FabSwingers.com forum: Bi fun mmff

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trying to gauge an honest concensus around bi fun with a partner and other couples.

We are finding more and more often that a lot of couples are curious even though most profiles say the male is straight, yet during the course of conversion they often say they 'wouldn't rule it out'.

It just seems disproportionately obvious that females are happy to concede to being openly bi curious where men aren't quite so confident. Why?

Is it a yae or nay, and what's appealing and what's not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think its confidence.In my experience it seems a bit of a stumbling block ,for want of a better phrase, if the guy is bi especially if youre not in a couple. Think the lack of being up front is gauging the other peoples reaction first.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Trying to gauge an honest concensus around bi fun with a partner and other couples.

It just seems disproportionately obvious that females are happy to concede to being openly bi curious where men aren't quite so confident. Why?

Is it a yae or nay, and what's appealing and what's not?

It's simple. Female bisexuality is seen in a positive light, male bisexuality much less so.

Fab should really introduce the kinsey scale, and make it easy to update, to replace their current sexuality options.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

It's totally because of biphobia unfortunately, for men to be bisexual they are seen to be effeminate and dirty. For a woman its empowering and sexy. So many people on here won't play with bisexual men but will play with bisexual women and specifically look for them. I'm bisexual, Mr is a bit bi-curious. For us having fun with another couple would involve probably a straight same room swap, with some girl on girl fun thrown in.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Oh but yeah we specifically look for bi and queer people, we find we generally have more in common with people who identify as LGBT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it is more acceptable for women to be bi. But for men it is a whole other story so many will not want to be open about it, even on here.

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