FabSwingers.com forum: BJs and Cunniligus

By *ittle_missknowitall OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he

Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.

Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them

But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it

So what I’m wondering is

If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv met a guy a few times that didnt like oral.

No worries just went home got it off the hubby to finish me off lol.

But it is a huge part of my sexual preference.

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By *he way you moveMan
over a year ago

Inverness

I love giving even more than receiving (and that's saying something) but definitely wouldn't be a deal breaker either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he

Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.

Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them

But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it

So what I’m wondering is

If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.

That's a good question.. I'm not sure, never thought about it before.. Oral sex both giving and receiving is an important part for me

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I’d much rather give than receive tbh. Don’t get me wrong the feeling of receiving is great however I’ve never been able to cum therefore I much rather going down on a woman

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love oral both ways, so i think it would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would put me off definitely as much as I like giving a bj, I do enjoy receiving

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

It wouldn't bother me, but just kissing and using fingers is much more difficult, and needs more patience, skill and attention than diving in face first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankly I've stopped most men going down on me because every single one has been shit compared to when I was a dyke! I've zero time to teach them. I orgasm when sucking cocks, without being touched, so that's damn awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a tough one. While I like receiving, I much prefer giving.

So not receiving wouldn't bother me, not giving might though.

L x

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Definite deal-breaker for me! I'd require a signed statement of intent beforehand.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Whilst not a deal breaker as such, I really do enjoy giving cunnilingus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could happily go without recieving but I'd really miss giving. Aside from the fact I really enjoy doing it, I think there's a bit of me that almost feels it kinda makes up for the fact I'm not body beautufil. I know that's weird but we all have our hangups

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

def deal breaker for me (Mrs)

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By *obi_DDCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

"I could happily go without recieving but I'd really miss giving. Aside from the fact I really enjoy doing it, I think there's a bit of me that almost feels it kinda makes up for the fact I'm not body beautufil. I know that's weird but we all have our hangups "

Your photos look great - you've definitely got nothing to 'make up for'

If anyone tells you that you do, that's a good reason not to go down on them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If oral from the get go was off the table either by giving or receiving then I wouldnt meet. We are not sexually compatible in a most obvious way so its a non starter for me.

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By *ussymufferMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I love to give oral and receive

But had a few meets with a woman who won't do oral but not a problem with me

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By *aggismuncher69Man
over a year ago

Johnstone

You look pretty awsome to me wtf are you on about

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By *he way you moveMan
over a year ago

Inverness

Definitely nothing to make up for. Just had a sneaky peak at your profile and that body is gorgeous.

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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I just LOVE giving. Yes please. Anyone else have that bit at the join of tongue and lower mouth get sore due to length of time at the Y diner?

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By *ald EagleMan
over a year ago

Alloa

Can’t beat a bit of Oral. I love giving as much as receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I far prefer giving than receiving but I’d never say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the quality of the giver

In both cases....

Sometimes a meet can consist of nothing more than mutual oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he

Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.

Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them

But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it

So what I’m wondering is

If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.

I would think that’s rather selfish if one expects to receive but doesn’t give. If both don’t enjoy oral, that’s fine. Me personally, I love hours long, touching, teasing and pleasing. I’m well aware there are other erogenous zones in the body. But, fab is about mutual pleasure. For me... I probably wouldn’t meet unless he/she had skills that would give pleasure as much as oral. That’s my tuppenceworth missus! H x

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Would be a definite deal breaker for me, I love oral, I enjoy giving but not going to lie if you are doing a good job going down on me I'm going to sit back and enjoy that for as long as it lasts

without oral, sex isn't on the cards

Although nothing worst than a woman trying to deep throat me and they look like they're got a hamster stuffed in their face

John

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Me and Mr both live giving and receiving oral. I can sometimes find getting warmed up a bit difficult, so some alone time just to do oral before conquering the world is needed. I'd say without oral sex is t completely off the cards, I slept with a guy who wouldn't go down, but I didn't go back to him. Big dick, incredibly small not warmed up hole just doesn't feel nice imo

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Short answer: off the table.

Long answer: off the table. It’s a part of foreplay at the least or even better when it’s amazing. Break down barriers and being open.

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By *iimonMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Wouldn't be a deal breaker but I would be very sad both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deal breaker.

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

I would always go down on a lady, assuming that she wanted me to.

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By *inUpGirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wouldn't be a deal breaker for me.... I really enjoy giving oral but receiving has never been high on my list as it takes me ages to climax and I either end up getting more frustrated or the guy gives up thinking they've been down there long enough. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving and receiving oral nothing better than a sweet tasting pussy

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Wouldn't be a deal breaker but I would be very sad both ways

Deal breaker for me. No point having sex with someone to come away feeling sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it seems that most people prefer giving more than they actually like receiving.....

Does this bring up another question.... Is oral more about mental stimulation than it is physical? Do people get off on the thought of giving oral more than they do the physical feeling of receiving it?

Or they could all be lying to look good in front of potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he

Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.

Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them

But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it

So what I’m wondering is

If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.

Snogging is the main decider for me, if the snog dont work nothing else will,

and I simply love snogging the right girl

nothing is on the table unless the snog works

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not a deal breaker, I love going down on a woman, part of foreplay, I love to receive too but not a problem it should flow and no one should feel the need to tick all the boxes at a meet

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I enjoy giving bjs so would be a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems that most people prefer giving more than they actually like receiving.....

I'm calling bullshit on this. On the forecourt of Fab everybody proclaims themselves "BEST AT BJS OR SO I'M TOLD" or "I CAN LICK ALL DAY!!!11".

The majority sell themselves as the perfect giver - few will say meh, "I hate giving oral" because that's rubbish self promotion. Fab is a shop window remember...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems that most people prefer giving more than they actually like receiving.....

I'm calling bullshit on this. On the forecourt of Fab everybody proclaims themselves "BEST AT BJS OR SO I'M TOLD" or "I CAN LICK ALL DAY!!!11".

The majority sell themselves as the perfect giver - few will say meh, "I hate giving oral" because that's rubbish self promotion. Fab is a shop window remember... "

If push came to shove and I had to choose I'd probably say I prefer giving. Only because, perhaps like a lot of women, I can sometimes worry I'm taking too long to come and then your mind starts racing.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Prefer giving oral, BJs never done much for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely prefer giving i could quite happily go to a meet and not cum.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"So it seems that most people prefer giving more than they actually like receiving.....

I'm calling bullshit on this. On the forecourt of Fab everybody proclaims themselves "BEST AT BJS OR SO I'M TOLD" or "I CAN LICK ALL DAY!!!11".

The majority sell themselves as the perfect giver - few will say meh, "I hate giving oral" because that's rubbish self promotion. Fab is a shop window remember... "

I will be honest and say I’m happy to reciprocate and enjoy doing so but I definitely prefer receiving

selfish I know but honest

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Going back to a previous thread..

If I was God for a day, I'd give women a second clitoris on their tongue, make their tonsils a g-spot, then I'd give men a frenelum tongue-tip.

It may need a little refinement as eating and drinking would become embarrassing, the whole human race would be constantly humming, and mouth squirting may be frowned upon, but the possibilities are endless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know about a deal breaker. Oral is a huge part for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hell no, no diving! no bj simple plus not sure how that's would go down in couple soft swop if no oral? . Not into only one way pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But.... Really a guy doesn't like diving, wtf he must have had a really bad experience to put him off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love oral , love watching a lady gain pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love to give oral can do for hrs, plus love to sexualy satisfy plus erotic body massage

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he

Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.

I would still be prepared to meet, but. I would be a bit disappointed (I love to give).

Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them

But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it

So what I’m wondering is

If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he

Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.

I would still be prepared to meet, but. I would be a bit disappointed (I love to give).

Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them

But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it

So what I’m wondering is

If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.

"
I would be disappointed, as I love giving oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never given oral or been with a woman yet, but would love to. I have never had a good Bj from someone therefore I could take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love receiving however not selfish either and nothing better and a woman who lives receiving to .2 way street!give and receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love receiving but love giving more .. when my tongue takes over from my mind like bad twin good twin scenario and flicks over a woman’s ass and she moans and her nails dig in then even better

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By *ibiJayMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Probably, oral is the best part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a deal breaker no, wouldn’t cancel a meet because of it no.

I do prefer to give rather than receive also unless I’m in a kink role play where the Dom in me requires the Sub to clean me

But def not a deal breaker

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By *cothereMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"That's a tough one. While I like receiving, I much prefer giving.

So not receiving wouldn't bother me, not giving might though.

L x"

Mrs B happy to let you give but would like to have a little taster in return

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By *cothereMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Enjoy getting and giving but as some said not a deal breaker and loads of other foreplay to be having

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he

Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.

Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them

But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it

So what I’m wondering is

If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.

I’d be pretty disappointed tbh receiving oral is one of my things

If I knew in advance then no

Relentless is a giver receiving a bj isn’t a big thing for him so if that was off the table it wouldn’t bother him

I do like to give though

Insatiable

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

I don't get why some guys don't like it. Love the look on a ladies face when you hit the right spot with my tounge have a cheeky look up while they look down at you big turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about everyone personal preferences.

I love oral sex. Always have since my teens. It’s such a nice part of foreplay. I actually prefer giving as making a woman or guy cum is such a turn on.

I love giving O and receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo need it both ways

So yeah it would put me off

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Ohhh given oral to both male & female def turn on to me.

Love receiving oral too but not receiving myself wouldn't be a put of as as a sub I have been denied any pleasure for myself & that can be so horny too

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Its an important part for me, more so giving than receiving. Importantly though, it depends on the reason for excluding it. Does that also exclude body kisses and teasing?

I find the play elements as important (if not more than) the actual sex. Otherwise it could be a short meet haha.

H x

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

So what I’m wondering is

If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.

Yeah, but I'm not so bothered by BJ's.

I do enjoy giving oral though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a huge BJ fan, don’t dislike it, but not the be all and end all. Having my face all consumed ‘doon there’ in the lady garden however... that’s a must or it’s not happening.

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