FabSwingers.com forum: Boys v girls

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh my there seems to be a lot of friction between the the boys and girls on fabswingers . I have observed various boys not handling rejection very well and then becoming abusive . Not good boys .

And then the girls becoming very upset and venting there anger out in very inappropriate posts . It's funny to a point , then not very pleasant by everyone.

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Your very observant

. Its not a new phenomenon and has been going on for years. And to some extent also happens out in the big wide world. It's just that it's recorded more on here, allowing everyone to see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say the majority of men (ones I've encountered on here anyway) know how to conduct themselves.

As is the case with everything though, a small vocal minority will stand out and they deserve everything they get based on the pms I've seen sent to some single females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anger is easier to deal with than fear: fear that you are unloved, unattractive and unwanted. Dealing with rejection is easier if you transmute feelings of fear and embarrassment into aggression and anger - it then has an outlet. There is no outlet for pent-up fear.

Most angry people are actually quite afraid, and I feel sad for them.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Oh my there seems to be a lot of friction between the the boys and girls on fabswingers . I have observed various boys not handling rejection very well and then becoming abusive . Not good boys .

And then the girls becoming very upset and venting there anger out in very inappropriate posts . It's funny to a point , then not very pleasant by everyone.

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This isnt a new thing and been going on for years.

Just try and stear clear of any conflict .

Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anger is easier to deal with than fear: fear that you are unloved, unattractive and unwanted. Dealing with rejection is easier if you transmute feelings of fear and embarrassment into aggression and anger - it then has an outlet. There is no outlet for pent-up fear.

Most angry people are actually quite afraid, and I feel sad for them. "

Mr was saying this recently about one of his old mates. I met first met him years ago and always found him quite sweet. But our interactions were as me being his mate's gf. Lost count of the number of times Mr told me he'd been nothing short of an obnoxious prick to women in pubs who had done nothing wrong. Almost like getting the first punch in during a fight (metaphorical example! He was never physical.) If they then rejected him, after he'd acted like an arsehole, then he was right all along and they were all "bitches".

Boils down to having zero self esteem I think though that doesn't excuse the behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us are lovely though

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Some of us are lovely though

I would say 95% are lovely which makes it all worthwhile.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

They are all hilarious best one yet was against Billy's then in another thread bullying someone you just couldn't make it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a boy v girl thing.

Your either an arsehole or your not.

Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes indeed

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