FabSwingers.com forum: Gone stale?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe just us, but recently finding it hard to get excited about much on Fab. Looking forward to the masquerade ball, but apart from that just all feeling a bit flat. Do any other people go through this? And if you have, what worked best to get that fabby spark back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, we left the site, not deleted profiles just didnt go on fab... after a few months we got our mojo back.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You could take a wee break, or discuss something you've not tried yet & go make it happen, or meet folk you know socially, or arrange a strip poker night for friends.

Just some ideas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All good points, maybe just so taken up with normal life stuff ( been hectic), but thanks for responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going through that right now mained - roll on the ball

Greg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the solution.... send Mrs mained here as i am home alone tonight ... it wont help you but feck it will help me lol.

Greig

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have the solution.... send Mrs mained here as i am home alone tonight ... it wont help you but feck it will help me lol.

Greig

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have the solution.... send Mrs mained here as i am home alone tonight ... it wont help you but feck it will help me lol.

Greig

Haha,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shes not on her way is she? hmmm pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ummm, nope lol, but the response gave us a giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fabby spark"...pmsl !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good, i hope your both good, enjoy your Saturday..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

more and more people feeling the same

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Feeling the same. My profile has been hidden for a while now and only sporadically meeting with people I already know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good, i hope your both good, enjoy your Saturday.. "

We are both great, just seems a bit "samey" on here at the mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definatly! Fab isnt what it used to be and dont say the old chestnut you put in what you get out..im not here for the hokey y lol.too many timewasters and fantisits. Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah, went a but dull... for us I think its the same old in the rooms etc, but we are finding the forums a bit of a giggle....also because we joined for a certain goal, scored that one...lol....so currently taking a wee back seater at the mo....who knows where we shall end up......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"definatly! Fab isnt what it used to be and dont say the old chestnut you put in what you get out..im not here for the hokey y lol.too many timewasters and fantisits. Auds

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,,,,bang,,,get in there....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good to know it's just not us then,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cogs of the fab machine are'nt turning too smooth, as said, too many of the wrong kinda elements to make the cogs turn, total timewasters,,ohh aye no just timewasters, total ones, then theres daters who kinda swing but hmmm not really, then theres yes, fantasists who love a message or 3,,hundred.

And rumour, lets not leave that bad boy out, folk you've never bloody met before in your life yet seem to have prior knowledge of you, in fact know more on you than you knew yerself, offt the things i've meant to of done, shock meeself im tellin ya,lol.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Aye I heard you were a bad yin. I mean, what you did with that woman, that stoat and the bandages.....I'll never get it out of my head. Sicko!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip, its always been hard for single guys but lately its been seriously dire. Lucky to get a reply these days never mind a meet.

Was however invited along to a meet with mate from here to meet a girl looking for MMF. She however didnt show despite having spoke to her half hour before the meet. Gets to the time and she cant meet for another 3 hours apparently. total timewaster. Folk like that just ruin things for everyone else. Does show however its not just single blokes who are ruining things

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Aye I heard you were a bad yin. I mean, what you did with that woman, that stoat and the bandages.....I'll never get it out of my head. Sicko!!

:p"

it wasn't a stoat, it was an otter!!!!

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh that's not so bad then. Actually, no, its worse!! I need a bucket!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Oh that's not so bad then. Actually, no, its worse!! I need a bucket!"

The otter didn't complain!!!

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It couldn't cos of the bandages he used. I cant believe you went along with it. And in the middle of a canteen too...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"It couldn't cos of the bandages he used. I cant believe you went along with it. And in the middle of a canteen too..."

I wasn't there, I just got sent the video and put it on youtube!!! I'm a good girl

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You can't tell but I am doing *suspiciousface* :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It couldn't cos of the bandages he used. I cant believe you went along with it. And in the middle of a canteen too...

I wasn't there, I just got sent the video and put it on youtube!!! I'm a good girl

Offt so many vids, which one? lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"It couldn't cos of the bandages he used. I cant believe you went along with it. And in the middle of a canteen too...

I wasn't there, I just got sent the video and put it on youtube!!! I'm a good girl

Offt so many vids, which one? lol

pfft, t,t,t,t,t,t.. T!! You damned well KNOW which one...... xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Juggling SD cards ere, searching, will it be under F for Fmuma?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Juggling SD cards ere, searching, will it be under F for Fmuma?

don't be silly!! It's under O for Otter...

(I wasn't there!!!) xx

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By *un69forusCouple
over a year ago

Ayr

"Good to know it's just not us then,

No not just you.

This is a sex site - but the social side is just as important. But finding genuine people seems to be getting harder! Maybe people are put off with our age - we are mature - not over the hill - in fact we are enjoying the climb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i've watched the trend of some lovely genuine people click off and out of here and thats sad, because if that keeps happening what does the future hold?

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The future is.....ME!

Clearly the end is nigh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does go a bit stale at times....but I think most things do tbh....mojo,s come n go.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe just us, but recently finding it hard to get excited about much on Fab. Looking forward to the masquerade ball, but apart from that just all feeling a bit flat. Do any other people go through this? And if you have, what worked best to get that fabby spark back?"

Ohhhh the ball was fabby last year so fingers crossed this years will be a good night too.....

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By *ocksmithMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Keep the faith,there are.still alot of fun people and fab times ahead if you can dodge the timewasters and weirdos on here which isn't always the easiest if feats lol I just tend to keep positive and go with the flow as I'm somewhat overly committed in my life outside of fab so when the planets align and the time and opportunity presents itself I try to make the most of it;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just browse scots forums, not stale, im sure theres a more apt word,,,,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Just browse scots forums, not stale, im sure theres a more apt word,,,,

Exaclty Tony same repetative things all the time but passes the time when site is slow lol ...

But yeah site has gone stale to many timewasters,flyby nite profiles and people with issues instead of getting on with that their here for or maybe that is what their here for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too much talk...not enuf sex! Or maybe thats just us? Lol.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not just you no one meets on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet .... lots of people meet.. as a single guy it may be tough but we are genuine and meet people

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

peeks in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if anyones had the same, but generally, messaging,even trying to get an upbeat nice reply is like panning for gold, to the point it becomes hard work, and yet everyone shouts about it all being fun, im not saying i expect marvelous replies every time,but it really should'nt be so tedious.

Example; you read all the profile, see you might just be ok to message, you ping a decent message, and say something innocent like "oh i see in your interests blindfolds, cool" and what dyou get back? "Ehh what where does it say that"? Thats a dead end road message, nae point in going any further,,lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"too much talk...not enuf sex! Or maybe thats just us? Lol.x

Little less conversation a little more action is the best song ever , so Jet thinks anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have returned after a recent Site break and have found that a lot of whom I would have considered regulars and scene stalwarts over the last few years have gone.

Is everyone onto a new hobby instead? Making cup cakes? Gardening?!

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Am I the only one who's getting somewhere on here then? Haha, as a single guy, I never saw that coming in a month of Sundays. Everyone has their own experience of the place. I have to say I'm mega lucky cos my experience has been brill

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By *az n davy42Couple
over a year ago

Ayr

I have found that over the years it is always a bit flat from Jan till about now so hopefully it will pick back up soon I know Davy and I have not been on as much as we used to as we were finding the same a bit flat atm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

purely my take on this...

very few folks seem to meet these days - most prefer to go to socials or are wary about meeting due to players and pretenders.

My idea of swinging is chatting to and meeting fellow adults for sexual experiences whereas lots use the site as a social networking place to gain friends- each to their own but maybe 1 reason its gone stale.

as i said purely my take( cue the hate mail ) lol ..rock on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty much working from a clean slate, deleted profile a few months ago and kinda starting all over again,appreciate the friends who remain good,fun friends.

If not for these people, i generally find myself goin round in circles with it all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guess everything goes in cycles, just good to know not just us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"purely my take on this...

very few folks seem to meet these days - most prefer to go to socials or are wary about meeting due to players and pretenders.

as i said purely my take( cue the hate mail ) lol ..rock on!"
well said mr.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One hand leant on head, elbow on pc desk, shuffling mouse, clicking on, searching for feckin something anything to offer up an ounce of interest, a laugh, anything,, ohhhh aye its stale alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep, i think going to the likes of cj's is going to be the way forward for me. dont get me wrong i enjoy the "chase" the "socials" and everything else involved in the build up but when these things start becoming a saga where there looks like theres probably no future fun to be had then i think i could possibly get to point where i would by pass fab and go down other routes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go through a stale patch every few months or so, i find finding a few new fucks helps wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i go through a stale patch every few months or so, i find finding a few new fucks helps wonders

new fucks

the chance of an old fuck would help me first

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Getting bored and uninterested is part and parcel of the lifestyle.

Holding out for the purple patch or someone who offers something unique is what keep me going.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Excellent point we think

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Excellent point we think

Cool, cya tonight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Achhh, its maybe just me, for example, i've just seen an online ad for "4 unmissable albums" unmissable!! None of them i would buy, so you see they are missable,lol

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Achhh, its maybe just me, for example, i've just seen an online ad for "4 unmissable albums" unmissable!! None of them i would buy, so you see they are missable,lol

You ok mate ? need a shoulder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Achhh, its maybe just me, for example, i've just seen an online ad for "4 unmissable albums" unmissable!! None of them i would buy, so you see they are missable,lol

You ok mate ? need a shoulder

Im fine, im not even complaining about my "swinging lot", totally content with all that side of things, i just mean clicking on here and how its becoming a 5 min speedy browse, before yer tutting, sighing and ohhh ffs,ing.

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

So heya been reading the thread and im sad to see that many feel that life in fab has gone stale....

Yes ive only been around 4 er 5 months now but the thing i do is i take my time, come and go when i please and still enjoy my time on here....there is so many things to do and see and well to me its not a rush in my opinion, we are here to enjoy ourselves

Yes and to be honest im starting to get picky about who i want to meet. Im not the sort of person who is a clubber so i doubt you will find me in a "club" i prefer one to one chat, i dont want to be shouting to be heard and to have fun lol.

on a note i hate google when you do words that look normal they do a red underscore under the word.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"i just mean clicking on here and how its becoming a 5 min speedy browse, before yer tutting, sighing and ohhh ffs,ing."

You saying my threads are shit dude ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i just mean clicking on here and how its becoming a 5 min speedy browse, before yer tutting, sighing and ohhh ffs,ing.

You saying my threads are shit dude ?

lol, never knew there were certain threads you regard as yours, off to find them,,,

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"You saying my threads are shit dude ?

lol, never knew there were certain threads you regard as yours, off to find them,,,

Take your time..3 ninjas await your return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back, and it was more than 5mins, a good sign,lol

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Back, and it was more than 5mins, a good sign,lol

Jacs has logged in mate so its time for me to close lappy enjoy your day

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