FabSwingers.com forum: Someone you know

By *cottish_trucker_dave OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Anyone ever came across someone you know on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few folk.

Its inevitable it'll happen at some point, but we're all adults so it isn't an issue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...few Dad's in the school playground.

Wee bit awkward when they're picking up wee Jimmy/Jemimah and just posted the latest of 23 schlong pics on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I know has his face as his profile pic I’ve not seen him since I joined don’t know too mention it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define "came across"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but if I did, it's their business.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"A guy I know has his face as his profile pic I’ve not seen him since I joined don’t know too mention it or not "

Don't ever mention it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy I know has his face as his profile pic I’ve not seen him since I joined don’t know too mention it or not "

Why would you? There's a tacit understanding in the swing scene that discretion outside of encounters is a given, something that a lot of singles who aren't technically swinging forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

In all my years being on here Ive never came across anyone Ive known in real life away from here but I do think thats possibly down to my vetting process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all my years being on here Ive never came across anyone Ive known in real life away from here but I do think thats possibly down to my vetting process

Same as Jacs although one lady about 12 years or so ago stated her partner knew me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy I know has his face as his profile pic I’ve not seen him since I joined don’t know too mention it or not

Don't ever mention it x"

Yeah not going too x

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We met a guy from B work in CJs who were chatting to for ages before we met.

He freaked out when we walked in and realised it was us.

Thing was he was single and didn't need to explain why he was there.

Some folks handle it different from others I suppose.

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By *cothereMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"A few folk.

Its inevitable it'll happen at some point, but we're all adults so it isn't an issue x"

I wish

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By *ena2019Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Yep. From school. Told him it was awkward and he talked me into revealing myself. We met up lol.

Have seen a few other local folk on too. Would rather go around telling their business though.

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By *headultressWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Loads of people, more so if you look at the people near you online. But that being said is there really that huge a difference to them being on a dating website to this?

Unless they are attached and trying to claim anonimmity for professional reasons

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"A guy I know has his face as his profile pic I’ve not seen him since I joined don’t know too mention it or not

Why would you? There's a tacit understanding in the swing scene that discretion outside of encounters is a given, something that a lot of singles who aren't technically swinging forget. "

Naught to do with being single

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

[Removed by poster at 06/02/20 18:15:58]

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"A guy I know has his face as his profile pic I’ve not seen him since I joined don’t know too mention it or not

Why would you? There's a tacit understanding in the swing scene that discretion outside of encounters is a given, something that a lot of singles who aren't technically swinging forget.

Naught to do with being single

*nought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone ever came across someone you know on here"

Yes

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Am not sure, we're at tge chatting stage but not exchanged face pics yet

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By *uffymayfairCouple
over a year ago

vera playa, Almeria

When we lived in a big town down in the south east we often used to see people we had seen on here. Up here people are more discreet but there's a one that we do know, not sure if she knows we are on here though

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

"Loads"

Fancy meeting you here...

Lmfao

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Know a couple of ladies & 2 couples on here, But I would never say to anyone..

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Haha we've bumped into a few people form work and school on here and in cjs. It's a small world but we are all as dirty as eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I definitely know a few people on here IRL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads. I always make a point of shouting at them in relation to what their pics are showing.

Hey, it's you that has your tits out next to the clothes dryer/dog basket/radiator/toilet bowl...or I've seen your cock over a sink. Enjoy you day!

They ALWAYS appreciate it.

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Yip hubby met someone from work and someone that he went to school with. Got chatting to a guy that just happened to know my family aka my uncles now that was awkward

And met few other people in CJ's or on here that I know.

It really is a small world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone ever came across someone you know on here"

My husband

now ex

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Yup

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By *otmilf29Woman
over a year ago

Irvine

Yep quite a few if they're pic is shown ...few others once started chatting and exchanged pic but appreciate it's no one else's business why on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our neighbours of 18 years one night at CJs. We chatted for 30 mins but I don’t think there would be any chance we would play. We see them daily but it has never been mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know of a few friends that use it when we lived down south. Haven’t really come across anyone we know up here yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I lived in aberdeen I knew of quite a few people. Especially one sexy lady that worked in primark. Always went in there just to flirt with her. She knew I was on as well but nothing ever happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know a couple on here but they dont know us as I (Male) look very different to what I looked like when we used to hang out ... so should we actually say something or just leave it be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone ever came across someone you know on here"

Literally? Yes.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yip. One guy I was at school with spoke to me at our school reunion. He’s on here with his wife.

Just this week I got a message from a guy who was my neighbour when we were growing up. We were both kids at the time. Meeting for a coffee today. It seems odd as I used to climb the garden fence to play with his brother and sister. He’s technically known me for over 40 years.

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I generally won’t come across someone unless I know them well enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes girl I went to school with and a woman my ex knows is on here with her husband

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

"When I lived in aberdeen I knew of quite a few people. Especially one sexy lady that worked in primark. Always went in there just to flirt with her. She knew I was on as well but nothing ever happened "

Lol, Aberdeen is small enough at the best of times

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By *roupsex1979Man
over a year ago

Eye

Yes. Girl from school. Hot girl. Also a friend of a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a guy from my home town.

He sent me a face pic and I knew instantly.

I just said thanks but no thanks you’re too far away for me.

He doesn’t know who I was so I still say Hi to him but with that smile that says.... I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few folk.

Its inevitable it'll happen at some point, but we're all adults so it isn't an issue x"

This

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By *amlickerMan
over a year ago

Stirling

My mates wife,I can’t look at her the same since I’ve seen her pictures. But I’ve not said anything to her or my mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I surprised that nobody has let on they know me away from fab....

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We have had a few different people that we know recognise us from here.

Well the ones that have messaged to say anyway, there are probably others that haven't said anything yet but we don't mind as don't feel we should have anything to hide.

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
over a year ago

IRVINE

We are all here for a reason, so really not my business if I know them or not

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

There are a few on here from my area but I don’t think I’d recognise them in person. If I did I would politely smile if we made I contact.

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By *otBotty79Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Just spotted my wife's pal on here! Couldn't believe it. She is super hot, and in my head, even hotter now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just spotted my wife's pal on here! Couldn't believe it. She is super hot, and in my head, even hotter now!!"

It's pretty unusual for women to have their face on show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. It becomes interesting when they send me a facial pic whereas I tell them that I recognise/know them and they react or question why they don't know me

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By *otBotty79Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

"Just spotted my wife's pal on here! Couldn't believe it. She is super hot, and in my head, even hotter now!!

It's pretty unusual for women to have their face on show "

I agree, couldn't believe it. She is hiding behind a chaps chap, but it is 100% her. I will however never mention it to anyone who knows her

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By *t202Man
over a year ago

ayr

My married brother is on here,and a couple I knew from years ago,that I bump into probably once every 12/18 months in supermarkets. Would never think of mentioning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My married brother is on here,and a couple I knew from years ago,that I bump into probably once every 12/18 months in supermarkets. Would never think of mentioning "

So here’s a question we’ve seen plenty of posts asking if you’d tell a friend if you’d seen their partner on here, would you challenge your brother?

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By *t202Man
over a year ago

ayr

No in situations like this best to keep quiet, hardly see him ,usual weddings funerals,festive season about only time paths cross

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By *cotsbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

"Loads

Fancy meeting you here...

Lmfao"

Don't I know you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My married brother is on here,and a couple I knew from years ago,that I bump into probably once every 12/18 months in supermarkets. Would never think of mentioning "

Best stay away from the Wank Club then....things could get messy in more ways than one!

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By *j60Man
over a year ago

leeds

Next door neighbours wife told me about site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone ever came across someone you know on here"

Yes. More than once!

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By *rEyeMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

I know a good few that are on here. It's not an issue. This place is for honest open people.

Wee bit surprised by some but good for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met one of my bosses in cjs, he awkwardly approached me to say his mrs wanted me to join them lol it didnt happen

We still talk but not about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best stay away from the Wank Club then...."

You're not supposed to talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have seen loads but who cares. Incidentally if I did cum across them I'd wipe it off and apologise

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

"Anyone ever came across someone you know on here"

Yup, have come across someone I was at school with on here

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