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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been messaging different women in my area to get chatting (im rather new to this). So far ive had little luck with replies, or my messages being read at all!

Ladies, whats the best way to stand out and be noticed?

Thanks in advance x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

An interesting profile with no cock pics usually gets my attention. I reply to profiles which intrigue and excite me and have a wide selection of decent photographs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Helpful! Thank you

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Helpful! Thank you"

You are welcome.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Just read the profile, it normally gets me to reply

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Firstly, Don't take it personally.

You have only been on here 3 weeks. Get a feel for the place and its people, work out what you are looking for and contact people who are what you're looking for.

Your age has probably a lot to do with it. Many women won't meet a guy so young/same age as their kids. Perso, I don't meet guys same age range as my sons.

Hmu?! Don't have a clue what it means and I don't have time to guess text speech and abbreviation when I read a profile. Plain, simple English for me works best.

Hope this helps. Good luck

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I reply to anyone cause I’m cheap and easy

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Firstly, Don't take it personally.

You have only been on here 3 weeks. Get a feel for the place and its people, work out what you are looking for and contact people who are what you're looking for.

Your age has probably a lot to do with it. Many women won't meet a guy so young/same age as their kids. Perso, I don't meet guys same age range as my sons.

Hmu?! Don't have a clue what it means and I don't have time to guess text speech and abbreviation when I read a profile. Plain, simple English for me works best. Good French too Max .

Hope this helps. Good luck

"

Edited for you Max .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, Don't take it personally.

You have only been on here 3 weeks. Get a feel for the place and its people, work out what you are looking for and contact people who are what you're looking for.

Your age has probably a lot to do with it. Many women won't meet a guy so young/same age as their kids. Perso, I don't meet guys same age range as my sons.

Hmu?! Don't have a clue what it means and I don't have time to guess text speech and abbreviation when I read a profile. Plain, simple English for me works best.

Hope this helps. Good luck

"

This...and I think hmu means hit me up though for me it means help me up

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Firstly, Don't take it personally.

You have only been on here 3 weeks. Get a feel for the place and its people, work out what you are looking for and contact people who are what you're looking for.

Your age has probably a lot to do with it. Many women won't meet a guy so young/same age as their kids. Perso, I don't meet guys same age range as my sons.

Hmu?! Don't have a clue what it means and I don't have time to guess text speech and abbreviation when I read a profile. Plain, simple English for me works best.

Hope this helps. Good luck

This...and I think hmu means hit me up though for me it means help me up "

Is this the new hip Velouria up with da youth ? Or is it yer auld hip means you need a haun up ?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

An interesting profile that captures my interest , creative/imaginative photos (preferably not dick pics) & an interesting message that shows my profile has been read and understood from someone who matches what I am looking for & has similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself a blank profile that says nothing, and just put loads of dick pics on, That's what the women love. And if your first message doesnt get read. Just keep sending them. Be persistent, And pushy try to appear desperate and just keep sending dick pics. Trust me, that's what women love. Thank me later.. lol.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Get yourself a blank profile that says nothing, and just put loads of dick pics on, That's what the women love. And if your first message doesnt get read. Just keep sending them. Be persistent, And pushy try to appear desperate and just keep sending dick pics. Trust me, that's what women love. Thank me later.. lol. "

Excellent advice! That's the approach almost all the other men use so it must be right!

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

This question is asked almost daily on the forum, and the profiles posting almost always have a cock as the main photo... A simple search will answer your question.

The cynic in me is beginning to think this a ploy by singles guys to get people to peep at their profiles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, Don't take it personally.

You have only been on here 3 weeks. Get a feel for the place and its people, work out what you are looking for and contact people who are what you're looking for.

Your age has probably a lot to do with it. Many women won't meet a guy so young/same age as their kids. Perso, I don't meet guys same age range as my sons.

Hmu?! Don't have a clue what it means and I don't have time to guess text speech and abbreviation when I read a profile. Plain, simple English for me works best.

Hope this helps. Good luck

This...and I think hmu means hit me up though for me it means help me up

Is this the new hip Velouria up with da youth ? Or is it yer auld hip means you need a haun up ? "

It's both my dear Steph, I'm mysterious and complex, oh wait I'm female that was a given anywho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your help

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Firstly, Don't take it personally.

You have only been on here 3 weeks. Get a feel for the place and its people, work out what you are looking for and contact people who are what you're looking for.

Your age has probably a lot to do with it. Many women won't meet a guy so young/same age as their kids. Perso, I don't meet guys same age range as my sons.

Hmu?! Don't have a clue what it means and I don't have time to guess text speech and abbreviation when I read a profile. Plain, simple English for me works best.

Hope this helps. Good luck

This...and I think hmu means hit me up though for me it means help me up

Is this the new hip Velouria up with da youth ? Or is it yer auld hip means you need a haun up ?

It's both my dear Steph, I'm mysterious and unfathomable , oh wait I'm female that was a given anywho "

Sorted for you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, Don't take it personally.

You have only been on here 3 weeks. Get a feel for the place and its people, work out what you are looking for and contact people who are what you're looking for.

Your age has probably a lot to do with it. Many women won't meet a guy so young/same age as their kids. Perso, I don't meet guys same age range as my sons.

Hmu?! Don't have a clue what it means and I don't have time to guess text speech and abbreviation when I read a profile. Plain, simple English for me works best.

Hope this helps. Good luck

This...and I think hmu means hit me up though for me it means help me up

Is this the new hip Velouria up with da youth ? Or is it yer auld hip means you need a haun up ?

It's both my dear Steph, I'm mysterious and unfathomable , oh wait I'm female that was a given anywho

Sorted for you . "

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To boabie pic or not to boabie pic...that is the question"

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By *upiter4meMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

[Removed by poster at 28/01/20 20:41:23]

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By *upiter4meMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Have just deleted the dic pics from my profile after reading this!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Firstly, Don't take it personally.

You have only been on here 3 weeks. Get a feel for the place and its people, work out what you are looking for and contact people who are what you're looking for.

Your age has probably a lot to do with it. Many women won't meet a guy so young/same age as their kids. Perso, I don't meet guys same age range as my sons.

Hmu?! Don't have a clue what it means and I don't have time to guess text speech and abbreviation when I read a profile. Plain, simple English for me works best. Good French too Max .

Hope this helps. Good luck

Edited for you Max . "

Haha merci Steph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct "

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Make friends, not conquests.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself. "

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me "

Not that I'm saying you're wrong - far from it, but some folk may not realise it's bait. Highly intelligent, worldly people like yourself obviously won't be fooled. PM me if you want to discuss in depth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me "

Damn... So that's why you ignored me.. I should have called you a frigid, time wasting fake..

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Damn... So that's why you ignored me.. I should have called you a frigid, time wasting fake.. "

What a horrible thing to say! Bordering on bullying and harassment! I've a good mind to knock you off your horse with my lance, Sir Jack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Damn... So that's why you ignored me.. I should have called you a frigid, time wasting fake..

What a horrible thing to say! Bordering on bullying and harassment! I've a good mind to knock you off your horse with my lance, Sir Jack. "

Keep your lance in your pants..

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Damn... So that's why you ignored me.. I should have called you a frigid, time wasting fake..

What a horrible thing to say! Bordering on bullying and harassment! I've a good mind to knock you off your horse with my lance, Sir Jack.

Keep your lance in your pants.. "

Guys like you reading sexual connotations into everything is the reason us good guys can't get replies! Take him to the judas cradle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Damn... So that's why you ignored me.. I should have called you a frigid, time wasting fake..

What a horrible thing to say! Bordering on bullying and harassment! I've a good mind to knock you off your horse with my lance, Sir Jack.

Keep your lance in your pants..

Guys like you reading sexual connotations into everything is the reason us good guys can't get replies! Take him to the judas cradle!

"

It's also why i get more messages than most women on here

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Damn... So that's why you ignored me.. I should have called you a frigid, time wasting fake..

What a horrible thing to say! Bordering on bullying and harassment! I've a good mind to knock you off your horse with my lance, Sir Jack.

Keep your lance in your pants..

Guys like you reading sexual connotations into everything is the reason us good guys can't get replies! Take him to the judas cradle!

It's also why i get more messages than most women on here "

It's a shame I can't pm you. If you've any spares or any of them fancy mmf, gimme a shout.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Damn... So that's why you ignored me.. I should have called you a frigid, time wasting fake.. "

Yeah, that would have made a bigger impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Damn... So that's why you ignored me.. I should have called you a frigid, time wasting fake..

What a horrible thing to say! Bordering on bullying and harassment! I've a good mind to knock you off your horse with my lance, Sir Jack.

Keep your lance in your pants..

Guys like you reading sexual connotations into everything is the reason us good guys can't get replies! Take him to the judas cradle!

It's also why i get more messages than most women on here

It's a shame I can't pm you. If you've any spares or any of them fancy mmf, gimme a shout. "

Unfortunately for us, they would be more into mmm

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Not that I'm saying you're wrong - far from it, but some folk may not realise it's bait. Highly intelligent, worldly people like yourself obviously won't be fooled. PM me if you want to discuss in depth. "

No need for messages. Brownie points earned. Just come over and shag me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Not that I'm saying you're wrong - far from it, but some folk may not realise it's bait. Highly intelligent, worldly people like yourself obviously won't be fooled. PM me if you want to discuss in depth.

No need for messages. Brownie points earned. Just come over and shag me now "

Is that before, after or with me.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Ask them if they have ever been sold PPI

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Not that I'm saying you're wrong - far from it, but some folk may not realise it's bait. Highly intelligent, worldly people like yourself obviously won't be fooled. PM me if you want to discuss in depth.

No need for messages. Brownie points earned. Just come over and shag me now

Is that before, after or with me. "

Get yer own ya filthy sod!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Not that I'm saying you're wrong - far from it, but some folk may not realise it's bait. Highly intelligent, worldly people like yourself obviously won't be fooled. PM me if you want to discuss in depth.

No need for messages. Brownie points earned. Just come over and shag me now

Is that before, after or with me.

Get yer own ya filthy sod! "

So it's OK for me to share my cast offs with you but you're a greedy selfish b'stard.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Judging from folks posts kiss ass and say they are always correct

I think you are spot on kola.. Couldn't have said it better myself.

You boys do know it's quite obvious when someone says exactly what they think we want to hear

No reply to those from me

Not that I'm saying you're wrong - far from it, but some folk may not realise it's bait. Highly intelligent, worldly people like yourself obviously won't be fooled. PM me if you want to discuss in depth.

No need for messages. Brownie points earned. Just come over and shag me now

Is that before, after or with me.

Get yer own ya filthy sod!

So it's OK for me to share my cast offs with you but you're a greedy selfish b'stard. "

People happen, things change. *shrug*

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

OP I don’t see that you’ve taken on much of the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been messaging different women in my area to get chatting (im rather new to this). So far ive had little luck with replies, or my messages being read at all!

Ladies, whats the best way to stand out and be noticed?

Thanks in advance x"

You've probably been messaging some frigid lesbians by mistake. Try pinging off a post or two to some cum hungry slags instead. That should see your numbers rise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been messaging different women in my area to get chatting (im rather new to this). So far ive had little luck with replies, or my messages being read at all!

Ladies, whats the best way to stand out and be noticed?

Thanks in advance x

You've probably been messaging some frigid lesbians by mistake. Try pinging off a post or two to some cum hungry slags instead. That should see your numbers rise."

Or do some research, search for posts on similar subjects (there MUST be at least ONE

Oh and then there’s the faq’s, site help.... etc etc etc.....

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