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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone has arranged to meet but are a no show with a lame excuse would you give them another chance?

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope - unless I really fancied them. My time is precious, I'm not going to waste it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone has arranged to meet but are a no show with a lame excuse would you give them another chance? "

Nope! if they didnt think you were worth it first time, then they are not worth a 2nd!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If they just didn't show up then give excuse after ..then No..if they cancelled before hand then yes

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"If someone has arranged to meet but are a no show with a lame excuse would you give them another chance? "

No chance

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By *rs She DevilWoman
over a year ago

Blantyre

Never, you don't get a second chance to make a first impression. x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It'd depend on how interested I was, whether they had the respect & manners to communicate well when they cancelled first time (even if the excuse did seem a bit lame) & whether they seemed genuinely sorry that they had cancelled.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As our meets would in a club environment it is less important to us if they show or not.

Their loss. We will still enjoy our night regardless....

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Real life does occasionally get in the way.

We had one couple let us down an hour or so before meeting but they phoned us and explained why.

It's the ones that expect blind meets that we steer clear of as they have the highest chance of disappearing.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If someone has arranged to meet but are a no show with a lame excuse would you give them another chance? "
If it was a no show with a lame excuse afterwards then no 2nd chance.

if they cancelled beforehand then yes Id give a 2nd chance as things can crop up once a meets been arranged

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

Nope.. Timewasters get blocked

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes I have given some people a second chance and sometimes it was worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it can be genuine , but if it’s a very bad lame excuse then it’s a no from us.

Had 2 do it ,1. We knew the guy was 100% as we had met before

The other just went quiet 5 days before meet, no explanation, nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have given 2nd chances and have recieved 2nd chances as well due to things being out of my control that I couldn't meet and luckily it was with a person I had played with before so I count myself lucky

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

If they miss the shower and shave deadline, not likely.

If they give me enough notice and I haven't gone through the hassle of shaving my bits, yes.

No show and a lame excuse afterwards, definite no x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends but generally no, in the past I've given them a 2nd chance and surprise surprise..

I can usually spot a fib a mile off anyway.

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

No. Takes long enough getting ready for a meet without it possibly being wasted a second time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone... Think this person is too chicken to follow through. All talk and no action

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