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By *aughter guy OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

Has anyone every made this happen for real ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one years ago in 2013. Best encounter I've ever had. We saw each other a few times over the years that followed.

Never been brave enough to do it again

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By *aughter guy OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

Aye that's what I'm hoping happens to be honest but I guess it's a fear thing as well, so many nuts out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently. My favourite kind of meet.

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By *aughter guy OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

I need to find more of you.then

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By *igs72Man
over a year ago

motherwell

Favourite kind of meet

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol"

That's kinda what I did. I thought he was winding me up when he replied. Now though it seems different

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol"

Aww. In that case set it up and I’ll pretend I don’t know you when I knock on the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've experienced both good and bad - one girl who refused to send photos until we had met, but the rapport and connection was immense. That was incredible, the chemistry totally spoiled over into the real world over hot chocolate and quickly turned into a dayuse scramble. Bad... Oh yes, a random Tinder "date" in Inverness. She came over, awkward, inexperienced and on the verge of a panic attack, wouldn't kiss or let me touch her and treated me to the dryest wank of my life before almost literally running away. I'm not that bad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol

That's kinda what I did. I thought he was winding me up when he replied. Now though it seems different "

That takes some bottle. Bet you were buzzing though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol

That's kinda what I did. I thought he was winding me up when he replied. Now though it seems different

That takes some bottle. Bet you were buzzing though! "

I had far more bottle and confidence then than I do now for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to do this back in my younger fab days.

Too many weirdos now to do it sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to do this back in my younger fab days.

Too many weirdos now to do it sadly."

Do you really think people have got more weird?

Or is it that you're less impulsive now?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Used to do this back in my younger fab days.

Too many weirdos now to do it sadly.

Do you really think people have got more weird?

Or is it that you're less impulsive now?"

This, we are alot less impulsive than we used to be.

We need to plan ahead most times.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Define random?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to do this back in my younger fab days.

Too many weirdos now to do it sadly.

Do you really think people have got more weird?

Or is it that you're less impulsive now?"
maybe a bit of both but defo more cautious.

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We will on occasion meet randomly. Had a few really good meets with people who literally didn’t even know their names just arrange to meet and get right into it. Also had some disappointing meets of this kind but just gotta take good with the bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few some good some bad the bad ones I have just walked away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww I used to love a good random spontaneous meet. More often it didn’t work out but one that springs to mind was amazing

Doesn’t tend to happen nowadays.

Maybe I’m too cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww I used to love a good random spontaneous meet. More often it didn’t work out but one that springs to mind was amazing

Doesn’t tend to happen nowadays.

Maybe I’m too cautious. "

I think there would be more to worry about if you weren't cautious on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there would be more to worry about if you weren't cautious on here "

It's a sad fact that you have to be more stringent. Far too many scams and frankly worrying tales around not do your due diligence.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Met my 1st meet in her shop to see how we'd et on after chatting, (had seen each other's faces on kik), well, we got on , and got it on right there....is that random enough. This was a Sunday after chatting from friday

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol"

I think a woman would get more replies to this than a guy or a couple. True a lot of them would be creepy or desperate ones, but I think any woman doing it would have her pick of guys.

Mandy

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Favourite kind of meet

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I used to do random meets via here & Craigslist. I never had a frightening experience with either platform.

Did have folk not take me seriously or stand me up & of course not all meets were "electric", very much a wham bam thank you mam type meets, some became frequent.

Again this was back 2013/14/15.

Far more cautious now thanks to an ass that had nowt to do with these platforms but used what I did to try shame me publicly. Cost me my job & home.

I'm just as impulsive but definitely more cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone every made this happen for real ? "

Yes, first proper meet on here was after a planned one was cancelled last minute. Was amazing. Had good few with same couple afterwards - also an amazing chef! Sometimes the best things happen when you least expect it. Random pub nights as an example. How many times have you not planned to go out but ended up ‘out-out’ and had the best time? Exactly. See.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Had a few back in the day, they were fab!

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

I sometimes wish girls on here were more spontaneous but completely understand why they aren't!

All but one of my meets have been pre planned but the one spontaneous meet that I had was very hot.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

yes in days gone by however due to fakes and trouble makers on here I wouldnt dream of it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In here on days gone by yes.

Too many weirdos of both sexes cruise this site now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In here on days gone by yes.

Too many weirdos of both sexes cruise this site now "

There were probably always weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to do random meets via here & Craigslist. I never had a frightening experience with either platform.

Did have folk not take me seriously or stand me up & of course not all meets were "electric", very much a wham bam thank you mam type meets, some became frequent.

Again this was back 2013/14/15.

Far more cautious now thanks to an ass that had nowt to do with these platforms but used what I did to try shame me publicly. Cost me my job & home.

I'm just as impulsive but definitely more cautious."

That’s shocking! Although not the first I’ve heard of. A few I know including myself have had issue with stalking. Me, thankfully he didn’t know where I lived, but managed to track me down on social media. I instantly blocked him, but in hindsight thankfully he didn’t do as was done to you. To loose what you lost is terrible!

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