FabSwingers.com forum: Verification etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do most folk do with regards to verifying people they have met?

Do you verify everyone you meet whether social or otherwise?

If soneone verifies you do you return the verification for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I leave a verification and they leave one too unless otherwise agreed,

Not all want verifications.

It’s nice to leave a verification then others can see we are genuine.

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By *uriojohnMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Verifications really help for single guys like myself. Let’s others know that I’m genuine and will actually turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always leave a verification and then it's down to the other party if they wish to display it or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications really help for single guys like myself. Let’s others know that I’m genuine and will actually turn up.

This is true

Single guys on here rely heavily on verifications if they stand any chance of meeting.

Vast majority of women and couples won’t entertain a single guy without a verification but, the double edged sword is if you have too many You become a pariah as your seek to have shagged half the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always leave a verification not bothered if they show what’s said as long as it adds to show they’ve had a recent meet, would like to think one would be returned had a few saying they wouldn’t so was happy to cut ties.

Hate seeing verifications that almost go into detail about the meet I don’t give a monkeys all I need to know is the person(s) genuine/nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can always leave a verification and then it's down to the other party if they wish to display it or not?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always leave a verification not bothered if they show what’s said as long as it adds to show they’ve had a recent meet, would like to think one would be returned had a few saying they wouldn’t so was happy to cut ties.

Hate seeing verifications that almost go into detail about the meet I don’t give a monkeys all I need to know is the person(s) genuine/nice "

This

- as going by most veri’s FAB contains the best shaggers on the planet. The Carlsberg of fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd love to see the out-takes. Veris that never see the light of day

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Veris are welcome as it's always good to know that your time spent with someone has been appreciated whether it be socially or sexually. Sadly i feel the need to hide most of mine as folk are too quick to judge and make wrong assumptions but each and everyone of them has been displayed at some point.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What do most folk do with regards to verifying people they have met?

Do you verify everyone you meet whether social or otherwise?

If soneone verifies you do you return the verification for them? "
yes I verify everyone I meet and yes if they verify me 1st il return one to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate seeing verifications that almost go into detail about the meet I don’t give a monkeys all I need to know is the person(s) genuine/nice "

I think it's a bit odd to cut ties because they haven't left a veri. I don't place much stock in them, although they're fun to read out of nosiness sometimes. I'll leave one if someone wants but I don't care whether they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't insist on nor particularly enjoy leaving veris as I prefer discretion in myself and others. They're curated so that you will only ever see what the person wants you to see, and as pointed out above nobody ever seems less than 10/10 so what's the point? Some also come across as eerily possessive

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I leave a veri unless asked otherwise. The person can choose to show it or not.

I usually display one for a week or so, so people can see that I have up to date veris then hide them.

Now and again I display a few, but depends on my mood. I’ve found that when I’ve been displayed I’ve had messages asking about people I’ve met, and other such weirdness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. "
Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely!

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By *enaciousGuy73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! "

Fundamental need for men.

How does people feel about veris from the same person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had messages asking about people I’ve met, and other such weirdness "

I've had messages from people asking about people I don't even have veris for, mostly warning me of the "local bike"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! "
according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I’ve had messages asking about people I’ve met, and other such weirdness

I've had messages from people asking about people I don't even have veris for, mostly warning me of the "local bike"

"
Some people are just horrible thats why I choose not to display veries .

I just feel its no ones business but mine and my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly I'll leave them, sometimes I forget and sometimes if someone's an arse I won't bother

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

If someone leaves me a verification I'll give one back. Not too fussed about them tbh x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes "

Fake because they don't want to chat or meet up?

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

I normally forget to verify until the other person does it first, but I always return them or if someone pms me and reminds me to do it I will happily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had messages asking about people I’ve met, and other such weirdness

I've had messages from people asking about people I don't even have veris for, mostly warning me of the "local bike"

This rips my knittin, big time.

What fucking business is it of anyone's on here who is shagging who?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes "
erm okay then

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I’ve had messages asking about people I’ve met, and other such weirdness

I've had messages from people asking about people I don't even have veris for, mostly warning me of the "local bike"

This rips my knittin, big time.

What fucking business is it of anyone's on here who is shagging who?"
Exactly

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes "

So if someone leaves, comes back and doesn’t state they have been here previously ... gets verified by people they have previously met this means they are fake? Just trying to understand your rational behind your post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... "
so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

"
You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!"
your not admin

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

Perhaps read again what has been said ... you stated it’s very easy to set up a fake profile and get fake veris not me ... and then read the part I said if that were true (in the context of previous comments) yours or MINE in that instance could be fake .... not once did I say you were fake. I hope that clarifies it for you

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

"
I never claimed to be did I ?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

If someone I know asks I verify I ask not to veri me as stops the noseyholes in their tracks

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written."
Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written.Thank you

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written.Thank you

"
if you have a problem then report it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think someone got out the wrong side of bed again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written.Thank you

if you have a problem then report it

"
the problem is you having a go at me for no reason on a few occasions an yes I've reported you for this

It's clearly that you have an issue in what I said..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written.Thank you

if you have a problem then report it

the problem is you having a go at me for no reason on a few occasions an yes I've reported you for this

It's clearly that you have an issue in what I said.. "
No issue at all you made a comment which I gave an example to why a profile thats new might be verified quickly as did one or two others .

il know in future not to try and interact with you via the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written.Thank you

if you have a problem then report it

the problem is you having a go at me for no reason on a few occasions an yes I've reported you for this

It's clearly that you have an issue in what I said.. No issue at all you made a comment which I gave an example to why a profile thats new might be verified quickly as did one or two others .

il know in future not to try and interact with you via the forums

"
Yet again your telling users what to do. You are not admin. As I said I have reported you on sevral occasions of this

Please stop in what your doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would live to know how to make fake veris.

I left the site last year, deleted my profile with my friends, veris etc and have now returned and have to be photo verified to write in the forums, cannot verify anyone until I’m already verified myself so how the fcuk do you get fake veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ineinchtonyMan
over a year ago

Airdrie

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written.Thank you

if you have a problem then report it

the problem is you having a go at me for no reason on a few occasions an yes I've reported you for this

It's clearly that you have an issue in what I said.. No issue at all you made a comment which I gave an example to why a profile thats new might be verified quickly as did one or two others .

il know in future not to try and interact with you via the forums

Yet again your telling users what to do. You are not admin. As I said I have reported you on sevral occasions of this

Please stop in what your doing "

Sorry but nothing in her message there is telling you what to do. She simply said she's not going to interact with you on the forums again, and it's pretty clear why.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What I don't like is the newbies that get verified an they haven't even met.

Or on there friends lists. Some newbies are returning members & get their friends to verify them so there is nothing wrong with that

Absolutely! according to there profiles there aren't an it's proven n the pass that there fakes

On that note your profile may well be fake or mine for that matter ... so if that's the case

I'm

Fake

Report me to admin

You need to chill no one called you a fake Tands said you may well be not that you are !!your not admin

They never claimed to be.

And no-one called you fake either, maybe re-read what has been written.Thank you

if you have a problem then report it

the problem is you having a go at me for no reason on a few occasions an yes I've reported you for this

It's clearly that you have an issue in what I said.. No issue at all you made a comment which I gave an example to why a profile thats new might be verified quickly as did one or two others .

il know in future not to try and interact with you via the forums

Yet again your telling users what to do. You are not admin. As I said I have reported you on sevral occasions of this

Please stop in what your doing

Sorry but nothing in her message there is telling you what to do. She simply said she's not going to interact with you on the forums again, and it's pretty clear why. "
Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm closing this thread. If you have an issue with another user, whoever that might be please ignore their posts and keep it away from the forum.

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