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By *ebimimosa OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Do you block them right away or wait 24hrs to hear the excuses

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Block straight away

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Never had a no show

Have had people go quiet a few days before a meet so you know it isn’t happening and you don’t turn up yourself

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I hold off until they appear online, just to make sure they're ok. Then I block x

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik

Never had a no show in some 14 years on the scene

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I don't block them but they get taken off friends list and given no 2nd chance. This also applies to people who cancel meets with no follow up date mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be an instant block from us. Obviously things can and do happen, but there's really no excuse whatsoever for not communicating any issues beforehand.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

I message them a couple of hours after our supposed meet politely, just to see if they've been sweating in their reply then make a private note of being a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait to see if they make contact.then block

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Wait to see if they make contact.then block "

Haha evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Never had a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye we have had the go quiet or disappear cole days before meet

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My first ever meet on here stood me up. He did get in contact after to say he got cold feet on the day. No excuse for bad manners. We were only going for a drink.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We usually arrange for back ups or a plan B. So even in the event of a no show we have something else happening.

Then we post pics so the no show can see what they missed.

Then they get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually arrange for back ups or a plan B. So even in the event of a no show we have something else happening.

Then we post pics so the no show can see what they missed.

Then they get blocked. "

Ha ha ..."Get it right up ye!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually arrange for back ups or a plan B. So even in the event of a no show we have something else happening.

Then we post pics so the no show can see what they missed.

Then they get blocked.

Ha ha ..."Get it right up ye!" "

I think that might be the what's happening in the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a no show yet, fingers crossed it continues xxx

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"We usually arrange for back ups or a plan B. So even in the event of a no show we have something else happening.

Then we post pics so the no show can see what they missed.

Then they get blocked. "

So would you be the no show for plan B if original plan is actually happening?

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We usually arrange for back ups or a plan B. So even in the event of a no show we have something else happening.

Then we post pics so the no show can see what they missed.

Then they get blocked.

So would you be the no show for plan B if original plan is actually happening? "

We prefer groups anyway and make that clear. And if they all turn up then even better.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"We usually arrange for back ups or a plan B. So even in the event of a no show we have something else happening.

Then we post pics so the no show can see what they missed.

Then they get blocked.

So would you be the no show for plan B if original plan is actually happening?

We prefer groups anyway and make that clear. And if they all turn up then even better."

I tend to only go for clubs and parties these days. So when my date doesn't turn up I won't be sitting by myself x

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We usually arrange for back ups or a plan B. So even in the event of a no show we have something else happening.

Then we post pics so the no show can see what they missed.

Then they get blocked.

So would you be the no show for plan B if original plan is actually happening?

We prefer groups anyway and make that clear. And if they all turn up then even better.

I tend to only go for clubs and parties these days. So when my date doesn't turn up I won't be sitting by myself x"

Definitely agree with you on that strategy.

We have been left with an expensive hotel room and childcare bill in the past due to no shows

We have developed various strategies to avoid it happening again.

One response is consistent however. The no show gets blocked and we make an effort to ensure that we publicise their details as widely as possible amongst our friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never no show on any one,

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