, but the conversation had arisen between us from there hence Mr B posting this morning. Thanks for all your input though. Mrs B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I offer to pay the first time, but take turns after that. I've never had a no show, but if I did I would enjoy room service and a spa. Fuck em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify, we were asking as have had a couple of guys we were interested in meeting who had said they could accomodate (we can't- teen in the house). In both cases pretty much on the day of the meet they have both said they can only accomodate occasionally but would be happy to use a hotel if we agreed. Neither of these meets have gone ahead btw as I don't like goal posts being moved, but the conversation had arisen between us from there hence Mr B posting this morning. Thanks for all your input though. Mrs B x"

In my opinion this falls into my second category, hotel meet arranged and agreed by both parties, you split costs.

Although the guys said they could accommodate and on the day said they could not accommodate that now gave you the power to say no to meeting. Had you said yes then you should pay half, you chose not to meet and that's that. I do agree with your decisions though, if they changed the arrangements then you were quite right to say no thanks, even had they booked and paid for a hotel, you would still be right saying no thanks and paying nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had several hotel meets through the years and never paid

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always pay half. Would not have it any other way.

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By *ancognitoMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Would suggest the host.

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